Does it matter to you if your significant other or potential significant other has friends or not?

[Anonymous]

No

Yes

[metacidal]

Does it sound healthy to anyone for a single adult to rely on just one person for all of their platonic/romantic social needs? Does it sound like this person has any of the many, many positive attributes, characteristics, personal habits, etc., etc that other people find attractive on every level imaginable? jeez, doesn't anyone else kinda wonder about what's in the PO'a psycho ]

[Asker]

I mean, if they are still sane, why not lol? Why can't the person, just like not having friends, and also some people believe making new friends can be hard, so it doesn't have to be anyone's fault, or anything

[metacidal]

perhaps. but i'd be a bit worried about someone who has either a) chosen to isolate himself or b) lacks the ability to maintain social relationships or c) has eaten everyone who has ever crossed his path...
all joking aside, tho... i would exercise caution entering into a relationship where you will be the entirety of your partner's social world.

[WhitneySnow]

It’s a plus if they do but I also understand if they don’t have a lot. Some people are shy.

[TacosRAwesome]

Yes, I do care a bit. I understand being low on friends because of life, everyone having their things going on etc but it gives me questions if he has no one to call if he's in a bit of a mess.

[Spongebobssocks]

Not at all. The less the better. People who have a lot of friends are a walking red flag..

[DarkLegacy]

Very good answer.

[Spongebobssocks]

@DarkLegacy 👌🏻

[Nikki1989]

I would hope he has friends, hopefully lots of them.

[Asker]

Would you personally not go out with him, if he didn't?

[provokeesmokee]

A lack of friends is an immediate no go flag.

[Asker]

Any reason why?

[AaronKrieger]

Yes, they should have friend (s).

[BarryLiverstone]

Ya I would prefer she has friends

[Asker]

Why?

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s healthier. If she has no other friends she’s going to rely too much on me. Also she will not be able to vent to anyone else and will likely become lonely at home