Red flags in men to avoid if you’re looking a committed and loyal life partner to marry?

[Anonymous]

Just what the title says lol

[LazerBean]

A body count of more than 1. Realistically if they aren't a virgin then the relationship is already more likely to fail, but I'm trying to be generous.

From a broken family

Already been in many relationships

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[Asker]

Thank you for your comment, have you met many men that have been to therapy?

[LazerBean]

Not that have volunteered that information at least lol one guy I talked to for a while had chronic depression. I don't know if he was going to therapy or not, since we both moved on after that.

[Asker]

I hope more men go to therapy it would be very beneficial, the idea of dating fixing unresolved attachment issues and family issues doesn't work it doesn't fill a void. i feel like barely any men have went to therapy in the uk.

[LazerBean]

Definitely. And personally I would add mental illness and unresolved trauma to my original list. It's one of the reasons I fizzled out on talking to the guy with chronic depression. We're still friends, and he ended up marrying a great woman. A lot of things about him just wasn't for me lol