Why do I fall in love so fast?

[Anonymous]

I already liked this girl for like 2 months but didn’t talk really because I was too nervous and Wednesday I talked to her for all 10 hours of my shift. Literally liked her more and more. It sucks because I don’t even know if she likes me and it’s been one day and I’m like drowning in this feeling. But it’s the best I’ve felt in so long can’t really explain.

[Beatrix7]

because you fall in love quick doesn't mean u just want lust i have fell in love to quick a few times because theyve made me feel wanted gained there trust and a year or 2 later they cheat or dont have time for me cause there pumping any girl they can find that loves there cock i like a strong man that can say no a have a girlfriend and not ditch me every single time a friend wants him to go out brave man thst wants only me has a heart of gold like i have be loving caring wild in bed but also show his sweet side to av always liked the bad guys but as i grew up i decided a caring strong man is better than a guy that to bad anyway

[Asker]

Like lowkey I agree but with girls. This girl had made me feel like nothing else mattered but me and her at the moment. I can for sure say I don’t stick my thing in any girl that asks or flirts lol that’s just weird to me at least. Most girls for me will stop talking/texting me randomly and it gets so frustrating I don't know if I’m different over the phone as I am in person or what it is. But I appreciate the comment

[Beatrix7]

well my ex was bad for pumping a girl that commented on his dick if he had a girlfriend he's still cheating the nos on his other girlfriend with a new girl who is his girlfriend to scum sucking rodent

[aoihewgf]

Obviously it's not love but you experience such strong emotion because you haven't been with enough women yet.

My first unrequited loves in middle school/high school produced the butterfly feeling you hear about. First couple times with sex, same thing, first girlfriend, same thing. Over time, the feeling never gets as high as before. I certainly have nevrfelt butterflies last 18 I think

[Asker]

I’ve talked to plenty of women but I’ve dated only 1 and that one is different than most women I feel , not in a good way. But this feels real like I’m getting to know her and everything but I don't know if she sees me as the little kid that likes the teen you know? Like “it’s cute but I’d never date him”. But weirdly yesterday after talking, every girl that I found attractive is not at all attractive. Well I mean to me they’re not, to others they’re still beautiful women. I get what you mean about the butterflies and I do get that sometimes

[aoihewgf]

I agree man, haven't felt like that for a woman in ages

[aoihewgf]

I mean so quick

[Hulk_kitty]

Your not in love with her, you have lust for her. You are just very excited about her.

[LiamJHayden]

Emotions can be liars. Always try to take a step back and analyze it logically.

[Asker]

That’s super true. I’m definitely taking it slow but deep down I want to date her. Many times with friends and other stuff, it’s been shown that people aren’t always how they seem at first.

[LiamJHayden]

All I'm saying is double check feelings with logic. If she seems like a decent person aside from the emotions, then give it a try.