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Seven years of mental, emotional and at some points physical abuse is it hard for men to understand that a woman will get fed up and her mind leaves after all the years of it before she physically does? Why does it take so much for men to realize they had something good?
For Get about the men. Especially a man that put you through what he put you through.
Why do women wait so long before they leave why do they stay and keep taking that crap.
I am one of the most quiet patient loving positive person you will ever ever meet but if a woman did to me what that man did to you probably the first or the second time she would be gone she would be out of my life forever there's nothing nobody anything in this world they could make me put up with any of that kind of crap I feel bad for you I really do I wish you would have done it sooner and I hope you find happiness and I hope you just glow when you do so he can just see that light from miles and miles away from your glow and he's going to know it's you s*** if a man calls you names if a man yells and screams at you out of control tell him to get f***** and get the f*** out and mean it he is not worth it I don't care he just broke every trust every respect law every moral every ethical every value that he had when he says I love you because that's not love that's f****** abuse it's b******* it's control it's manipulation and it needs to get dealt with by getting him out you're not built for that you're not made for that that's not your destiny your destiny is happiness it's your choice on how are you going to get it and who's going to give it to you but it's also your choice who's not going to give it to you and get him out of your life
Well you are holding grudges for the entire time period. Then one day a guy spills coffee on the floor and you suddenly lose it.
Anyway I am not discounting whatever your ex did. Yes everyone has a straw that the camels back. For me it’s when I determine the women no longer has any respect for me. Her societal built in cushion for me being expected to tolerate her shit testing goes away once I determine that. It’s when she never apologizes (when she obviously did wrong) or worse tries to gaslight. I don’t get angry I just leave when I hit that point.
No because of them think good women will stay - I'm not tolerating no man's behavior- these men think they're the prize they're not ! I choose peace and freedom over low tier behavior and abuse.
Absolutely, but essentially if a woman allows it, he’s just going to do what he wants.
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You deserve what you tolerate. Lesson learned. Never again
Doesn’t mean she was something good. A lot of women tend to tell theirselves or their friends oh girl he was just toxic, he doesn’t deserve you, you can do so much better when in reality it was them. Not in all cases, but no matter what it always seems as though the female is blaming the male when she was toxic as hell. It may be hard for them to understand as well because rather than leave after it happens the first time, women stay around, even after a second or third time. So of course the idiot is going to keep doing it cause she continues to stay.
You put up with that for 7 years? And you're expecting him to understand? It's not going to work that way. All he will do is keep doing it because he knows you will always put up with it. 7 years has been your choice.
I mean, you put up with it for seven years. The question should be do women ever get fed up with being treated poorly. You put so much of your worth into what some random dude you thought was cute thinks of you rather than having the self worth to not get abused for seven years. Yeah, abuse should never be tolerated, but you can’t suffer it for seven years and then blame men in general.
Your specifics sound extreme, with constant abuse. Not sure how that particular guy could be surprised.
But non-abusive men can often be ignorant when it comes to their partners. The guy might think everything is fine because she is not complaining and they are not fighting. He does not realize that she feels completely neglected and taken advantage of, and is planning her exit.
I think we do but get told nothing wrong so much that we just let it pass.
there is nothing more that gets us going, than when we ask what's up you reply NOTHING when by the reply we know there is.
So most of us don't ask any more!!!
I don’t know the feeling I’ve been rejected and ghosted before I can even do anything where she gets to know the real me. If anything I felt like I wasted my time on girls in the last 15 years.
Uhm... yeah... so a lot of people could say the same thing about women. People are people.
A lot of men don't. There's this man I dated for a while in my 20s and he still thinks I have feelings for him even though I'm now married.
Maybe. If they are able to communicate. That is the key in all relationships
A small minority are aware. The rest are usually clueless.
If he doesn't im sure she will find a way to let him know
As much as women understand when a guy is fed up.
Men do but women think we dont
yeah
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