Getting closer to 30 hasn't helped, thinking I need to find a girl and settle down before it's too late.
But I've come to realize that I'm not in the right state of mind to be in a relationship, and the further I get in with her, the deeper and deeper I dig myself into the depression I thought she was my way out of.
What I'm truly missing in life is purpose. I'm not the man I want to be and I have a lot of work to do on myself to get there. My drive toward a loving relationship has taken away my drive toward something truly greater.
This isn't some sort of MGTOW thing or anything like that, it's just the truth. I have nothing against women and it's not her fault.
This is just what I've come to understand about myself, and maybe it can speak to some of you in the process.
Relationships are nothing until you've worked on your relationship with yourself first.
Good night y'all