Do you think it's absurd that I left my boyfriend because he replied to the message I sent him 1 day later?

[Anonymous]

He told me he was busy, ok but at least he could have texted me that he was busy but he left me unanswered for 1 day. I thought it was disrespectful and I would have lost my self-respect if I had stayed with him, so I left him. Do you think he was disrespectful or am I sensitive?

[Lionman95]

Yes I think it's an overreaction because leaving someone unanswered for a day shouldn't be a big deal in a relationship. Depending on what he's working on he probably didn't even read your message properly while at work because there were other things on his mind. I don't know about women but to me leasing a person on read for a day I'd pretty normal between guys. It's maybe also for the better that you left him since what will happen if he's working at a big project where he's focused on work for a longer time.

[Miristheiss]

I think you are nuts.

I think he did the right thing. Sometimes we can get to texts right away, sometimes not. A man should get busy with his purpose and taking care of responsibilities. Most women are more attracted to men who have a purpose and who can tell their woman no sometimes and who are not weak pushovers.

You seem pretty spoiled and entitled to expect him to be at your beck and call. Unless it is an emergency... he may be busy.

In the long run he'll attract more women and women that are HEALTHY by getting on with his purpose and not revolving his life around his girl.

You seem a bit entitled and spoiled.

[Anonymous]

So if you were married to him... how would you feel? He needs to understand your communication & that's sort of neglect. Because he took commitment on your agreement with a relationship he owed you a little explanation of not feeling well and ttyl. But he gave you nothing. I had an ex boyfriend who disappeared constantly. He was avoiding me. & mostly in the arms of another. He didn't want me. I couldn't help him. I set him free

[Anonymous]

If you're willing to break up with him over something so tiny then prepare to be alone forever.

[spartan55]

Lost your self respect? Wtf are you talking about? Instead you look like an immature crazy girl. Is that better? You actually did him a favor because you aren't mature enough to be in a relationship right now.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I think you're being snowflakey. If the topic of that text was so important you should have called him. If you're going to break up with him over that you did a favor for both of you. I wish you the best oc success with the next one.

[sirderpsalot123]

Yes... but it's your life, lol.

[In_Trance]

Whatever works for you