What are red flags or traits you avoid in potential partners?

[gothbxtch]

i think these images are good, i totally agree with both

[FireFox001]

I would avoid any girl who subscribes today's feminism. Equal rights and equal opportunities are okay and I'd die for that right. But beyond that it's simply misandry. This shit goes both ways, you know. For example, I don't want to have my life in the hands of a female firefighter who got the job with less requirements, because she is a woman.

But let's go through each and every one of them:

- Boys who are rude to their mothers: Well, maybe their mothers were pieces of shit to them. You cannot know without context.

- Boys who don't respect your physical boundaries: Correct

- Boys who pressure you to send nudes: Correct (and you can always send an erect horsecock as a nude)

- Boys who start fights: Correct

- Boys who use slurs: EVERYONE FUCKING CURSES. Get over it. Besides in my native language, black people are actually called néger and it is not a slur in any ways. Calling them "black", however, IS a slur, because then you categorise them by colour.

- Boys who comment on a girls appearance... : Well, you can't shut people up. You are entitled to appear as you want, and they are entitled to comment on it.

- Rape jokes: You can make any joke that you want, that does not make you a bad person.

As for the girls (I am getting lazy, so answers in order):

- It is unmanly to cry in a lot of situations.

- Correct

- Correct

- Some girls ARE bitches and it is right to name them as such.

- Correct, and this is an actual issue. For me, several girls have violated my own space without being asked inside of it - just because they thought they were being cute. But that does not mean you get to touch me...

- I can't understand this one.

- Correct.

[SnowedIn]

I'm far from the dating scene but here are the two that are, if you will, the Rubicon:

• Can they turn their phone off and have a conversation?
• Are the kind/thoughtful/polite to servers/baristas/cashiers.

Start there.


Your images are awesome.

[gothbxtch]

thank you they wrre a good find!! totally agreed with both of those. people who are impolite to servers and etc instantly give bad vibes

[SnowedIn]

Like... it's a window into everything else. Sure, we all have bad days, but, it's a good litmus test

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO!

[ItsChloe]

I’ve been told that I’m a red flag but for different reasons than the ones in the pictures. I’ve been told I’m toxic, not girlfriend material, and I am a big red flag for the following reasons:

I prefer to have hook ups and one night stands rather than being in a relationship.

When I have previously been in relationships I’ve always dumped and ghosted my boyfriends whenever I find an upgrade.

Apparently I live a toxic lifestyle because I’m on OnlyFans and make a lot of money.

[jennifer_bloom]

A stingy guy or a guy who is critical or taxing or impatient or sexually self gratifying - I don’t mean he is stingy by withholding gifts, I mean he gets angry if he buys you dinner and you don’t reward him with unconditional love or marriage.

[Berethor]

So that about why women should not date me? I have complex relationship with feminism and my mother, I like bashing childless feminists but I also find female warriors cool. You need to be asked to comment on appearance? not really. 😎

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Beauty_Equals_Goodness

https://www.youtube.com/embed/R22wHwWlnIk

[4ngelic]

being a dick, clinginess, controlling behavior, incel/red pill mindset, bad hygiene, extreme laziness, using drugs more than super occasionally, wants to get serious really fast, getting mad when you dont want to do every single little thing they want you to do, getting pissed easily, trying to change you, doesn't respect you

[Spongebobssocks]

I would stay away from male feminists 🤔😂 i'm not a feminist either but am still for equality of choice which we already have in the western world:)

The slurs doesn't say anything either. Rape jokes depends.. if its an actual joke it needs a punchline but dont see if that would be funny..

If he comment on my appereance out of love because im unhealthy like underweight/obese then I'd like that but not just stuff to hurt me.

Agree to disagree to the rest!

[Spongebobssocks]

I mean agree to disagree to those stuff and the rest I agree with😃

[Anonymous]

Red flags

• Is a feminist
• Is negative about incels
• Likes sjw stuff on social media
• Consider it negative to be anti-sjw
• Thinks racism is a oneway street and somehow white people can't be victims of it

These are just red flags. A potential partner can learn that these things are wrong. Here are some things to avoid:

• Is a dude (I'm not gay)
• Is fat
• Has small tits
• Is a gold digger
• Is a sjw and post sjw shit herself
• Is a pedo

[Anonymous]

- women with a history of cheating

- women who are overweight

- women with mental health problems

- women who are on antidepressants

- women who claim their ex was abusive but when you ask in what way can't exactly describe the abuse or claim it was emotional abuse.

- women who can't cook

-women who won't clean

- single mothers

- women who claim to be a strong independent woman

- women who want special treatment & extra rights rather than equality

- women who keep thirsty guys in their DMs

- women who treat or are abusive to waiters and others on the service industry

- women with low moral standards or who have friends with low moral standards

[Opinion Owner]

- women who claim to be and other sexuality other than straight and any other gender other than female.

[gothbxtch]

so basically any woman and also people who aren’t even women.

[Opinion Owner]

Uh huh. Says a lot about you

[gothbxtch]

agreed with you on service industry though

[Christoff92]

Hot head attitude
Short term anger
Bias
Arrogant
Know it all. Who would contradict my opinions and beliefs.
Needs to give me appraisals. Pretty much a sexist. Who also mocks and makes fun of me.
Not courteous. Can't have an intimacy relationship with me. Etc.

[Zatsuma]

Indecisive, lack of chivalry, you can still see the outline of his wedding ring on his finger, looking at every female that walks past while on first date, their phone keeps going off every minute and they try and ignore it. So many more to mention.

[JesseP1nk]

Red flags of a woman

1) Bad hygiene

2) Feminists ( i would like to take care of my woman instead. I dont wanna date a woman who acts like a man and bring man energy to relationship)

3) Who is rude to others

4) Materialistlic

[haiuyu]

A red flag is someone who does not introduce you to his friends or family, and cares less about you

[Provingdatruth]

Ditsy voices
Fear of harmless bugs or reptiles
Visible tattoos
Can’t kill a lousy spider by themselves
Asks what I do for work right when she meets me
Old enough to have a kid that is grown up
Single mom
Has misophonia
Wears yoga pants but doesn’t do yoga
Thick eyebrows

[inhua]

here's another one.

saying it's "hate speech" for speaking the uncomfortable truth

[gothbxtch]

well sure, if it actually is the truth. contextless that sounds a little sus

[mandyfire98]

Everything in your illustrations I agree with. I'll add just overall misogyny and narcissism to my list and someone overtly insecure.

[hiyamotherfers]

I try to avoid guys who use the term nxxger, who are rude to their mom, and who dont know when to stop

[Ms_Facesitter]

Controlling, very insecure, very jealous, flirty with people in general, still has feelings for his ex, rude, violent, drugs, alcoholic, pessimistic

[exitseven]

If she has a ton of ex boyfriends and drives an old beat up Camaro with the front passengers seat piled up with fast food wrappers.

[Agape93]

Narcissism
Controlling behavior
Jealousy
No tolerance or open mindedness
Lying

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Non Christian.

Talks to damn much.

Is stupid.

Liar.

[Nikki1989]

I agree with all those red flags.

[WhitneySnow]

I agree with those images too

[BrookeS]

I agree with them two