What is the key to your heart?

[MementoMori777]

what is (are) the thing (s) that would win you over.

[AmandaYVR]

Beautiful q, Memento.

Listening.

Talking. Sharing.

Honesty.

Truth.

Vulnerability.

Empathizing (genuinely.)

Caring.

Sweetness.

Loving.

Words.

Words.

Poetry.

Beauty.

Adaptability (especially to me.)

But of all those things, it is the choice to expose one's self, reveal the most brittle and beautiful of one's heart, that truly melts mine. That trust is a gift. And one that I do not ever take for granted, without the vulnerability and delicateness that it was given. If there is sentiment, and depth, and poetry in that heart... I cannot help but fall into it.

[MementoMori777]

the key to your heart is veey expensive, i like it 😁🤣

[Stoner710]

Poetry? Tobacco is nasty weed I like it. It satisfies no normal. Need I like it. it makes you then it makes you lean. It takes the hair right after bean is the worst damn stuff I’ve ever seen I like it

[Cynicaldreamer]

• Cooking for me
• Food. Always food
• Remembering small things about me, especially something I them in passing
• Getting me gifts that are thoughtful or show they paid attention (ie: a gift that reflects a hobby or passion of mine, not just cliche flowers)

[MementoMori777]

intereting choices, nice 🤔

[Sanser]

Last time It was very simple, it was a stupid joke and a beautiful smile. She was not the most pretty girl in the world, she was like a 6 over 10 but that made fall in love. If you have a good humor and a good personality It doesn't matter your looks 😊

[MementoMori777]

thats a beautiful story bro ha

[Avicenna]

Her being committed to us and being compatible

[MementoMori777]

sounds legit 🤔

[Pinay_ako]

• Feed me, respect me, love me.

[MementoMori777]

well i hope your husband is doing a good job lol

[BLP11520]

yes, and don't tell lies

[DizzyDesii]

Having my back. There are a lot of things I want in a relationship but having my back is probably #1. Not even family and friends had my back like that. A lot of my exes would leave you hanging just to make themselves look good as if they werent the instigator or negative influence contributing to a lot of the rebellious stuff that occurred. This is why I wouldn’t be mad if I dated an overprotective dude. At least I know he’s got me covered

[MementoMori777]

yea most of the times overprotective comes from love or fear of losing you ehich both show a form of care

[DizzyDesii]

Yea it comes from love, fear and a natural courageousness

[MementoMori777]

you know whats up lol

[ShesRad80]

loyalty

unconditional love

reliability/stability

[MementoMori777]

nice choices, very necessary indeed 🙂💯🙏

[ShesRad80]

👍👍👍

[katiesmuff]

It's not would, but did win me over in my case. He was hilariously funny, with a very serious side to him. Was very caring and loving and the sex was beyond anything I had ever had.
He captured my heart and I captured him, 12 years married now.

[MementoMori777]

nice sounds like a cool long lasting relationship and may it last many more Katie 💯🙂🙏

[Ali4Sy]

If she told me that she will find me a job in other country and buy me a visa I'll marry that girl 😂😂(just joking sure)...

There's a lot of things effected me really like if girl has a big cheeks, If she pays attention to details, if she is logical and rational, respectful. And if she appreciates my circumstances and conditions.

This is the impossible right? 😂

[ZXCwWRQWz]

It's more like a progress rather than a single thing: a journey of sorts of touches and affections and sharing our souls over the seasons, if you will. But definitely a way to start the journey is if she can twerk upside down.

[MementoMori777]

damn it all sounded beautiful but then the ending was a plot twist lol

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I look at her with her delicate wrists and hands holding up her supple body completely inverted while still able to rotate her pelvis as to cause motions we tend to call twerking, and I find an inspiration in that like I want that woman to be the mother of my child. And it seems more powerful to me than any smart woman or kind woman or anything of this sort. Even Mother Teresa never inspired this feeling of love and desire as this woman twerking upside down.

[MementoMori777]

fair enough bro lol

[AmandaYVR]

@mementomori777 Hahahaha. I second that! (And nice wording on yours.)

