Is it good to be a coward?

[Anonymous]

That way people can't pick on you for not trying in the sense of dating. Or even at work. Or school. No one will know younare secretly a coward.. I don't know

[exitseven]

It sucks to be a coward. Guys need to be able to exert some measure if control over their fear

[Throwawaynowknow]

Saw a video of a guy who was protecting a woman from her abusive husband or boyfriend but got shot and died. Not getting involved sometimes

[Asker]

I don't blame you

[Throwawaynowknow]

If I'm honest, I think for a lot of people, including myself, there has to be something you get out of it. There may be some completely virtous who would be content just knowing you've helped them and you have nothing to gain. I think I would do so when I gain something like protecting my loved one, getting fame, receiving reward, etc.

[Wise4myage]

Cowardice is never ok.

[Anonymous]

How does that make you a coward?

[Asker]

I'm curious if I should become one. I go for what I want and always rejected. So, if I don't at all I figure I won't get my heart broken

[Opinion Owner]

When I was younger I used to go with my heart. About 500 rejections later I don't do that anymore.😆
I'll still make an effort, but not often. For example I've probably asked 2 women out in the last 15 years. She's really gotta wow me.

I'm not say my way is right. I'm just saying it's your life and you have to live with the results, both good and bad. So make the decision you can live with.

[Asker]

I really love someone but he doesn't like me back. I don't think. He's also really hard to contact. Bummer

[Opinion Owner]

Risk vs. reward. Nothing worth having ever is easy. Some guys need a push. Some guys you need to outright ask. But either way. Do the work. Get to know him. If he likes you, he'll like just being around you. If he doesn't want to even be around you you've got your message move on, don't waste your time.
I know I might miss out on women by this attitude. But the way I look at it is those are the wrong women if she doesn't even care enough to show equal interest.

[Asker]

This guy is confusing. He accepted all of my sexual attraction and advances as I was flirting sexually. But it seemed he doesn't like my skin tone but I wouldn't know if it was him if he hit me in the face with bricks... he also uses this site. But he's recently came out bisexual so I don't know lol