Am I toxic here?

[Anonymous]

I am with this guy and we technically live together EVERYTHING of his is at my flat and he helps with bills etc. he classes it as his house. His main priority PS5 is here also and literally all his money and what he owns. Last night he didn’t come to sleep with me and when this happens I find it really concerning as where else is he sleeping? He does have his moms house which is still technically his house he has a room there and TV and clothes etc but I find it weird when he dosent come home and says he’s been at his moms house I just automatically assume he’s been at another woman’s house! Is this toxic or is this normal thinking?

[Anonymous]

First of all why do you assume this? He messed around on you before? Someone else messed around on you? I get how you feel but why the insecurity? Second you need to sit down w him, talk about it. I mean talk, like adults. Not scolding him. Arguing. That is the main reason most men won’t talk because women talk at them, not w them. So as much as you may not like some of the things he says, just listen, then voice your opinion. Because him not coming home like that, or when ever he wants isn’t what someone in a serious relationship should be doing. I’m amazed that your first thought was he’s at another woman’s place. Nothing like you’re concerned he’s dead, he’s been hurt, etc, etc.

[Asker]

I don’t know I’m just very insecure. When we first met he was sleeping with other women so it’s gotten to me since. It’s hard as we don’t technically LIVE together he just stays round most the times in the week and classes it as his home even though he also classes his other home as his home too.

[Opinion Owner]

How long have you two been together?

[trexxx707]

That sounds pretty sketch to me. I'm 90% sure he's cheated on you

[EmmaMary]

Personally I think it's time you sat down with him and have a very seriously talk about this.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[b_lova]

He could have been at his mom's but I would ask why? Asking a question doesn't make you toxic how you respond after the answer can.

[In_Trance]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

Its normal