I'm scared of turning 30. What can I do?

Question

I know that even if I look like I do in my 20's, I will be considered unattractive.

devilish-cutie · Accepted Answer

I felt similar and I can tell you it will be hard process but its actually not that bad as you feel. You will always be you and you won't be less attractive, A LOT of women like "older" women and if you are pretty you'll always be pretty. Its an illusion that men are in better position regarding age, they are not, they are in very similar position. Men your age would always find you attractive if you are pretty and take care of ysf.

HotBlondePollyPocket · Accepted Answer

Everyone has their own inter / outer beauty. I'm 50 I wish I could go back 20 years. Your beautiful, hold your head high & welcome getting older for now your life will truly begin :)

Pinay_ako · Answer

Girl, I’m terrified of turning 40 in 10 days. Enjoy it. Wow I’m ugly af

cryscrys1 · Answer

May I know why !
If it is what I believe it is then here is my answer

I think you are a what’s recently called Social media Bimbo Girl.
You fall easily into age range social scams . You need social approvals to function even if you don't agree with it. You are scared because you take into
Consideration other people thoughts and opinions.

Are you also scared of turning 40?
50?
We all grow old and die it’s called the cycle of life. That’s why idiots out there who are into theor 20s need to relax their tits , sit down , and be humble about any age because we all are going to reach 30,40,50,60 and if god loves you he may postpone your death to a maybe 70 years old.

You need to work with yourself look into a therapy on aging &relationship. Or talk with older friends. Also you are kinda young to worry about it at the moment. So enjoy your moment. Your present.
What if by 29 you get a leukemia god forbid!
So …Do not jinx your future. Your precious future because society is brainwashing you 30s is a major issue.

Just enjoy life. Tomorrow is not even promised to you yet you worry about the upcoming 4-5 years

knallpilz · Answer

You'll be more attractive to non-fuckboys over 30 who have their shit together and some good sense. E s p e c i a l l y if you look younger. 'cause most of those guys probably always wanted a pretty girlfriend, but weren't interesting to those in that category.
Because if you're thirty you're gonna come off as more mature and less entitled automatically. If you can live up to that expectation, you're good.

You may be be considered less attractive, though, (physically) once your appearance becomes less youthful. But a man who is all too focussed on the youthfulness of your appearance is probably not going to be the best choice, anyway.

BlueScorpio · Answer

I'm 30 and people get surprised when I tell them. They think I'm in my early 20s still. There's nothing wrong with turning 30, dobuounknow how many people don't get the opportunity to turn 30? It's either getting older and living a long life or dying young and trust me most people don't want to die young. Also stop listening to those weird ass, angry men on line telling other men to trash women at 25 to 30. These men are miserable and just trying to get back at women that hurt them. They will not produce long, healthy relationship with that thought process. Beauty fades and won't be forever, when old you will want comfort and stability instead beauty.

hahahmm · Answer

I guarantee you that I have seen women in their 40s who have a better face than you do right now... so suck it up and stop worshiping yourself. Maybe learn how to take care of your self (skin, hair, muscles...) properly. A lot of women are too lazy to do that. And learn to build CHARACTER. That's what makes a woman valuable. Looks are just icing on the cake. Of course when you're young & LAZY you'll try to avoid building good character because it takes more work than just rolling out of bed and posting a message on twitter/IG.

But here's a hint: good character means you'll say 'no' to things everybody else is saying, 'yes' to.

Tekkasonic · Answer

This is one of the great lie's that are told to women. This is not nice to say but it is a truth... men grow in value with age, women devalue with age... Men, with age, are able to reproduce till death, usually have money, transport, shelter, skills, etc etc. Women, with age lose their youthful beauty, loose the ability to reproduce after around 40, etc etc... It's not right or fair but it is true. My advice figure out what is it you want and pursue that goal, but also realize that that goal may have future issues you may have to consider.

fbk94 · Answer

Don't be afraid, a poet I love says,

"Suddenly, it happens all of a sudden. Nightmare and dream are the same. Both pass, like life, like time. The world is a legend, we are the story. Rap is a land of words, from meaning to meaning, from sea to sea''

In the meantime, I would appreciate it if you could comment on my question.

Girls, An unfortunate man?