[MementoMori777]

thanks Amanda 😁💯

[LostandFound__x]

I think just showing up for me in different ways. Showing that they really care and love me through actions. Proving to me that I’m actually not alone and I don’t have to keep building these walls to protect myself.

[MementoMori777]

so the key to your heart is a supportive guy, thats a good one, a supportive person is a very good feature

[LostandFound__x]

Yes.

[GreatBigCircles]

If I definitively knew, I'd be a dating profile. The key is the person who makes me feel good, wording purposely open ended I guess.

[MementoMori777]

fair enough, even tho you should knoe what highly attracts you in a woman lol

[GreatBigCircles]

I mean, I can say things that excite me. And hobbies I like that they could share. But in the end attraction is such a jumbled ball of things that I feel it'd be hard to really say what it is that 'clicks' with me when put together.

[MementoMori777]

go for it lol

[Nikki1989]

Loyalty, kindness, open-minded, good humour, good taste in music, musical ability, intelligence.

[MementoMori777]

nice choices nikki 🙂💯👍

[DermalPunch]

Piety, chastity, honesty, intelligence, drive, ambition, health-conscious and a secret naughty side.

[MementoMori777]

i see, thats a good amount choices 😁💯

[monghjay2]

ladies now you know lol

[Anonymous]

Men who know what they want in life and has self discapline.

If he can put his emotions aside when he needs to is good. But also being emotional in the right places.

[MementoMori777]

sounds like healthy thinking anon, nice 🙂👍

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you!

Also... I saw you changed your profile pic again trunna bate me?😂 Either way both are good but this one better:)

[MementoMori777]

nah i just had an indecisive moment there but now i know how to bait you cause from the looks of it, it works 😂

and thank you anon, your random presence is always a pleasure 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Well well I kept myself from commenting so..😌😄 but OK..

Hehe thank you!😊

[MementoMori777]

next time you just won't know if im just being indecisive or if im trying to bait the random anon 😂🤗

[Opinion Owner]

Alright then, game on!😌😆

[MementoMori777]

🎮🕹🎲♠️

[Sarahr123]

Nothing can ever win my heart unless I already like the boy to begin with.

[MementoMori777]

yea but what made you like that boy to begin with tho, something made you like him cause he has the key to your heart lol

[Sarahr123]

If I am physically attracted to him then him just existing. I like reserved/introvert type boys who are hard to get to know. They don’t just let anybody in and that kind of exclusivity and mystery gets me hooked. Provided I find him attractive and he is reserved and then he doesn’t go clubbing or hookah etc and he doesn’t have female friends and is just focusing on himself and his interests then he doesn’t need to do anything to impress me, I will already be impressed. That’s the type of husband I want because I am also an introvert and don’t engage in frivolous activities.

[MementoMori777]

see Sarah was that so hard to explain? 🙃😂

nah foreal tho, its a good explanation, thanks for sharing 🙂🤗

[ariadneR]

Honesty, loyalty, communication, sense of adventure, music and food

[MementoMori777]

these are some classics without a doubt lol

[Reem12345reem]

if he's sweet , caring , if he's funny , if he's warm and kind , doesn't have a big ego , his money , and if he's respectful , and if we just vibe together

[andreasderjuengere]

I have a heart disease :D

My key is: getting things done before it's too late, heh heh.

[MementoMori777]

dark but good at the same time bro 💯🙂

[andreasderjuengere]

''Who wants to live forever...'' I had my share. Much more than I 'expected' when I was 20-ish.
It isn't ''dark'' really - it's a blessing :)

[andreasderjuengere]

A few years more would be cool, though 😜

[MementoMori777]

true point lol

[JoyGirl]

Books (specifically old English romance, atm…Jane Austin), food, and affection. 🥹

[JoyGirl]

Yours? lol

[MementoMori777]

so now you like books? since when? 😂

and long story short, a girl the opposite of me lol

[JoyGirl]

