It’s about attraction. Once you’re in a relationship you feel as if you’ve won the other person, there’s no Persuit of love attention and affection.
This makes the relationship boring and predictable. Also confidence and self esteem issues are big hare as it’s soo heartbreaking to see people who’ve been cheated on take them back
In the cheaters mind they need this stimulation and get it through another person, a new adventure. But in the long run, that cheater will be empty, they need someone else when in reality all they need is themselves.
There could also be the element that the person just wanted to have lots of sex with different people which we all have free will soo i won’t say if this is wrong or right. But getting sex under the false pretences of a committed relationship? I’m not a judge but I think everyone would agree that is wrong.
For the pleasure of it. Of course there can be several reasons, but fidelity is not hardwired in human's minds, and seeking sexual interaction is instinctive. The concepts of fidelity and monogamy are moral and cultural, not a phisiological fact. Now, of course other reasons for cheating can be dissatisfaction in your current relationship, not feeling loved or appreciated, your own psychological issues, etc.
They are bored Looking for new excitement Also these becomes a habit and they keep on doing the same in every relationship since they get bored every time
women because the opportunity came along and got turned on. Men because in their relationship, she said "not now i tired or headache" so while waiting for grilfriend goes out temporarily.
There can be many reason. The person doesn't feel wanted or connected anymore, either sexually, physically or mentally. Maybe their spouse became asexual, and not big on sex. Some people just have a n ego, even if the home life is well, will do it for the fun
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To me people cheat because they don’t feel loved and appreciated so they go ahead and look for that somewhere else by going out and cheating on their significant other. I honestly think that they should end things with their significant other instead of going out and cheating on them because regardless of the circumstances that’s just not right.
Humans aren’t wired for monogamy so it’s kind of against our nature to be. (Don’t get me wrong I’ve never cheated.) but half of my relationships have been open ones because I start to panic in exclusive ones.
Because the person who cheated has low self esteem and needs that ego boost. There is no reason to cheat, if you're in a relationship with someone you stay loyal or break up. People who cheat are insecure assholes who need to grow up.
Because they lack self control. If you’re that unhappy where you strat cheating just do your boyfriend/girlfriend and yourself a huge favor and leave the relationship
cause they like diffrent fks with people or there's arguments to much or they are just plain out a cheating basterd for no reason just want diffrent pussy or cock to greedy nd dont respect there lover
when i was younger i was with some married ladies, my requirement was that they had no plans to leave him. it was just sex no romance. their most common reason for being there was to try something that their husband would not try, they just wanted to experiment
I can't speak for others but for me I think it's because their partner doesn't give them the care or attention they deserve but after all I see that whoever cheats is a piece of shit, the least you can do is break up with your partner before it reaches cheating
The most common reason is that the passion is gone from a long-term relationship, but it is still not convenient to break up, for example due to common children or financial dependency.
Who knows why another person does what they do. I don't cheat, I'm more like the Solomon in the Songs of Solomon. Having myriads of concubines, queens and wives and yet having a special baby who knows none of the rest matters like she does.
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It’s about attraction. Once you’re in a relationship you feel as if you’ve won the other person, there’s no Persuit of love attention and affection.
This makes the relationship boring and predictable. Also confidence and self esteem issues are big hare as it’s soo heartbreaking to see people who’ve been cheated on take them back
In the cheaters mind they need this stimulation and get it through another person, a new adventure. But in the long run, that cheater will be empty, they need someone else when in reality all they need is themselves.
There could also be the element that the person just wanted to have lots of sex with different people which we all have free will soo i won’t say if this is wrong or right. But getting sex under the false pretences of a committed relationship? I’m not a judge but I think everyone would agree that is wrong.
For the pleasure of it. Of course there can be several reasons, but fidelity is not hardwired in human's minds, and seeking sexual interaction is instinctive. The concepts of fidelity and monogamy are moral and cultural, not a phisiological fact. Now, of course other reasons for cheating can be dissatisfaction in your current relationship, not feeling loved or appreciated, your own psychological issues, etc.
They are bored
Looking for new excitement
Also these becomes a habit and they keep on doing the same in every relationship since they get bored every time
women because the opportunity came along and got turned on.
Men because in their relationship, she said "not now i tired or headache" so while waiting for grilfriend goes out temporarily.
There can be many reason. The person doesn't feel wanted or connected anymore, either sexually, physically or mentally. Maybe their spouse became asexual, and not big on sex. Some people just have a n ego, even if the home life is well, will do it for the fun
To me people cheat because they don’t feel loved and appreciated so they go ahead and look for that somewhere else by going out and cheating on their significant other. I honestly think that they should end things with their significant other instead of going out and cheating on them because regardless of the circumstances that’s just not right.
Heat of the moment; temptations and/or dissatisfaction (emotional or physical) from the relationship.
Because their primary relationship is so shitty. People who are in love and have good sex lives very rarely cheat.
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Relationship problems…either sexually, personality, or both
Mediocrity and the pitfalls of 'routine'... no one likes to be 'taken for granted' or to BE 'just enough'
Humans aren’t wired for monogamy so it’s kind of against our nature to be. (Don’t get me wrong I’ve never cheated.) but half of my relationships have been open ones because I start to panic in exclusive ones.
Because the person who cheated has low self esteem and needs that ego boost. There is no reason to cheat, if you're in a relationship with someone you stay loyal or break up. People who cheat are insecure assholes who need to grow up.
Not getting what they want and/or need from their current relationship
Because they lack self control. If you’re that unhappy where you strat cheating just do your boyfriend/girlfriend and yourself a huge favor and leave the relationship
They are not getting needs met on some level or they are a serial offender. I can’t really pin point it
cause they like diffrent fks with people or there's arguments to much or they are just plain out a cheating basterd for no reason just want diffrent pussy or cock to greedy nd dont respect there lover
when i was younger i was with some married ladies, my requirement was that they had no plans to leave him. it was just sex no romance. their most common reason for being there was to try something that their husband would not try, they just wanted to experiment
I can't speak for others but for me I think it's because their partner doesn't give them the care or attention they deserve but after all I see that whoever cheats is a piece of shit, the least you can do is break up with your partner before it reaches cheating
The most common reason is that the passion is gone from a long-term relationship, but it is still not convenient to break up, for example due to common children or financial dependency.
Who knows why another person does what they do.
I don't cheat, I'm more like the Solomon in the Songs of Solomon. Having myriads of concubines, queens and wives and yet having a special baby who knows none of the rest matters like she does.