My fiance doesn’t care if I post bikini pictures on social media?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys,
my fiance and i have been together for 8 years. i asked him last night if i can post bikini pictures and he said “no maybe it will change who you are” then i asked “so you don’t care if i get attention from other people” he said “i don’t” then i tried calling him and he wouldn’t answer. i had asked him this question before and he would say no, now all of a sudden he says he wouldn’t care. is that weird? is this a sign telling me he doesn’t care anymore?

[JacobJordan]

Why do you keep asking him if you can do something he has already answered... his answer has not changed he is just tired of having to answer the same stupid ass question over and over. Secondly why do you need the validation of others when it comes to your looks? you are engaged to be married start fuckin acting like it and stop starting bullshit before he dumps you and finds a better woman.

[RavVid]

In the quoted phrases he hasn't said that. He said No to bikini pics. He also said he didn't care if you got attention. In a lot of ways we just have to live with our girl getting attention because it happens anyway.

However there is a lot of difference if our girl is seeking attention.

You are running two separate responses together and twisting his words.

[sheikalana]

You know men get annoyed when you ask them the same question multiple times.

[Asker]

yes, he might not want to be with me anymore

[sheikalana]

Stop annoying him.

[RavVid]

You have a good grasp of men

[spartan55]

Since you asked him multiple times he was tired of hearing about it. Why ask him repeatedly hoping he would change his mind. So annoying.

[Asker]

i didn’t ask him about me posting bikini pictures multiple times, i asked if he likes girls bikini pictures and if he still follow bikini girls on instagram

[spartan55]

Same general topic. You sound absolutely exhausting.

[Haraklus]

... I'm sorry to say this, but you are a really bad communicator. That is not what you are making this sound like at all in your question.

[spartan55]

She's probably back pedaling now

[Asker]

I've been dealing with insecurity for a long time and its been worse for a long time. he has been following girls bikini girls and liking their pictures and he never stopped. he says he doesn’t do it anymore but I don't know if i believe him. i ask him all the time if he is still liking pictures or if im still attractive to him. so last night i asked him if he would care if i post bikini pictures and he said no because maybe it will change me and i asked he wouldn’t care if i get attention from other people and he said no.

[spartan55]

Your insecurity is not his problem. How old your fiance?

[Asker]

32 and i’m 32 as well. well i understand but he has followed, liked girls pictures, screen shot them and DMed them telling them they are pretty when in a relationship with me. i think that would cause some insecurities don’t you think?

[Haraklus]

Frankly, a dude who follows girls who post bikini pics to their feeds isn't a dude you should be with. That's like a guy getting with a girl who goes clubbing all the time.

[spartan55]

Now that's different, and over the line. Why are you planning on marrying a guy who clearly doesn't respect you?

[summiter]

It is only a bikini. Guys will see you wearing it on a beach or a pool so what is the difference?

[Asker]

he said the same thing actually

[123Justme123]

Don't over think it. If you really think he will care don't post them. Go with your gut feeling

[Asker]

i sent you a friend request. i’ll like to ask you some questions if that’s okay

[123Justme123]

That's fine

[DrPepper12]

Wtf? Post away! Your body, your autonomy and your choice how to be you. Tell him to grow up and shut up. When he sees the attn you get maybe dumass will pause and see how good he's got it! ,🙄

[Bobbysworld]

Sometimes some women tend to be like reading the terms and conditions. After a while we just ignore and click agree and move on... don't be that woman

[Jay-_-]

I think I know what's going on he wants to see what you would do, honestly if he is upset I wouldn't blame him 🤷🏽

[jahaims]

He doesn't care because you don't care. If you don't respect yourself he won't respect you.

[FunkyMonkee]

Okay so, where is it?

[Sam12348]

You are pissing him off

[Asker]

yes i can imagine. he has told me recently that all i do is complain about why he doesn’t take me out on dates, why he follows bikini girls and why he likes their pictures? also I've called him a hand full of times asking if he’s sure that he wants to be with me because all i do is nag

[Sam12348]

Hmm sounds like there is a problem. Talk about it. If things don't work out then move on

[Asker]

he doesn’t want to. he says he is tired of talking about the same problem and i keep asking and being insecure. he says he doesn’t like pictures anymore, but I don't know if i believe him.

[Sam12348]

Move on. It sounds like he doesn't want to work on it

[JamesRandiDebates]

Well send me some.