What do you think about student/teacher relationships?

[Simslover92]

The ones that are legal of course. Like professor/student. Not high school/middle school teachers.

I remember having a crush on one of my professors in grad school and I felt like he liked me too but I was too scared to actually do anything about it. Like I wanted to ask him out for drinks once I stopped being his student but I never got up the nerve to actually do it. I remember how taboo and forbidden it felt but at the same time hot being in his class. He was always so nice to me and we had great convos after class.

Now that I'm older I realize the unprofessional and unethical ramifications but then all I could think was being hot for teacher and possibly vice versa.

Was I wrong to have those kinds of thoughts about my professor? Is it perfectly normal to have those kinds of thoughts?

[SnowedIn]

The thoughts are normal.

Having any sort of relationship where the two are in the same class is wrong.

At most institutions it's against policy for any faculty member to have a relationship with any student to avoid issues.

[Simslover92]

Yeah that's what I figured which is why I never put him in that position of having to say no to me and we have an awkward relationship after that. I just let it remain a fantasy.

[SnowedIn]

You are very very smart. Well done.

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO!

[Simslover92]

You're welcome!

[msc545]

They are ok as long as the people are of legal age and the teachers is not the student's actual teacher.

[msc545]

Of course, if you are the man in this sort of situation now - you would be insane to take the risk of doing this. You could lose your job, your ability to teach anywhere, and your freedom.

[Simslover92]

I was 23 at the time and he was 35. I wanted to ask him out for drinks after I stopped being his student but the fact that I was still a student at the university gave me pause because I don't think he could do that even though I wasn't in his class anymore due to school's policy.

[Simslover92]

Yeah which is why I never did ask him for drinks. I didn't want to put him in an awkward situation or him reject my advances for that very reason and we have an awkward relationship after that.

[msc545]

Sorry that both of you missed out on what might have been a really good experience with each other. That is sad.

[Simslover92]

Yeah. It's definitely always something I wondered what would have happened if I had made a move. Like what if he did want to pursue something with me. Even after I stopped being a student there, I tried to look him up but couldn't find him. I guess it will just remain a fantasy that I had.

[msc545]

Not too late. Try whitepages. com to find him.

[Simslover92]

I forgot his name. I think it was Thomas something but can't remember the last name.

[msc545]

Maybe ask the school what his name was? They should have a record if he worked there.

[Simslover92]

I have a boyfriend though so it's really pointless.

[msc545]

For now it is.

[msc545]

thank you for MHO!

[Simslover92]

You're welcome!

[exitseven]

I think that if a professor has a relationship with a current student it is a big problem. I have known guys that did it. The student got the good grade she wanted and everyone was happy. I knew somebody who married a former student. I taught computer science so there were not many female students but I would never have gotten involved with one.

[RingOfFire]

Normal. I had the hots for my French teacher in HS. One day she asked me to stay after class and I almost passed out.

OOO LALA! <that's about all the French I remember after taking 9 years of it!

[SoJust]

my dream relationship 😁😁 I wanted him to lie down on the teachers' table in the classroom and fuck me with his pussy.

[Simslover92]

Huh?

[SoJust]

i have also experienced a teacher relationship situation in my time

[Simslover92]

Oh ok. How was it?

[SoJust]

I'm telling it this way, I'm taking private lessons from my teacher, and I want him every time we get together, I wish he'd lay me down on the table, take off my pants, blowjob, fuck and empty it for me, but unfortunately the teacher was married, and it never happened, I just hugged him once or twice and kissed him on the cheeks, but every time I hugged or kissed him on the cheeks, my penis lifted up, once he held my hand, my penis lifted up again

[shades777]

I was gonna say! glad you cleared that up. ah well I think its an issue because teachers play favorites with students they wanna plow which means play for grade

[Kelly6]

As long as it’s legal, there is nothing wrong with it.

[Kelly6]

In college I had a short term relationship with my professor.
I still have no negative thought on it

[HM1189]

Only if they well keep in secret, from their family and friends

[brandon1122]

It's normal how you felt.

[EaterPeter]

Not good