Would you be okay with your partner having friends of the opposite sex?

[Anonymous]

Yes i would freely

Yes but only if i can see their text messages and or be there when they hang out

no never

[Peter_Penetrator]

If a man can continue to romance his partner or a woman continues romancing her partner then both should be at peace.


A jealous man forgets that if he is doing everything right in a relationship, his partners male orbiters will be friend zoned. Once friend zoned; it is like light escaping a black hole. Friend Zoned men can’t give a woman what her partner can. That is why she chose not to friend zone her lover.

[EssenceOfLight]

Only if I know they are gay. Otherwise no.
It's just self reflection. If I have a female friend it's just question of time we land in the sheet or I reject her and end the friendship.

[ariadneR]

Absolutely, because at the end of the day he comes home to me. I trust him and we communicate. He'll he's my friend and my lover, I don't hide anything from him

[ArwenCalcifur]

@ariadneR That is awesome! :) I think lots of those I know tend to be very insecure with their partner. Honestly, I am new to all of this, and trying to feel things out... though I am really really insecure with myself.

[ariadneR]

@ArwenCalcifur thanks! Dint get me wrong, there are moments where I get bouts of insecurity and u need reassurance, but he's always right there. Reminding me that I don't have to worry.

[Nikki1989]

We both have many friends of the opposite sex. I don't know how that could a problem.

[Asker]

👍🏻👍🏻

[AviatorTom]

My SO and I each have friends of the opposite sex. Not a problem.

[DextroShade]

Absolutely not, my wife has no male friends because they couldn't really be her friends because they want to smash. I do trust her, but I also trust the locks on my doors but doesn't mean I want a bunch of dudes trying them to see if they can get them open. Any time we'd have a fight or argument these dudes would be there talking shit about me or plying her with alcohol to try to get in her pants. And miss me with that "you're insecure!" BS, I am very secure because I can set boundaries; it's you simps who are too afraid to set boundaries for fear of losing her who are truly insecure.

[Asker]

Would you feel the same if you met the guys and they were either clearly gay/knew her for 20 years and they never dated..

[justJoshua555]

dating you should not force your partner to look for the gender before looking at the person's intentions and way of respecting. To make a good friend, gender should be the last thing to see.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t think so. Nothing good ever comes out of that and guys always want something from her and I are just waiting around for the right time to score

[linka_pat307]

Yes, I think there is nothing wrong with it, instead it proves how he is free with people

[Exterminatore]

Nah. Biz Markie taught me to never talk to a girl who says she just has a friend.

[Unit1]

Yes. I can have opposite sex friends too. And transgender too.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes it seems healthy if she has friends. Wouldn’t want her to feel lonely or restricted

[Sparkie460]

She already has friends who are men. She's been friends with them since before I met her

[najekim]

Sure. I know where her heart lays and where she sleeps, with me. :)

[Matt-G]

Depends on the level really... There isn't a catch-all.

[shades777]

Women like to brag about like its some badge of honor but in reality that shit is disgusting.

[asphaltrhymes]

Sure. it's a free country 😊😎

[WanderingLoveWizard]

There's nothing I or anyone can do about it

[dudeinohio]

No. Too risky. I know how guys are

[SnowedIn]

Totally yes!

[anon1903]

With my consent? Yes

[htmndg183]

Yes.