Is it ok to tell my cheating husband I find him disgusting and repulsive?

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caring__1 · Accepted Answer

What do you hope to accomplish? Escalating conflict won't make your life easier. Moving on from this dysfunctional situation will make your life easier (even if you can't afford to maintain the lifestyle you've become accustomed to). Let him realize he's the one losing, not you. People tend to focus on what they believe they're entitled to do rather than think about where their choices will take them and how their choices will impact the ones they care about. A long-term perspective will always be more functional than a short-term perspective.

Losalt · Accepted Answer

Look at where you plan on going long term...
If you do that then either you have to live with a partner that you have said that to, or leave.
No matter what he might have done and how much he deserves it, he's not going to forget how much you hurt him any more then you'll forget how he hurt you by cheating.
If you *want* to salvage the relationship having fewer issues to deal with will help.
nd this is definitely bad enough...

Like someone here said, take a long term perspective.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes of course. He is definitely those things for cheating on you.

RavVid · Answer

What do you want to achieve? Do you have absolute evidence he is cheating or just a strong suspicion? I can see that you want to hurt him and quite possibly you do feel he is now disgusting and repulsive to you BUT what are you trying to accomplish?

If it is just to separate from him why not do that?

Fireguy17 · Answer

Yeppers, and it's time to end it. I found my exwife with someone, came home unexpectedly and she asked what are you doing here to which I replied I used to live here. I could never trust her again.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

You like what you like & you can call your husband anything you want, he’ll probably like it & say thank you. Tell him that after you give him a bj.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Yes but then again it’s best if you part ways with him. All you’re gonna do is escalate beyond words if you remain

Anonymous · Answer

If he's cheating on you you really think it's going to matter/make a difference?😆 I suppose you can if it makes you feel any better. But if he's cheating on you he already doesn't respect you. So you're kind of wasting your breathe. But do what makes you happy.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Why is he still your husband?

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Why is that?

i cheated on my girlfriend but she said she didn’t want to do anal so I did it with another girl

does she have the right to be repulsed and disgusted when I tried to share my body with her and she denied?

exitseven · Answer

yes, tell him after you throw all his stuff on the front lawn.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

It's YOUR relationship! Why do you need ANYONE ELSE'S approval?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes. That is 100% okay. It's also okay to divorce him!!

slatyb · Answer

Why is he still your husband?

Anonymous · Answer

If he's that bad why haven't you divorced him?

BlackJeep · Answer

Let your lawyer handle that

Nikki1989 · Answer

Absolutely 100%.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Yea he deserves it for being a cheater

boobliker · Answer

if that what you really feel then yes do it

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

And he's still your husband because?

LazerBean · Answer

Of course.

noohair · Answer

File for divorce.

dudeinohio · Answer

Absolutely

BLP11520 · Answer

YES...

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