My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years now, and he has never apologizes or have ever apologized after an argument. I would find myself just sitting in silence and always replaying the arguments in my head. Then I would feel bad for the things I say and the take accountability for not having better self control. I would go and apologize to my boyfriend, sometimes the next day or some hrs after our disagreement and identify where I went wrong so he knows how much I mean it. The problem is that he never apologizes first, even after I do he never apologize. This is upsetting because he claims to cares about me but he never shows me how sorry he is in a meanful way. He would come years later and apologize for something that doesn't even need an apology, which really frustrates me. He doesn't listen to me when I express myself, and he tries to control the way I talk to him and my level of frustration during our arguments. This seems to be his only focus during our disputes because he never tries to address what I am telling him, rather he comes with a rebuttal. I am at my wits end and don't know what to do about this. What do you think is the issue?
My boyfriend never apologizes after arguments, what should I do?
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