#Reigner

TroyDT2 · Answer

Don't listen to that negativity, whether it is from others or from yourself. Yes, outer pretty always runs out eventually, but true beauty comes from within anyway. Anyone who genuinely loves you won't care that you probably won't look the same in 40 years. My grandparents were together for over 60 years before my grandmother passed. She was a beautiful person, but certainly did not look like she did when grandpa married her. He did not care. He adored her all the same and mourned her loss for the three years, four months, and two days he lived after she died. THAT is true love, not some guy who lusts after you for your looks them dumps you when those looks start to fade.

zagor · Answer

You can always die. Or dye.

You are being weird about this. If you are worried about your looks, eat right, exercise, avoid too much sun, don't party too much. The genetic part you can't do much about. There are a lot of women who look good well past 30, and a lot of 20 year olds who don't look so hot.

One of the hottest girls I ever met was 21 at the time, and her younger sister was a model, but people who knew her said her mother (whom I never met) was often mistaken for their sister.

humanearth · Answer

Wait till your in your 50s

You look in the mirror and wonder where your life gone. Your hair is thinning, may have some missing teeth, your hair is almost all grey, you start to get wrinkles, you skin starts to sag

As you look in the mirror, you see a old person looking back at you

So wait 20 years

melanieeeB · Answer

Your life isn't over with 30. If you're scared of getting unattractive, maybe do some self care, wellness days and go little birthday shopping.
You won't automatically turn to someone else, just cause the number changes, you're still going to be beautiful

WindAtMyBack · Answer

I've lived 30 years twice and working on a third. The first one didn't scare me. The second one didn't scare me either. I have to wait a while to find out if the third time scares me.

You're just a kid. You're barely even starting in life. You shouldn't be worrying about such things. Live your life and have fun. Stop worrying about things you can do nothing about.

Bethany22 · Answer

If you still will look exactly like you did when you were in your early 20s, men won't treat you any differently, as your continued attractiveness will implicitly signal to them that you're still good baby-making material. If you don't look as good, just reinforce it to guys that they need to respect you anyways.

HighValue · Answer

If you want a good mate and to have kids, focus on getting that now then before turning 30. If all you want is a sexual partner and to be physically attractive and don't care about having a long term good partner and to create a family, then your age won't matter nearly as much.

Moose304 · Answer

As a male making a truthful reply here would be like me picking up a dangerous Elapidae and getting bit. So I rather just look at it. I will only say I have read most of the comments, and have no opinion. As to the asker let me just say this. You need to have a serious conversation with yourself about where do you want to be in 10- 20 or even 30 years? Nobody can really answer this for you!

DavidRaul · Answer

You would be still considered attractive. If you turn 30 , you would still look 20 as attractive as in your primes. So don't worry about it. I am turning 23, i wish i could be 17 again but that doesn't bother me. I want to embrace the "23" with all its ups and downs.

Ad_Quid_Orator · Answer

When I was 22, I thought girls in their 30s were unattractive.

But now that I'm 32, girls who are in their 30s are looking a lot better to me.

And if anyone in their 20s is wondering how someone can find girls in their 30s attractive, ask yourself this: when you were 17, did 13-year-old girls look as good to you as they did when you were 13?

NathanDavis · Answer

if you're 25 today... you still have five years to grow out of that dumb mindset start, today

ElvenMr · Answer

That's society for you nowadays. You'll look the way you do now most likely, unless you do some heavy drugs, or live a very unhealthy lifestyle.

Don't worry about it, people who matter will still like you. Exercise, smile, be happy, do what you love :)

GrapeApe98 · Answer

Well, you could be dead by then. Seriously though, looks aren't everything. But if you're so concerned about your appearance by that time, just drink lots of water, eat healthy. exercise, and moisturize and you'll still be attractive for a good long while.

misfittoy · Answer

considered unattractive by who? its a number? i look like im 19 at 34. is what it is, stop worrying so much about trivial things, its nothing, i promise.

curlyfirecracker · Answer

Less attractive? How so? It is a natural part of life and beauty isn't defined, nor does it change dramatically simply based on a number. I actually look back and think I am more beautiful now in my thirties.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

The only thing to fear is fear itself & as for you babygirl age is just a number & like wine you get better with age. As for us we’re not getting older, the rest of the world is getting younger. Live your life my friend & live a beautiful one.

dustybiker · Answer

You’ll only be considered unattractive by ignorant men. You don’t want them anyway. Consider it a bright light that points them all out. Makes dating far easier.

