Stayed with my ex for a week. Now he wants me to stay over again?

[Anonymous]

We did not have sex but slept in the same bed and cuddled. We watched movies and he repeatedly asked do you remember this and that. Now he wants me to come back over to stay for a while again. Does he want to get back with me but is afraid to ask? He wouldn't have a problem finding women for casual sex if that was all he wanted.

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He told he was good to have me back

[Cynicaldreamer]

Sounds like he just enjoys your company or having someone there. You can miss the aspects of a relationship, but that doesn't mean they want you back, as screwed up as that sounds.

Yeah, there's a chance he might miss you and what "used to be" but keep in mind that doesn't mean he wants to get back together again... or if he does, that it would be a good idea to do so.

[RespectfulGuy]

Are u as foolish as me? Ya, me too get intimate with my separated wife.

Never move on.

Sex was great for us though.

Anyway, if sex is not in your menu, my usual opinion is, get out. You can do so gently.

Yes, I know sex is not yet with you two. But soon it will be if you continue.

Perhaps "downgrade" to friends with benefits and be very specific with terms.

But I suggest make it clear you may move on when someone "better" comes by. Don't be like me. Only the sex is good, but everything else sucks. 😁

[ProbablyClueless]

He doesn't want you back. He wants the physical benefits of having you back.

[Asker]

So why didn't he go for sex when I was there?

[ProbablyClueless]

Because it wasn't the right time. You don't rush stuff like that.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You’re not a pillow for occasional comfort. Ex is ex, if he was good enough he wouldn’t be an ex.

Don’t act as if you are just a blanket to keep someone warm at night.

It’s no longer your job. Enjoy being single

[Deandime75]

There is a reason he is your EX. Do you really want to rehash something you left in the first place? The definition of Insanity is doing something over and over expecting a different outcome. Let things in the past stay that way. Move forward.

[Staximus]

He might want you back but ask yourself why is he your ex in the first place

[In_Trance]

Lol your ex.
You clearly don't know how to break up

[Anonymous]

I can't believe you're that naive. Seriously he is trying to get back with you.. Facepalm.