From about age 15 to 25, I used to go to a friend's house to swim. There was a neighbor girl who would come over a lot. I thought she was one of the most beautiful girls I had ever seen - the cutest face; big, blue eyes, a few freckles across her nose; wavy-curly, strawberry blond hair; flawless, pink and white skin; gorgeous legs; and the loveliest bubble butt ever made.
She had a crush on me, but I never did anything about it because she was too young - at least 2 or 3 years younger than me - and she was kind of a dim bulb. I didn't want to take advantage of her innocence.
I later heard that she had gotten married and moved away.
When I was 34, I had just come out of a slump in which I had gained weight due to my job and change in lifestyle. I had gotten back into really good shape.
She contacted me out of the blue. The timing was perfect. She said that she was near the end of a divorce. I invited her over and she was sexy as ever.
She lived 2.5 hours away and had shared custody with her kids.
We got into a sexual relationship. She was really good. I was fulfilling the fantasies I had about her when I was a kid.
She would come and stay with me sometimes. I had an all expenses paid company car, so I would sometimes drive out to spend weekends with her. We are getting along great.
At some point, she suggested that we rent a place together so that she could bring her kids sometimes. She had her own business and income, and said she would be getting a large settlement at the end of her divorce. I went for it. I rented out the condo I owned and we rented a house together.
It went really well for maybe 7 or 8 months but, over time, things started getting weird. She started having trouble paying her half of the rent. I discovered that she had emotional issues that had been diagnosed. She started acting like kind of a psycho.
Long story short. One day I went to work and when I returned that night, all her stuff and some of my stuff was cleared out, including $500 I had set aside for the next month's rent.
I drove out to see her and got the money back. Then I had to find a new place to live. Fortunately, that worked out because I found an apartment that I absolutely loved.
After almost a year together, I was glad to be rid of her. I figured it was my fault for being stupid enough to move in with her in the first place. She played me. But I don't really regret it because she gave great head and I got to fuck the ever loving crap out of my teen crush.
One of my exes was an alcoholic but on top of that her mom, 2 of her aunts, her grandma and her youngersisyer who was 8 or 9 drank. My ex pulled a chef's knife out and attempted to slice me with and was about to stab someone else but luckily I was able to get him out of the way. I called the police and had her arrested for attempted murder. On top of it her mom was arrested and had her youngest child taken and sent to Child Protective Services because she allowed her daughter who was 8 at the time to drink. Her youngest could drink whenever she wanted to as long as she was home. Basicalmy ex was a psychotic alcoholic.
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We dated for a month when we were 14. He walked me home from school almost everyday. In the last week of us dating, he walked me halfway home and then dragged me into an alley and raped me. And then he walked to his house and left me in the alley. I broke up with him and long story short, it kickstarted 2 years of him stalking, harassing, threatening, cyber bullying and spreading rumours about me. Aswell as having his friends take photos and videos of me in public and posting them online with cruel name calling.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. That just broke my heart reading that. I hope you are truly doing ok even though I know you could never get over something so horrible. I hope you have found a bit of peace and I hope you find happiness.
Can it be a friendship? I had a friend in college who said he treated his friends like garbage, in a fun way. He constantly called my autistic & ret***ed, and he really got on my nerves until like halfway through the semester and someone told him to lay off.
He was also an alcoholic, and to keep a story short, I had to call campus police to talk to him because he wouldn't listen to me. If he drove he was going to kill someone or himself (he has 6 ipa's) He proceeded to yell at me & were no longer friends.
I loved her and her children were stable it seemed and she seemed to want good things but she had horrible relationships with her own family she was constantly causing trouble at work and accusing people of sexism and while I thought that she was managing her money very well when I asked her to marry me she was living off of the court settlement from which she had earned thousands of dollars. I thought she was managing her money very well on her pitting salary but really she was just spending everything that she had earned from that settlement and I was just blind the reality. And when it came time for divorce I did not realize until after I had been fleeced in the courtroom that my lawyer and her lawyer were best friends and they were also buddies with the judge and the four of them conspired to just rake me over the coals and it caused me tens of thousands of dollars while she had contributed nothing to the marriage.
I dated somebody who used to abuse me. Once she bit me so hard that I still have the scar. Ironically she was the one who dumped me. I tried to get her to see a shrink and she got so angry the would not return my calls. Finally I went to her place to see her and I found out she moved out and nobody knew where she went.
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The sex was amazing but she was an alcoholic and borderline personality. Life was impossible when she went on a tear but then she would wake me up with oral sex and she wouldn’t stop until I came in her mouth. Or she would roll over and ask if I wanted to have anal sex. It was difficult to say goodbye to her.
The one and only LDR I had. After 6 months, to a year, it became a mental torture, more because of the fact that we really couldn't see each other. Beside that our sexual life was a disaster. Eventually, in the third year everything completely fall apart. I never again did online dating.
It screwed up my mind. Ever since I never felt the same with romantic relations in general. I am just not ready for it and I may never be.
I have never been in a serious relationship but I have had short-terms. So, the worst relationship was with someone who went through a break-up and looked for a replacement.
I was with one girl years ago that didn't like giving or receiving oral and she didn't like having her breasts touched in any way. We dated for 3 months before we both agreed to have sex. She never wanted to discuss sex until we actually did it.
All if them were kind of life lessons built into women, I dated this chick off and in for two years and I really shouldn't have she had a kid and that was my first mistake.
Long story short if you have a preference- stick to your guns
had a really emotionally abusive partner who tried to control me and everything I did. She cheated on me cos she couldn't handle what I was packing lol
Everybody has been used and abused in one way or another. I've had a few girls think I'm a work horse for them, that I should pay for everything. It doesn't last very long once you learn to stand up for yourself.
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