What to remember when you are rejected?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Smile and say thank you okay I understand and then walk away try not to talk to yourself too much don't even look around to see who is watching because it really doesn't matter

Don't beat yourself up don't be embarrassed it happens I guarantee you everybody on gag it has happened to I guarantee it

Look at it like this there's going to be many things in life that happened with you and it's how you handle them is what's going to make you grow and become a better person handle it good accept it acknowledge it and say it's all right that doesn't mean anything negative towards me it just means that this time this day in life for some reason they didn't want to explore or to experiences and that's all right because you're going to come across the same thing where you're going to turn somebody down and that's even going to make you feel bad that you have to be honest so just relax let it go

Because your time's coming there will be somebody that says yes
And then what the same thing is going to happen you're going to freak out because then now what do you do LOL

Just be grateful always look at that person when you run into them and say hi it's really not that big of a deal

The last thing to do is let it consume you the last thing to do is be so embarrassed you can't be around anybody because it doesn't matter it's happened to them too so it's not a big deal start putting one foot in front of the other and find that other person and ask them

[GreatBigCircles]

It's incredibly common. It only really hurts if you're given reason to think they are interested (multiple dates, lot of interaction, nothing indicating they're uncomfortable or having doubts) and then they just tell you they don't want to talk or that 'we should just be friends' out of now where and refuse to elaborate. Really, not having closure or understanding why is infinitely worse than the rejection itself.

Getting rejected is like getting a sliver, it hurts for a few days at most but you get over it. Not getting closure and not knowing why is like having the sliver getting stuck. It can last a long time, you might need to cut it out, and if you don't deal with it it might get infected.

[Fireguy17]

that there will be someone else coming along.
Rejection is just part of life, not everyone will think you are all that.
It's a numbers game, the more you ask the better chances of success.
So next time you get rejected, don't take it personal, sluff it off and like a bus the next one is coming around the corner.

[SnowedIn]

That it is NOT a measure of your value. That you are not less of a person. That it isn't something you did wrong; you're not a failure.

[shades777]

Being as it may your a young woman and women in general don't bode well with rejection because they aren't the initiator of romance gestures, there's nothing you can learn if your not going to progress that way

[BobLouis]

It sucks and it's apart of life. Nobody likes it. you get rejected from a job or from someone you like you just have to move on.

[OddBeMe]

That it really isn’t you. Our attraction is a sum of past experiences, porn, parents, upbringing, etc. You are probably the least to blame. Lol

[DaddyDiablo]

That it's always on to the next

[Wise4myage]

Nothing to remember, just move on.

[als24]

There's plenty of fish in the sea.

[slatyb]

Plenty of fish.