Do you want a relationship without having kids?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Now I do lol , I already had kids and they are pretty much grown so for me To start over is definitely not on my to do list , I don’t mind if a girl already has kids I just don’t want to make more I want to pretend to make more lol I just want a girl that wants to spoil each other and travel and share things with , enjoy each others company and love each other , have lots of intimacy and affection and just live out the rest of our lives together , but sadly that’s been hard to find these days for whatever reason but I keep trying hoping I find the one

nolabels · Accepted Answer

That's what I had planned on.

It didn't work out that way.

A kid came along.

That was more than a quarter of a century ago.

He moved out today.

I'll let you know if things get better as time passes from here on out.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

As someone that doesn't like or want kids, that would be the only acceptable relationship I would choose to be!

I warn guys upfront during the initial, "get to know each other" stage that no, I don't want or plan to ever have kids. Why? That way if he doesn't share my ideals, I'm not wasting his time and vice versa, and we can go our separate ways.

Nothing personal against people that want kids, but no, it's definitely not for everyone.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

No. After my experience of being with someone that 100% doesn’t want kids, I decided I want to pass down my genes

Berethor · Answer

Feminism like in Japan? I am 35, and I am not looking for a casual relationship so no.

Simslover92 · Answer

No I want to have kids someday soon and a marriage.

hbg84 · Answer

I've given up on the idea of having kids. Haven't had a relationship long enough to result with kids. Plus haven't had a relationship in years. I'd like to have at least one kid. Cuz I'm at the age were I'm almost to old to raise a kid

MemeSupreme · Answer

i'd consider it if my partner wanted to because apart of me thinks i wouldn't do well as a parent

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I do... and I'll get to live that dream as soon as I figure out who will buy the kids. I'm not giving the kids away for free. Geez.

Quackthulu2 · Answer

I want all of the relationships, and none of the kids.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I was not able to have kids, so eventually I found someone that couldn't have kids either, purely by accident.

lightbulb27 · Answer

I did for long time, but got past that and would, but it's too late.

TheThingALing · Answer

I'd rather have kids without the relationship haha

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Ideally, yeah, but it'd have to be the right person.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I am fine without. I have CBAVD so unless I go through the extraction and she goes through artificial insemination, I won't be having any biological children.

Anonymous · Answer

No, i want to get married and have kids. Family life is best.

exitseven · Answer

I could have gone either way. I ended up having 3 kids and now I am glad that I did.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I could see myself being very happy regardless of whether I have kids.

Jltakk · Answer

Sure, only because I am not father material and wouldn't want my child to have to deal with that. To some this sounds sad, but its just calling it like it is.

Summeroflove · Answer

I want kids after I’m married

DizzyDesii · Answer

Nah I want kids more than a relationship tbh

Sour-rose · Answer

Yes? somethin' da matter?

RavVid · Answer

And under 12 months as well.

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap, kids is an automatic deal breaker.

Tiffany1996 · Answer

I’m perfectly fine with not having human kids.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes that's what I want

Anonymous · Answer

Fuck them keeds

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, I do!

LavLavLuv · Answer

Sure

Slim57 · Answer

Yes please

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