I always have…lol
I was a big reader growing up. All the way up until hs. I was on and off in reading, both in high school, as well as my earlier years in college. Now, I read a lot more. This past year alone, I think I have read 4 books already. I am currently on my 5th. I would read more, but college. lol

You are capping. 😂

[MementoMori777]

i dont have to cap and well this is all new knowledge to me, now you read books and shit, you go to the library dont you? you must, thats a bookworms favorite place 😂

[JoyGirl]

Sureeeee…loool

Oh, no. I go to the bookstore!
I prefer to own the books I read. ^-^
There are some books I read when I was younger that I wish I owned, now. 🥲

[MementoMori777]

well i can understand that, who wants to constantly be returning books to the library lol

[JoyGirl]

Right! lol

[JoyGirl]

The library is a good place to start, if you hardly read, tho.

[MementoMori777]

true, cause you dont gotta buy any books lol

[elizamichale1]

Oh for me

Being caring

Honest

Open minded

Sex freak n tolerant

[MementoMori777]

wdym by sex freak? 🤔

[elizamichale1]

Well i m a sex freak myself so i would want my partner to match my sexual needs n it means to be crazy about sex n always be looking for it

[MementoMori777]

so a high sex drive? or you mean someone with lots of experience? im going to assume you mean both tho right lol

[elizamichale1]

Yup both hehe

[MementoMori777]

fair enough, thanks for sharing 💯🙂

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for nice question 😊😊

[MementoMori777]

😁👌

[elizamichale1]

😘😘❤️

[BLP11520]

oh baby LOL

[Freyke]

Showing me your bare soul, revealing a down to earth person.

[MementoMori777]

couldnt agree more

[Massageman]

Logical thinking. Creative cooking. Reverent living.

[MementoMori777]

these are some interesting choices ha

[AnusNdaPainus]

Ngl

this may be kinda shallow but I cannot resist a woman with a cute face and big boobs who brings me beer and food

[Billlewis]

Not letting me have intercourse with her, while she dates other guys who are enjoying sex with her regularly.

[Billlewis]

Thank you for giving me a point, sir. I love it when the woman I'm dating never lets me have any penetrative sex with her, while she dates other guys regularly who are enjoying sex with her and emptying their balls inside her every weekend.

[NathanDavis]

tacos... yes

[Christoff92]

Honesty and personal traits. Everything else about her is a bonus 😏

[MementoMori777]

i agree bro lol

[OddBeMe]

Right now? Shutting up when I have a headache.

[MementoMori777]

lmao fair enough

[Flower7]

Accepting me without criticism or judgment.

[strateguy632]

but what if something you did, was annoying , can't criticised? this and many of the lists here are so "screen filtering" they will never find anybody to win them with those until they "settle".

[Flower7]

@strateguy632 I’m not even interested in dating, so I don’t care about finding someone.

[MikeTheBartender]

Sadly great sex. Then all the other stuff mentioned. But the sex has to come first.

[justabuddy]

Commitment and compation. Being a benefit to me and not a liability.

[MementoMori777]

good choices indeed my friend 💯👍🙂

[MysticDevice]

Lord of the Rings marathons and trips to the record store

[CuriousMufuxka]

It no longer exists. Well until I have a heart attack and those paddles will unlock further life!

[NuitBlanche]

Loyalty. Respect. Etikette.

[MementoMori777]

indeed some goo choices 🙂👌

[MementoMori777]

good*

[Siri137]

The key is rusty and the lock is jammed.

[MementoMori777]

let me go get my polish equipment and locksmith equipment then

[strateguy632]

calmly cuddling

[MementoMori777]

interesting

[rosemilk]

FOOD. i can't lie about that

[rosemilk]

oh everyone went all deep with it and i'm over here like... food... lol...

[MementoMori777]

well if it makes you feel better someone mentioned cock size so food is better lol

[MysticAngel5000]

Honestly and loyalty

[MementoMori777]

two very good choices, cool 🙂👍

[MysticAngel5000]

Glad you agree. Honesty is the best policy and loyalty is key. Sadly, both are quite rare qualities these days.

