How do you know a man dosen't care about you?

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WanderingLoveWizard · Accepted Answer

A good way to tell is if you have a problem and he has interest in helping you solve it.

He may listen and provide emotional support, but men are problem solvers. If he cares he'll want to fix it for you

JeffersonA · Accepted Answer

When he won't take the time to take care of your needs and desires! Won't let you choose a date won't let you order won't let you hang out with your guy friends...

AmandaYVR · Answer

He doesn't initiate contact. (It doesn't have to be often. But it has to be meaningful sometimes. Don't get hung up on frequency.) He doesn't ask questions about you. Then listen. (Don't always begin with, or give super long answers. That's too much verbal and emotional processing. They do better with more succinct verbiage. Find a blend that can work for both of you.) Every time he sees or talks to you, it's about sex or his desire. He only talks about himself. He mentions other women he knows, and in ways that seem bizarre, given the context of the current conversation. He might be giving you a signal that he is interested in others. Or trying to see if you get jealous, which might indicate to him that you care. In some cases, the stories or references may be relevant. So don't react impulsively just because he has other people in his life. A not-jealous girlfriend is the coolest kind of girl, the one most men wish for. Because unwarranted jealousy may belie uncurable insecurity. But a little bit of 'jealousy', playfully or serious, can make a person feel valued. If, on the other hand, he seems not to care about people you mention, he is either hiding his feelings, or could not care about you, or could be trying to cool, himself, not be reactive or jealous.

caring__1 · Answer

People don't care when they don't show respect or consider how their choices might impact you. Sometimes people might like something about you but aren't drawn to the complete package. People can also show caring without having any interest in having a relationship with you or being intimate with you.

You're probably the best judge of when its working and when it isn't. Be observant and then trust your gut. See what is rather than what you want to see or fear seeing.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

If he cares - you know.

Everything else means - he doesn’t.

When I see a woman asking a question similar to this, I always think maybe you have never had a man who cared so much you’d never have to question whether he did or not.

I hope you leet that man someday soon. But this one is not the one.

Pinay_ako · Answer

If he’s never in your life. A man who cares will always be around no matter what

Avicenna · Answer

It's usually obvious when someone isn't interested

Finchie40 · Answer

When he doesn’t care about what you are doing without him , The truth is most guy’s in general our very protective and territorial over a girl he loves that he gives his heart to , He will miss you when you are gone or away with friends or when he hasn’t seen you for awhile , A guy won’t say his true feelings to her , because he doesn’t want her thinking he is being insecure and doesn’t want her thinking he doesn’t trust her, he doesn’t want to lose her , so he holds a lot in , Most guys’ know what other guys’ are thinking and what other guys intentions are , when a guy tells his girl that he doesn’t like her hanging around certain people she takes it as he is trying to control her and sadly that isn’t true , he just wants her to respect him the same way he respects her , When boundaries are set in a relationship a guy that loves his girl is going to follow those boundaries , hoping she will follow them as well , When a guy loves a girl , he is going to stay away from places that will make his girlfriend feel insecure as well , He is going to wear her shoes the same way he wants her
To wear his period. When a guy doesn’t care about where his girl is going , or doesn’t care if she is going away with her girlfriends’ he is pretty much over her and doesn’t really care what she does because more than likely he is being up to no good as well. Sadly with the way the world is today and how social media fucked with a bunch of our heads the only way a relationship will survive these days is if both partners prioritize each other over everyone else , over your friends over your family period , When you can’t prioritize your partner over family and friends be prepared for your relationship to have issues , Sadly this happens a lot

MrOracle · Answer

You listen carefully to his words - among other things, does he talk about the two of you together in the future? - and you observe his behavior. Does his behavior match his words?

You should be doing this anyway to ensure that he has good morals and values, because if he doesn't, then you have no long-term future. His words matter, especially if they reveal bad morals and values, or very different life goals than you have, but you also have to match his actions to his words. If there is a big difference between actions and words, then you can't trust him.

hIopinionated_ · Answer

His actions will tell you everything you need to know about him. His conversation as well of course but they lie so you have to be diligent and attentive to everything they say and do. Does their conversation match their actions? Always be be on guard. Never take their ‘jokes’ as jokes. When they tell you something, believe them. Is he genuinely caring? Attentive to you? Tries to embarrass you? Controlling? Says you should cook and clean yet never expresses men should cook and clean as well? Is he a Republican first if all?

These are basic things to consider. Always remember though, sexist men view women as things. Many of them will try to hide it to get you to fall for them first or trap you somehow but they can’t hold their hatred for women long so just again, be attentive always and at the first sign of a red flag, dump him

DannyUk2017 · Answer

How do you know a man doesn't care about you? Hm..🤔, well there are many reasons/scenarios in place, that depends how you two met? How long have been together?
It doesn't care if:
Go out in public and doesn't hold your hand, calls you beautiful and just wants sex only when indoors, he is narcissist about him, and Nothing about you. If relationship passed way over the "butterflies" doesn't move forward/next phase. He goes to sleep right after sex, even though you still want to cuddle, or watch a movie. When you ask for some things, he "rejects" you with: "i'm too tired, tomorrow hace to get up early", but he ask for stuff/things/favors from you, could be Endless reasons...🤷‍♂️

GreatBigCircles · Answer

Another thing to look for is how he responds to you when you initiate a conversation or reach out to him (to do something fun, or ask them how they're doing, or just share something funny). Guys who care about you will generally want to receive attention from you. If he finds it annoying when you initiate stuff, and only wants to interact with you on his terms, it can be a sign that he doesn't actually care about you.

silvermoon84 · Answer

When he acts like he doesn’t care. I promise I’m not trying to be a snarky bitch by saying that, but it’s a very true statement.

