How can I over come fear of my age at 30?

[Anonymous]

I left my fiance after he cheated on me.. we were in 7 year relationship.. i am 30 now.. and everyone in my society tell me that i am getting old and i should get married.. i am affraid that i couldnt find love again

[nolookingbackx]

First of all, congrats on leaving that prick. You did the right thing! And even if you feel worthless right now after being cheated on, even if you feel like nothing makes sense anymore and there's no hope, accept these emotions. But remember that how you feel is caused by what had happened to you, it's not "real". Give yourself love and time, as much as you need to fully heal. The truth is that at the age of 30 you are still a young and attractive woman. Especially in times like these, there is no rush. People are getting married and starting a family later and later. I don't know where you come from, but that's the way it works here, there is no such pressure. And, even if it was, we shouldn't give in to something so superficial and unbased. It's a great age to enjoy dating, explore life and start all over again with the wisdom you've gained through the years. There is plenty of time to find love. And the most important kind of love is self love. This is what you need the most to be able to move on and open up to someone new. This is what you need the most to have a satisfying life, single or taken. Your worth is not based on your age or marital status. Be patient with yourself, take care of your inner peace and do whatever makes you feel better. Life goes on. Go out with friends, try to fill your mind and surroundings with positivity. Wear that fancy dress, put that lipstick on, show us what he'd lost!

[Asker]

Thank you❤️❤️❤️❤️

[nolookingbackx]

Stay strong 🥰 I went through this, you can make it!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Only the dead stay 17 forever.

Congratulations on passing yet another year.

Getting older is a privilege, not many people are lucky enough to do.

You are 30, young, beautiful, sexy, powerful, wiser than you were at 23.

Embrace your femininity and remember you are lucky to be alive, you are lucky to live every single day and someday when you are 90, you’ll look back and think that you were such a baby at 30.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You are also smarter than a lot of younger women, use it to your advantage, use your experience to put a spell on any man who sets a foot close to you. You are a woman, which means, you’ve got the feminine power. Everything is ahead, What is gone is gone, the best is yet to come.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Enjoy your single life, you don’t have to hurry anywhere.

[Fireguy17]

Trust me, you are not old.
Only get married if and when it is the right time.
Sounds like your friends don't want you out having fun while they are stuck at home.

[Asker]

Thanks❤️❤️

[Emanon25]

Don’t be someone else, things will work and get the right person eventually.

[Asker]

Thank you❤️

[Emanon25]

You’re welcome

[sheenagwapa]

divorce rate is high and it's better to be single than be eith someone force yourself just because you are afraid to be alone

[dudeinohio]

You can find love at any age. I'm a newlywed at 58