[MementoMori777]

i know, that sucks when, if more people were loyal to commitment, dating would thrive more

[MysticAngel5000]

Indeed it would. It is so hard to date these days. There are so many liars and cheaters. It shouldn't be that way. It makes dating very difficult.

[MementoMori777]

yea cause now no one trusts anyone and it messes the whole dating rythym up

[MysticAngel5000]

It really has. Lack of trust is huge now days. Everyone is so on edge and suspicious of potential partners. It's sad we have to be that way.

[MementoMori777]

yea it does suck but it seems necessary nowadays and i can't really blame people, at least i know my intentions are pure

[MysticAngel5000]

Same here. I understand when someone has trust issues. I just show them that I'm honest and take it step by step.

[MementoMori777]

thats good, you sound like wonderful woman, like quite a catch 😁💯🙏

[MysticAngel5000]

Thank you, that's very kind of you!

[MementoMori777]

😁💯👍

[exitseven]

I have heard that beans are good for your heart.

[annabananna]

Appreciate like and accept me for who I am.

[MementoMori777]

very respectable choice anna 💯🙏

[sheikalana]

Consistency, good food, sense of humour.

[MementoMori777]

nice blend 😁👌

[LiamJHayden]

Adoring me. Loving music enough to put up with my spending untold hours figuring out songs.

[zebronics]

Do you guys have a lock on your hearts!

[MementoMori777]

yea sure

[zebronics]

Then for me it would be God fearingness.

[MementoMori777]

fair enough

[Simslover92]

Being a music lover like me.

[driven159]

being real not a fake honest caring smart

[MementoMori777]

completely agree with you bro

[smashleyy]

emotional maturity, sense of humour

[Hinaaaaa]

Kindness, Sense of Humour, 🙂Money

[TheBallGuy1234]

Money? Sounds materialistic

[Hinaaaaa]

@TheBallGuy1234 nah that sounds Realistic Actually

[TheBallGuy1234]

Ohhh. How?

[alice55]

Loving me

[MementoMori777]

well thats for sure Alice 🤣

[alice55]

Loving me is the top things that make me attracted to guy XD
And there's lots of people that are in love with people even though this person doesn't love them back so it's not that crazy XD

[MementoMori777]

yea but love is a necessary thing, thats all thats the key to your heart? 😂

[alice55]

Pretty much yeah XD
After having the same political view as me is a must and getting along in terms of personality but that's about it XD

[MementoMori777]

really? politics are that important to you? 😂

[Belle1126]

little things in life

[MementoMori777]

well im not trying to be nosey Belle but i want to know those little things 🙂👃

[mattclark242]

food and smarts

[CallMeTy21]

Loyalty, honestly, being straightforward, and food

[MementoMori777]

nice choices bro

[Jazzy54]

Someone who is compassionate. 😊

[LavLavLuv]

Humor

[MementoMori777]

thats it?

[boobliker]

food is my then a bj

[MissBoogus]

A big dick and a nice personality

[strateguy632]

finally a clear and reasonable expectation. good for you.

[magiusX26]

what heart. mine died years ago.

[Vikkrram]

Just be yourself and nothing

[AɴᴋᴀʀᴀBᴇʏᴇғᴇɴᴅɪꜱɪ]

I can't stand the looks

[Nominal]

Be feminine women.

[krin_m]

Kindness, happiness and honesty!

[Anonymous]

My vagina.

[MementoMori777]

😐😐😐

[Opinion Owner]

That looks like my vagina

[MementoMori777]

anon be foreal, whats the key to your heart? 😂

[Opinion Owner]

My anus.

[MementoMori777]

so im going to assume you have nothing that isn't any of your holes, am i correct?

[Opinion Owner]

My toes. Massage my toes and you win my heart.

[MementoMori777]

thats actually a better response, ill take it lol

[Opinion Owner]

My vagina is still number one. But I'll take the toe massage.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm a comedian. Don't take me seriously.

[MementoMori777]

lmao alright fair enough

[oatmeallover4]

A good honest committed guy who loves me

[sheenagwapa]

character