“If a guy acts like he doesn’t give a shit, he genuinely doesn’t give a shit”- Justin Long in “He’s Just Not That Into You”.

I know that idea from this movie, the book it was based on and (most importantly) from my own experiences dating. If he’s acting like he doesn’t care, save yourself the heartache and move on. You deserve better ❤️

asphaltrhymes · Answer

How rough he is during sex, minimal eye contact, anal or oral, and that he doesn't appear to appreciate the woman he's got whether inside or outside the bedroom. Lots of tell tale signs a man just uses a woman.
The same way many a woman just use a man ☺️🤣 though rarer 😊

mattclark242 · Answer

I care to much. But if a guy try to fix you life or try make thing easy for you if you life he care. He try stop bad thing befor they get to you.

IF he dose not then he dose not care. a lot guys care and try for the wrong women and then they just give up or they care and try help in the wrong way. most women just want men to listion about the problem but not fix it. But men like try fix it.

_Just_A_girl_ · Answer

-he doesn't workout to be fit in event of dangerous situation

-family members insult you he does nothing

-drags relationship beyond 6months without steps to marriage

-doesn't say anything if you dress too provocatively or have OF/ riisque ig pics

-love bomb, manipulate, breadcrums ya beats ya

- not into a few sessions of pre martial counselling at minimum

Slingshot69 · Answer

It's hard to tell, because even someone who just wants sex will go to great lengths to help you. But if he doesn't talk about your futures together, doesn't help you solve your problems, and doesn't do anything that doesn't by proxy help his own situation or reputation, you might have a clue there. But even if he checks those boxes, he could be playing the long game. At the end of the day, you have to hope you have good instincts

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I wrote a girl a letter once telling her how I cared about her. But she rejected my letter. Therefore, thereafter I did not care about her anymore (in the same way. I still cared about her as a human being.). I shook the dust off my feet and left.

___Clara___ · Answer

If he doesn't have time for you, if he doesn't text you, if he doesn't call you, if he doesn't care about your absence, he doesn't care about you...

Flower7 · Answer

If you have to ask, then he probably doesn’t.

Anonymous · Answer

if you have any kind of inkling, having to ask this question, the doubts, then you could possibly be right. look at his actions and it'll tell you so much.

elizamichale1 · Answer

When he shows little interest n doesn't get worried for ur emotional wellbeing n ur day to day problems

lorenzomichael · Answer

When he shows no interest at all. Especially if something had happened to you or to one of your friends or family members. That's when it should be obvious that he doesn't give a shit.

sheenagwapa · Answer

if he kerps finding loopholes in me and if he keep thinking he is rigjt all the time

rocksongwriter · Answer

When he says "I don't care about you."

LostandFound__x · Answer

I told him I was unwell and he never checked up on me once... pretty clear answer there lmao

MizzArtFreak89 · Answer

When he’s trying to be controlling, is disrespectful and doesn’t make time for you. If a man like that does that, then he ain’t worth it.

Anonymous · Answer

You will have a gut feeling…ladies please trust your intuition.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Follow his actions, not his words. Same for women.

Hithere4567 · Answer

He isn't kind to you and he doesn't want to spend time with you.

DerekC321 · Answer

I think this goes for both girls and guys... they don't pay much attention to you and/or unfaithful.

Lis-the-librarian · Answer

Too confident with you, doesn't care if he loses you

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

He doesn’t talk to you. No effort. No respect. It’s basically common sense

Luopio27 · Answer

He puts no effort in your communication, wants, needs or anything. He isn't happy around you.

sassyredhead · Answer

He doesn't put time and energy into you. He doesn't think about your needs and your comfort.

DaddyDiablo · Answer

That just depends is he petty or snappy or moody? Does he laugh when others make fun of you?

dragoblack · Answer

He doesn't take interest in you on a personal level. He just talks about his likes and surfaces level stuff and most of it is 1 sided

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

He does not do what he says he is going to do.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Simplest: he gets ticked off if you don't put out. If he does, he cares about sex, not you.

Eelif · Answer

When you have to sleep to not cry and wake up to cry, you start to understand things.

pethouse · Answer

He never contacts you, makes plans with you, talks to other girls

driven159 · Answer

you should be able to tell it does not take much to figure it out if you have your eyes open

Anonymous · Answer

Easy. If you’re not a corn star or a stripper, then he doesn’t care about you..

RastaMexican59 · Answer

If he doesn’t love or care about his woman that same way he cared or loved that woman in the first place.

paigefaithful · Answer

He will make excuses to not hang out with you  He will seem uninterested in talking  He will give delayed texts

monghjay2 · Answer

you are not very attractive I can fix it but you won't listen women are dumb like that

Anonymous · Answer

You can always tell Always focus on what he talks about does he talk to you? Or talk about your body for example

krin_m · Answer

If he does not pay attention to you when you are with him.

Anonymous · Answer

When he puts it in your butt after you tell him not to

gettingold30 · Answer

When he starts replying late doesn't start the conversation or text

Anonymous · Answer

He would show an incredible lack of interest in everything related to you.

Anonymous · Answer

He does not listen or pay attention to you. He'll fake it all and you can tell

Count_de_Monte_Volo · Answer

They won’t help you pick up something you dropped.

sheikalana · Answer

Don't show any interest.

boobliker · Answer

he would not do things you like

DrKrieger · Answer

He's dismissive toward you

NajemEddineBR · Answer

most likely they dont

Awantika03 · Answer

When he loose interest in you

AɴᴋᴀʀᴀBᴇʏᴇғᴇɴᴅɪꜱɪ · Answer

when not responding

stoicity · Answer

When you post about it.

Martha36 · Answer

I can feel it from the conversation

Cheerfull009 · Answer

You can check his behavior and ignoring

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