My fiancé, who doesn’t use instagram very much “liked” his ex gfs bikini photo. We’re in a LDR. Overreacting?

[Anonymous]

I found out my fiancé, who claims he doesn’t use instagram very much “liked” his ex gfs bikini picture post from 2 days ago. We’re doing long distance and just had a conversation about trust because he said he’s been having a hard time trusting lately. Neither of us have ever been unfaithful, and I trust him. But long distance makes it really hard sometimes. I saw this and it made me feel suspicious and have a sinking feeling like maybe I’m being played. Am I crazy?

[richardcory]

Other than it being long distance, how are things otherwise? Some people stay in touch with their ex's if they parted on good terms. (I do). Also some people just click "like" on lots of things.

If things are good between you otherwise, I wouldn't worry

[MJackson1234]

No you are not and that is disrespectful. But at the same time do you post pictures of bikinis because it works both ways.

If you ask me what would I do? I personally would post a few pictures of bikinis and just sit back and watch his reaction. Then let him call me and listen to his complains. Then say oh so and so posted theirs and you liked. Let me remind you that my respect to you and our relationship will always go as far as your reciprocate it.

[itsalyssaagain]

No you’re not crazy. He shouldn’t be following his ex and he certainly shouldn’t be liking her photos especially if she’s in a bikini.


Don’t let him gaslight you into thinking you’re overreacting. That is extremely disrespectful.

[Spade_01]

He shouldn't even be following his ex let alone 'liking' her picture.

[Anonymous]

A LDR and Instagram?

[In_Trance]

Stay off his social media