I am currently on a break/space with my partner. I want to hang out with him what do I do?

[Anonymous]

July 24th I was asked to leave his house, and I haven’t hung out with him in since then. He asked for space and I’m respect that but he still calls and texts me during the day but not as much.

[Finchie40]

Space in relationships don’t sit well with me , if a partner needs that much space and time from someone they claim to love, they don’t love you, they like the convenience of you and they are more than likely weighing their options and being up to no good , I don’t care what anyone says , it’s a crock of shit. My advice to you is to move on from him and don’t waste anymore of your time with him , He is clearly a selfish pos that only cares about himself , people that need a lot of space from their so called loving partner are clearly selfish people that only care about themselves , Whether they are physically cheating on you or not , they are still cheating on the relationship they choose to be in with you. Do not fall for this bullshit , Ask yourself this , do you truly want to give your heart to someone that needs space from you? I am not saying your partner has to hold your hand at all times but you should never be someone’s second option period , if I need space from a girl , I have plenty of space from her when I go to work , a loving partner is not going to exclude you period , you should always be your partner’s top priority the same way you make them yours , You are clearly not his top priority because when someone truly loves you they do not need that much space from you period. Kick him to the curb where he belongs and find yourself a guy that values you like you value them , or you will be just wasting your time and energy on someone that needs space from you. When a girl tells me she needs space from me and needs days apart from me she no longer matters to me , I am not going to be a sitting duck for a girl that doesn’t make me her priority the same way I make her mine , basically thank you for a good time but not a long time. He doesn’t love you , he likes the convenience of you and is clearly stringing you along for his selfish wants and needs. Do yourself a favor dump his ass

[jahaims]

I don't understand people who take breaks. Either communicate and work through it or call it done. Breaks are immature. It's for people who don't want to deal with the issue at hand.

[Asker]

I want to work through it with him. I have offered once he said not right now in a little bit of time me can. How do I address that to him without me being selfish? I don’t know how to put my foot down correctly and get this stupid situation resolved.

[jahaims]

You aren't selfish first of all. The guy is just immature. Put your foot down and actually be ready to lose him. Do you want a family with a guy who needs breaks in this way?

[Asker]

Absolutely not. I don’t want a family with someone who wants breaks that is not going to work. I been 2 week since we actually went out and hung out. I feel like I’m being neglected and my needs are being ignored as well. We just we to together every single day now we been apart for 14 days

[jahaims]

Just move on. You deserve better.

[Anonymous]

Don’t play this game of letting him have it both ways, your eagerness to hang on will only backfire. If he wants to be present then he can’t half ass it like this, his either in or out. If he’s in, then you should be able to go see him without a problem. If he’s out, then give him the space he wants and stop talking. His straddling the fence will confuse, hurt, and disappoint you going forward. You shouldn’t want to put yourself through such trauma.

[Confused_About_Girls]

I agree. She needs to just give him what he asked for and ignore any contact he makes unless he has had enough time apart and wants her time again.

[Anonymous]

Sounds kinda desperate to me find a new guy to hang out with, because that’s probably the reason he wanted you gone so he could try something new himself.

[Avicenna]

He's your partner still, so just tell him that you want to come over.

[exitseven]

Just ask him. The worst thing to happen is he says no.

[Grovermint]

Express that you miss him and want to spend some time together. It's really that easy.

[Asker]

I have told him I missed him and even offered a few plans and he said he need to check and see.

[Grovermint]

He very well might not want to be with you any more.

[Anonymous]

He’s your “partner”after all should talk with him but if he doesn’t want to do it if this continues later on could be a problem

[Billlewis]

Call him and tell him.

[GodsPinkyToe]

Use your words.

[TheSpaceGnome]

He doesn't love you.

[sheikalana]

Tell him you'd like to meet him.

[HaveNoName]

Take a break from the break.

[Iron_Man]

Tell him enough‘s enough let’s hang out

[In_Trance]

Talk to him