If somebody sleeps with you on the first date does that disqualify them from any serious relationship you may have had?

[Anonymous]

Everybody has so called preferences but if you have this standard for your partner I think you must live according to the same standard. If you yourself are willing to sleep with somebody on the first date you cannot condemn nor make assumptions about the person who reciprocated you? Doesn’t make any sense at all.

[Danny_dan92]

I wouldn’t say disqualifying but it is definitely a red flag of what’s to come.




For context. My last relationship my ex and I didn’t even hang out, or talk or do anything.


I picked her up and immediately went to a hotel and fucked.






Later I found out she couldn’t wait for me.

[Anonymous]

Well, first off, I wouldn't sleep with her on the first date. But yeah, that would be very telling. I mean, on one hand, I'd be flattered. But then that would be quickly replaced with, "Is this normal for her?" "Does she do this with every guy?" And then I would be questioning if there is a future between us because she hardly knows me.

[Alexz0]

If I don't have sex on the first date there won't be a second. So I expect the same will apply to my eventual husband.

[LazerBean]

I wouldn't have sex outside of marriage, and anyone who ever has is immediately out of the question.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm not allowing her to sleep with me on a first date.
If she asked to do that, I'm not seeing her anymore at all.

[Reem12345reem]

i guess for most guys they'll view as slutty behavior

[Darkest-Knight]

It wouldn't affect the potential of any relationship. Not for me anyway.

[jimmy2]

Depends on your state in US we have a common law. That's means you stay the night with One even in bed then all laws file into the situation

[Redstang88]

No..