My friend is dating this girl who was dumped from her 2 year relationship only 3 months ago, and he is posting how much he loves her and calling?

[Anonymous]

Her his soul mate but she doesn’t do the same at all, she seems distant in his post and I’m worried that my friend might just be her rebound and he would be heartbroken in the end because she’s not ready for a relationship. Any advice or thoughts would be appreciated.

[Selene1600000]

You’re probably right to be concerned when one person is all-in and the other is distant, it usually ends in hurt. The best thing you can do is gently point out what you’re seeing (her inconsistency, possible rebound situation) without attacking her, then let your friend make his own choice. Be there for him either way, because people often have to learn this kind of lesson themselves.

[Anonymous]

You can’t make it your problem, because it’s not your experience. Sure you can try to share some advice but ultimately the most you can say is for him to be careful, because if he’s that attached, he won’t listen to you.