A good way to tell is if you have a problem and he has interest in helping you solve it.
He may listen and provide emotional support, but men are problem solvers. If he cares he'll want to fix it for you
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When he won't take the time to take care of your needs and desires!
Won't let you choose a date won't let you order won't let you hang out with your guy friends...
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- He doesn't initiate contact. (It doesn't have to be often. But it has to be meaningful sometimes. Don't get hung up on frequency.)
- He doesn't ask questions about you. Then listen. (Don't always begin with, or give super long answers. That's too much verbal and emotional processing. They do better with more succinct verbiage. Find a blend that can work for both of you.)
- Every time he sees or talks to you, it's about sex or his desire.
- He only talks about himself.
- He mentions other women he knows, and in ways that seem bizarre, given the context of the current conversation. He might be giving you a signal that he is interested in others. Or trying to see if you get jealous, which might indicate to him that you care. In some cases, the stories or references may be relevant. So don't react impulsively just because he has other people in his life. A not-jealous girlfriend is the coolest kind of girl, the one most men wish for. Because unwarranted jealousy may belie uncurable insecurity. But a little bit of 'jealousy', playfully or serious, can make a person feel valued. If, on the other hand, he seems not to care about people you mention, he is either hiding his feelings, or could not care about you, or could be trying to cool, himself, not be reactive or jealous.
People don't care when they don't show respect or consider how their choices might impact you. Sometimes people might like something about you but aren't drawn to the complete package. People can also show caring without having any interest in having a relationship with you or being intimate with you.
You're probably the best judge of when its working and when it isn't. Be observant and then trust your gut. See what is rather than what you want to see or fear seeing.
If he cares - you know.
Everything else means - he doesnât.
When I see a woman asking a question similar to this, I always think maybe you have never had a man who cared so much youâd never have to question whether he did or not.
I hope you leet that man someday soon. But this one is not the one.
If heâs never in your life. A man who cares will always be around no matter what
It's usually obvious when someone isn't interested
When he doesnât care about what you are doing without him , The truth is most guyâs in general our very protective and territorial over a girl he loves that he gives his heart to , He will miss you when you are gone or away with friends or when he hasnât seen you for awhile , A guy wonât say his true feelings to her , because he doesnât want her thinking he is being insecure and doesnât want her thinking he doesnât trust her, he doesnât want to lose her , so he holds a lot in , Most guysâ know what other guysâ are thinking and what other guys intentions are , when a guy tells his girl that he doesnât like her hanging around certain people she takes it as he is trying to control her and sadly that isnât true , he just wants her to respect him the same way he respects her , When boundaries are set in a relationship a guy that loves his girl is going to follow those boundaries , hoping she will follow them as well , When a guy loves a girl , he is going to stay away from places that will make his girlfriend feel insecure as well , He is going to wear her shoes the same way he wants her
To wear his period. When a guy doesnât care about where his girl is going , or doesnât care if she is going away with her girlfriendsâ he is pretty much over her and doesnât really care what she does because more than likely he is being up to no good as well. Sadly with the way the world is today and how social media fucked with a bunch of our heads the only way a relationship will survive these days is if both partners prioritize each other over everyone else , over your friends over your family period , When you canât prioritize your partner over family and friends be prepared for your relationship to have issues , Sadly this happens a lotYou listen carefully to his words - among other things, does he talk about the two of you together in the future? - and you observe his behavior. Does his behavior match his words?
You should be doing this anyway to ensure that he has good morals and values, because if he doesn't, then you have no long-term future. His words matter, especially if they reveal bad morals and values, or very different life goals than you have, but you also have to match his actions to his words. If there is a big difference between actions and words, then you can't trust him.His actions will tell you everything you need to know about him. His conversation as well of course but they lie so you have to be diligent and attentive to everything they say and do. Does their conversation match their actions? Always be be on guard. Never take their âjokesâ as jokes. When they tell you something, believe them. Is he genuinely caring? Attentive to you? Tries to embarrass you? Controlling? Says you should cook and clean yet never expresses men should cook and clean as well? Is he a Republican first if all?
These are basic things to consider. Always remember though, sexist men view women as things. Many of them will try to hide it to get you to fall for them first or trap you somehow but they canât hold their hatred for women long so just again, be attentive always and at the first sign of a red flag, dump himHow do you know a man doesn't care about you? Hm..🤔, well there are many reasons/scenarios in place, that depends how you two met? How long have been together?
It doesn't care if:
Go out in public and doesn't hold your hand, calls you beautiful and just wants sex only when indoors, he is narcissist about him, and Nothing about you. If relationship passed way over the "butterflies" doesn't move forward/next phase. He goes to sleep right after sex, even though you still want to cuddle, or watch a movie. When you ask for some things, he "rejects" you with: "i'm too tired, tomorrow hace to get up early", but he ask for stuff/things/favors from you, could be Endless reasons...🤷ââď¸Another thing to look for is how he responds to you when you initiate a conversation or reach out to him (to do something fun, or ask them how they're doing, or just share something funny). Guys who care about you will generally want to receive attention from you. If he finds it annoying when you initiate stuff, and only wants to interact with you on his terms, it can be a sign that he doesn't actually care about you.
When he acts like he doesnât care. I promise Iâm not trying to be a snarky bitch by saying that, but itâs a very true statement.
âIf a guy acts like he doesnât give a shit, he genuinely doesnât give a shitâ- Justin Long in âHeâs Just Not That Into Youâ.I know that idea from this movie, the book it was based on and (most importantly) from my own experiences dating. If heâs acting like he doesnât care, save yourself the heartache and move on. You deserve better â¤ď¸
How rough he is during sex, minimal eye contact, anal or oral, and that he doesn't appear to appreciate the woman he's got whether inside or outside the bedroom. Lots of tell tale signs a man just uses a woman.
The same way many a woman just use a man âşď¸🤣 though rarer 😊I care to much. But if a guy try to fix you life or try make thing easy for you if you life he care. He try stop bad thing befor they get to you.
IF he dose not then he dose not care. a lot guys care and try for the wrong women and then they just give up or they care and try help in the wrong way. most women just want men to listion about the problem but not fix it. But men like try fix it.
-he doesn't workout to be fit in event of dangerous situation
-family members insult you he does nothing
-drags relationship beyond 6months without steps to marriage
-doesn't say anything if you dress too provocatively or have OF/ riisque ig pics
-love bomb, manipulate, breadcrums ya beats ya
- not into a few sessions of pre martial counselling at minimum
It's hard to tell, because even someone who just wants sex will go to great lengths to help you. But if he doesn't talk about your futures together, doesn't help you solve your problems, and doesn't do anything that doesn't by proxy help his own situation or reputation, you might have a clue there. But even if he checks those boxes, he could be playing the long game. At the end of the day, you have to hope you have good instincts
I wrote a girl a letter once telling her how I cared about her. But she rejected my letter. Therefore, thereafter I did not care about her anymore (in the same way. I still cared about her as a human being.). I shook the dust off my feet and left.
If you have to ask, then he probably doesnât.
if you have any kind of inkling, having to ask this question, the doubts, then you could possibly be right. look at his actions and it'll tell you so much.
If he doesn't have time for you, if he doesn't text you, if he doesn't call you, if he doesn't care about your absence, he doesn't care about you...
When he shows little interest n doesn't get worried for ur emotional wellbeing n ur day to day problems
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