Why don't I feel like being in a relationship?

[Lexina]

After having a not so defined relationship with a friend, I don't feel like being with another?

[PragmaticProfit]

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.”

― C. S. Lewis, The Four Loves

[Lexina]

Truly

[Noodle_fan]

u like freedom , as single you can do whatever u want

[Lexina]

Alright thanks

[kylee2437]

Girl I’m in the same boat, and I think it comes down to the fact that life at the moment is just better lived when you are on your own. I’ve seen 3 couples break up in the past two weeks. Relationships are just so undesirable right now and honestly I think the world is currently a disaster

[Lexina]

Lot of break ups and unloyal relationships

[kylee2437]

@Lexina yep , actually make that 4 relationships I’ve seen gone wrong in the past 2 weeks. 3 co workers, 1 couple I know outside of work. It’s very sad

[Lexina]

That's heartbreaking

[katiesmuff]

Your still very young and no reason you need to be a relationship yet. Time just to enjoy yourself, do things you want to do and just have friends and none serious. Nothing wrong at all with that thinking.

[Lexina]

Alright so at what age should I start paying attention to relationships?

[katiesmuff]

You will know when your ready!

[Lexina]

Alright

[Lexina]

Thanks a lot

[boggboss]

Because u still need time for yourself

[Lexina]

Okay but care to elaborate?

[Adogdog]

You need a real relationship!

[Lexina]

What's a real relationship?