No. All of my exes are exes because they’ve cheated on me. My trust level is in the negatives. I know it is unhealthy to have a relationship with someone who isn’t aloud to have friends of the opposite sex but they always end up spending more time with them than with their actual partner and “accidents” happen which I could not forgive. This is part of the reason why I have chosen to stay single for almost 9 years now. Also the reason why I don’t trust bisexual people. Especially now in a day and age where it is encouraged of women to be promiscuous and sell their bodies online for $$$ while claiming said body is sacred. Women are hypocritical creatures. Until I can find one who I can fully trust, I’ll change my mind. But I don’t see that happening.
No. Once you are in a relationship you have to show respect to the other person you are in a relationship with, and being around someone of the opposite sex especially alone with them isn't showing respect to your man or woman.
Depends how close they are but my boyfriend and I don’t really have friends of the opposite sex we just aren’t very social. I only really talk to male coworkers. I’ve had negative experiences having male friends before because most tried to flirt or get in my pants when I was in relationships so that’s a no go and I’m loyal.
She can be friends with whoever she wants, so can I.
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Absolutely not. ESPECIALLY if we’re married. Men know men. 99.99% of dudes are just waiting for their opportunity to have sex with your girl regardless if you are together or not. If they constantly play video games, FaceTime, etc. That’s not friendship. That man is courting your girl right in front of you and you’re letting it happen. Women will call men insecure for this. I call it protecting your marriage. Why can’t she do all those thing with a female friend? Most of time time women know when a male friend likes them. They just keep him around for validation and to feel good about themselves.
@savagewolf22 My husband is friends with one of them and the other is a former colleague from a place I volunteer. We meet for a coffee on occasion or keep up through text. My husband has not asked me to stop being friends with them, but he makes his silly remarks.
Why wouldn't I? I don't own her and if I want to have female friends, why couldn't she have male friends? I never understood that bullshit: once you get a boyfriend, you HAVE to stop being friends with every other guy, you CAN'T LOOK at any other guy you see on the street, you can't even notice that they exist, even if you're stuck with one in a elevator!! That's SO MUCH bullshit!!
women friends from my past I was like a counselor back, then on the phone service they’re always telling me all the stories about the guy wanting more and when her relationship starts failing, they go in for the kill to make the move for themselves I don’t trust it
It’s a phony friendship and no matter what the male friend always agrees with the girl automatically taking sides with the female friend over her boyfriend, and says things like how could he do that, that bastard, who does he think he is. Who does he think he’s messing with? You don’t do that to you. Maybe you should find somebody else little things to fuel the fire. Then tells the girl I’m always here for you and holds her hand. I don’t trust him with a 10 foot pole any of that stuff
I don't feel it's right because she gonna want to vent to that person and I don't want somewhere dude sitting there like yeah I can't believe he done that... and I won't lie I have a real good friend that's a female and ever the opportunity arises I'll be all over it haha and i hope it does😁
Just as long as they both know the boundaries and don’t cross the line, it’s fine. I mean, I had a lot of guy friends in the past and they knew their boundaries as did I and we both respected them.
Yes of course. I don't get the fuzz around it. But I let my girlfriend be friends with other girls just like straight guys should let their girls be friends with guys. If you are that insecure you should work on yourself, not on the other.
I would, but it all depends on what that friendship looks like.
If they're codependent as you described, that's not healthy in any kind of a relationship, so that wouldn't be okay with me. I need to be with a healthy person.
If they were friends already when we met then fine. I'd be suspicious if they made a new friend whilst we were involved. My OH has plenty of close male friends, mostly gay or married. I get along with most of them pretty well
I've had MULTIPLE people who are divorced tell me that's exactly what happened in their cases that precipitated the cheating, as the reason they got divorced, so no.
@Vegasrunner or they simply have no romantic interest in me. According to your description alpha males are just desperate nymphomaniacs with a lack of respect for themselves and others. Sexually pursuing literally everyone is in no way good and healthy and should not be encouraged by idiots making up terms on the internet.
@reds-noro That would literally be your description as I never said anything remotely like that. I'm sure u want to believe that guys are hanging out w/ you for your personality but reality is women don't have much use to men in friendship roles and provided the opportunity any of those guys would bang you it's just that beta males are typically scared of rejection so pretending to be friends is a safe way for them to get close.
@Vegasrunner I don't 'use' my friends. Friends don't need to have much 'use'. And if they would bang me when they got the chance they would've done so already. But they didn't.
You are just some sad and lonely troll. Using the internet to conceal your identity and yell stupid stuff at others. You are absolutely pathetic. A nearly worthless individual who devalues himself more and more with every word he speaks. Spreading lies just to make himself feel better about his horrible hidden personality.
@Vegasrunner they've had the chance to rape me, but they didn't because they respect people and have no romantic interest in me. Not everyone is as sad and lonely as you.
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