Girls, Have you ever accidentally hurt your partner’s family jewels?

[Anonymous]

[Vesuvius87]

Nope but it was a close one and I got worried. My then 2nd boyfriend (now ex) and were sparring during Judo classes, we both fell. My right knee was at a folded position inches near his groin. He backed away on time though.

[Asker]

I do martial arts and once a lady accidentally kicked me in the balls and I was down for the count, it was so embarrassing

[Vesuvius87]

Omg that must be so painful. Make sure to wear cups.

[Asker]

I’m worried that the women in class will think I’m not tough since I dropped to the mat holding myself

[Vesuvius87]

It's ok to show pain. That area is full of sensitive nerves.

[Asker]

Yeah but what would you think if you were in a class and saw a tall and muscular guy on the mat holding his manhood?

[Vesuvius87]

I would think he needs help, give him a glass of water and ask if he's ok or wants to see a doctor.
I would see it as a human in pain that needs help.

[Asker]

But can you see how it’s embarrassing for a guy because it brings attention to how vulnerable my balls are and that’s not good

[Vesuvius87]

I fail to understand how a human being in pain and needing help is embarrassing. You man isn't a robot. He's a human that can feel pain just like anyone.

[Vesuvius87]

"A man isn't a robot

[Asker]

But doesn’t it make the woman watching think of the guys privates?

[Vesuvius87]

Nope. All I think about is "I hope he's ok, let me help someone in pain".

[Asker]

That makes me feel better, I was worried the women would think less of me because they now know how weak I am down there

[Vesuvius87]

If anyone thinks less of you for that reason then they aren't worth your time.

[Asker]

Do you think women understand it doesn’t matter how tough a guy is when it comes to the balls? And getting hit there

[Vesuvius87]

If they can read basic biology I would believe they should. That's like the equivalent of our ovaries. If our ovaries were exposed, then getting hit there would hurt badly too.

[Asker]

Yeah but isn’t there an expectation for guys to be somewhat tough with injuries, like the take it like a man saying

[Vesuvius87]

I think people are taking that ''take it like a man'' saying to the extreme. There are times when a man needs to be assertive and times to show emotions and pain.
If a man is crying because he just got into a petty argument with his parents or girlfriend/wife, a date rejected him or other trivial things, then obviously that's a drama king that needs to get tougher emotionally.
However if he's crying in pain because he got hit in his privates or is emotionally distress because he just lost his child, then ''take it like a man'' doesn't apply there.

[Asker]

Have you seen a guy get hit in the privates in a sparring class?

[Vesuvius87]

Nope I haven't yet.

[Asker]

I thought about wearing a cup but they are so uncomfortable

[Vesuvius87]

They tend to either prevent hits there or lessen the pain by a lot. It might be uncomfortable but it wouldn't be a bad idea to have it in case.

[Anonymous]

Yes well being a mistress a lot ask me to they love being kicked caged and sometimes castrated and give a pussy for mistress!

Really kinda like those fantasys making them my mommy pet! No one knowing but me about those new pussy!

[Lowiu]

Yes but only on accident

[Asker]

What happened?

[Lowiu]

I wanted to like climb over him while in bed and I on accident put my knee on his balls

[Asker]

Ouch!! I bet he felt that

[Lowiu]

Yes it was the end of the night

[Asker]

What do you mean the end of the night

[Lowiu]

Like after that it was only cuddling cooling and caring for him

[Asker]

Why did he need you to care for him?

[Lowiu]

Because I hurt him badly

[Asker]

It hurt for more than a min? Why do you think that?

[Lowiu]

Like it was intense in the beginning but it hurt longer after that

[Asker]

Were you suprised if he’s normally a tough guy?

[Lowiu]

Yes but I knew that hits in the balls hurt a lot

[Asker]

Is that the first time you have done that to a guy?

[Lowiu]

Yes and only time

[Anemone978]

No.. on purpose once I have..

[Asker]

Why did you do it on purpose?

[Anemone978]

Because he was twisting my arm when I told him to stop..

[Asker]

What did you do?

[Anemone978]

I don't know.. lol