What was the worst moment in your relationship?

[JustinTheGreat]

The worst moment of mine is when my husband (we weren’t married at the time though) punched me in the face 💀
I would give more context but it’s not gonna make it sound any better.
we’re good now though I promise lol

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Look at GAG using a pic of a gay couple as the cover photo of the question. Come through representation. As they should, purrrrr 🤪🤪🤪

[amber0x]

For some context, I dated a guy for 6 months and he would have really intense outbursts of anger directed at me. He dumped me via text in a rage. Several months later, he apologized, took full responsibility, and told me at the time he had been hiding a drinking problem from me. He said he quit drinking. We ended up getting back together for 2 more years. He was wonderful.

Until he wasn't. His explosive behavior returned (without the drinking) with a vengeance. Yelling, name calling, berating, breaking up with me (then acting like he only said it out of anger and I shouldn't take it seriously), threatening to walk out the door if I called him on it, etc. I always knew when a mood was going to strike him because my cats wouldn't go anywhere near him. If they were sleeping next to him, they'd get up and go to me. He would also fade out right before these episodes.

My best friend is the nicest person in the world and wouldn't say anything bad about anyone. She expresses her dislike through silence and the silence was loud and clear. Her husband was the one who told me it was abusive behavior and I stepped back and realized he was right and that my ex was manipulating me.

I tried to have a discussion with him and he walked out the door, then followed it up with a text full of venom. That would have been the worst moment, except when I broke up with him, he agreed that it was best to split and said he didn't think we communicated well. That was the worst moment in the relationship because responding to every single disagreement with an explosion of rage would be detrimental to any relationship and to mask it as "we don't communicate well" was like a slap in the face because he either doesn't see the problem at all or he was never willing to work on it, which made me feel like such a joke and like I wasted a lot of time

[Hrumf]

When I went off depression meds too quickly and wasn’t doing well mentally, he ghosted me when I needed him most. We were going out for about 6 months and friends about a year before that.


Before any of you say anything…I told him what I was dealing with and was upfront about it. I made sure to communicate with him and he called me trying to communicate as being manipulative. (Looking back he was a narcissist unfortunately.) It clearly didn’t matter. He was also a mental health worker so you would think he would know better how to treat someone he supposedly cares about who is struggling 🙄


Needless to say, we are not together and he might as well be dead.


If you want to get a little more info on what the withdrawals from depression meds are like, google Lexapro withdrawals. It was an experience I would not wish on anyone…

[Anonymous]

Probably when I was bleeding out of my ass from stress and my girlfriend couldn’t be bothered to drive me to the hospital for the colonoscopy I needed and that required anesthesia. I had to call up a friend I had not spoken to in years to drive me because I had to have an escort since I’d be recovering from anesthesia.

My girlfriend literally wouldn’t even drive me to the hospital.

[LonelyFox]

Went to a dance with a girl once and it just felt weird and i was so nervous I eventually ended up ditching her there..
Instead I went to go talk to another guy , not my proudest moment though, and the girl and I didn't speak after that and other girls kinda hated me for it.. but didn't really matter eventually

[RobT312]

I was in a bad relationship and I cheated. we then went through the pain of trying to fix it, but a bad relationship wasn't worth fixing

[TheLadyBug]

the hardest moments are always when you have to say you want to leave from him because he is not ok.

[Lyndsielee666]

Like the most recent one? I broke my hand I no guys face.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Basically, all the anonymous threats and insults I was getting were actually from her.

[FictionalCharacter]

“I would give more context but it’s not gonna make it sound any better. ”
😳😆😂🤣🤣🤣💀

[Anonymous]

I had just been diagnosed with something really hard to go through. We’d been left in the room to absorb. He told me not to ask him to leave me as he couldn’t take that too.

[TacosRAwesome]

My now ex accused me of hitting him. Broke up with him a week later coz he made fun of me for something.

[serious]

I have always been single.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

What led to that happening?

[JustinTheGreat]

I was insecure and had major trust issues at the time and I accused him of cheating. We got into a huge screaming match while he was drunk and he just swung at me. I deserved it tbh

[HeartFullOfGlue]

OOOh ok
Glad y'all got that figured out now ^^

[Tinylatina91]

When I found out he cheated on me

[Twalli]

Being separated due to COVID-19

[Sandy2002]

Only first time anal

[D4nielv]

The ones after were fine?

[Anonymous]

When she caught me in bed with her sister.

[abiyazfar]

i like relationship care for love..