God_of_Thunder · Answer

Pfft, if someone considers you unattractive, simply because you've crossed an arbitrary point on the calendar between 29 & 30, then they are a child, and don't deserve to date you, anyway.

D-Pad_Chad · Answer

I'm not understanding your question. Do about what, aging? Are you referring to the loss of youthful beauty? Once I have a better grasp of what you're asking I think I could give better advice.

lookingeverywhere · Answer

Absolutely nothing can be done about getting older. The sooner you accept it, the better for your health and state of mind. Just try and enjoy all the benifits of being young before it is too late, specially sexually. Enjoy it all with a passion. You will miss it as you get older.

UnknownSwede · Answer

Why do you think you will be seen as unattractive? Maybe you wouldn't be a 20 year olds type, but I'm guessing you wouldn't want to attract people of that age either.

People of your own age will still find you attractive.

rosemilk · Answer

absolutely nothing you can do... not sure what in the world kind of answers you were expecting.

Haha456 · Answer

what makes you think you won't be attractive once you turn 30 ? you're not unattractive unless you're over 40.

snowboarder720 · Answer

You could build a machine that makes your travel at the speed of light to slow down how fast you age…

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Embrace it and think of it as marking it zero and starting over. New decade, new slate. Make it count.

Paulalove98 · Answer

Embrace it and be a milf just take care of yourself lol that’s what I plan to do when I’m older haha🤣

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

I once saw a scifi movie where, in a totalitarian regime, people were not allowed to be older than 30. So at 30 they had to go visit an euthanasia center. Now be lucky this isn't the case for you

AviatorTom · Answer

Look, no one knows how old you are unless you tell them. There's nothing magic about turning 30 ... or any other number, for that matter.

Th3ft · Answer

That is not true!! There is nothing that changes…and everyone who claims that people over 30 are less attractive are dumb!

Agape93 · Answer

Nothing, it's inevitable. But you don't lose attractiveness at 30 unless they're absolutely fuckwits anyways, and thus not worth your time

hyperben · Answer

you can do absolutely nothing, roll with it and never act your age, some of my best friends are in their 60's but still act like 25 YO's

AddylynnNightingale · Answer

My mom still gets hit on. 30 shouldn't be the end of the world. Just take very good care of your body, you only have one.

Sour-rose · Answer

JUst go and punch someone. It'll make you feel better. :)

CA4444 · Answer

Well you can jump from a bridge that will solve it

Berethor · Answer

Scared of hitting the wall? yea you are running out of time, look for a relationship, soon.

WeirdoFriendly · Answer

Not much you can do. Life of all things is aging and you can't do anything to reverse that time. Just gotta keep moving forward. And I'm sure you look gorgeous

Deepinthought345 · Answer

She has nothing to do with being attractive. Most of my classmates in their 40s still look like they've just stepped out of the classroom yesterday. Both boys and girls

mobiusforniner · Answer

Honey, you got time. Just dont settle or become desperate. Be yourself and smile often.

annabananna · Answer

If you’re attractive your attractive and the number doesn’t matter.

SlothySlob · Answer

Depending on where you live, I actually believe in your fear.

es20490446e · Answer

You can either think how old you will look 5 years from now. Or think how good you look now from 5 years from now.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

Upon turning 80, Winston Churchill was asked how it felt to be that old. He said “Considering the alternative, I feel just fine!”

TheVigilantOne · Answer

You can’t do much can you? Unless you suddenly die you’re going to get older it happens to everyone.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

What you do: be scared to turn 70 instead :)

exitseven · Answer

Just think about what it will be like to turn 40.

Xylem1992 · Answer

Best is to make the best of your time. Enjoy yourself. in the end, age is just number of laps we made around the sun. It doesn't mean much

collie22 · Answer

theirs nothing you can do about it at all. try doing something out side and forget about it. Outsides favorite place to do things !

Coden7 · Answer

I just turned 30. My advice is to not think about it much, and do what makes you feel good.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

What can you do? Worry about things that actually matter.

Neilbud · Answer

People act like turning 30 is the worst. I think most girls in their 30s are at the best times of their lives.

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This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

What?  Did you fall for the toxic incel internet talk?

Mangospacho · Answer

Just embrace it. There are very good looking women in their 30s.

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