What if I made out with my same gender friend, is it less painful for a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I made out with someone else but with another girl. I'm bi. Is that less painful to a boyfriend? Is it just as wrong as if it would've been with another man or not?

[Pinay_ako]

It’s still cheating. It’s like him making out with another man. How do you feel about that?

[Asker]

That would be a surprise. For some reason people tend to react more (negatively) when it's two men together vs two women.

[Pinay_ako]

I think it’s same thing. Fair is fair. You still kissing another person.

[Anonymous]

It seems a lot of bisexual women think like that. My ex was bi. I didn't know that when we started dating, and I don't even know if she knew. I found out she cheated on me with two different women while we were together. She told me didn't see it as cheating because it wasn't with a man.

I will never date another woman whose sexual needs I can't satisfy as a man.

[Anonymous]

It’s not wrong I’d you’re not my girlfriend lol it’s also not wrong I’d you two are hot chicks making out which usually is never the case. But if I’m dating a girl who is making out w another girl then yes it’s bad, it’s cheating. What’s the point of being together if you’re giving out my cookies to other people?

[Screenwriter]

It is equally wrong if you and your boyfriend have had an exclusive relationship. Cheating is cheating.

You need to decide if you want to stay with this boyfriend or have your fun elsewhere. Sounds like you've already made your decision.

[Smashingdoozy]

It shouldn't be less painful. It's still cheating. It's equally as wrong. people who say it's less painful just don't respect lesbian relationships and see them as nothing more than sexual.

[Asker]

I think this has to do with the fact that several guys on other threads and elsewhere have expressed over the years of not feeling that threatened with another woman vs if it were another man.

[UniquelyBasic]

I think it would be less painful but still painful because you went behind his back.

[Berethor]

Yes most guys are forgiving of girl on girl, me too, and I am territorial when it comes to guys.

[Asker]

This is what I've heard over the years. Many men just don't feel threatened by another woman.

[Berethor]

Yea, because woman can't impregnate other woman, also there is chance for a FFM.

[richardcory]

Depends on the guy on how he would feel. Some would think its just as much like cheating. Some wouldn't care. Some would want to be invited to join.

[God_of_Thunder]

Cheating is cheating, regardless of the gender. Just because it's with another woman does not make it ok.

[Crankor]

The I'd be perfectly ok with a girlfriend making out with another girl. Maybe it's a guy thing. Def doesn't feel nearly as bad if at all ha

[Anonymous]

It's still cheating and it hurts just as much as it would if you slept with a guy

[EaterPeter]

Let's be a boyfriend and girlfriend and then I will be able to tell

[Anonymous]

You cheated no more no less, being bi doesn't give you license to cheat.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Cheating is cheating.

[mommymommymommy]

Anti gay people will tell you it's wrong

[Juxtapose]

It's still cheating and will hurt.

[Anonymous]

That would be cheating in my book

[Opinion Owner]

It would be more painful because I would just think she's secretly a lesbian who's just using me for protection and money 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

I've always had attraction towards both genders. I love my boyfriend but also have feelings for my friend.

[Opinion Owner]

I would never date a "bisexual" girl (to me, there's no such thing. You're either straight or you're a lesbian) but this is about your boyfriend...

If you really love him, you'll tell him and let him decide if he still wants to be with you. I can tell you that if my girl cheated on me, I would never be able to forgive her if she didn't tell me about it herself. There would be zero chance of working it out if I found out on my own.