Guys, do you agree that nightclubs are perhaps the worst way to get a good woman?

[MaxUsefull]

you spend a lot of money to find a woman with a high body count…or maybe not even that

[Finchie40]

For the most part yes , Most people that go to night clubs are just looking to get laid or hook up and have fun for the most part , I am not saying everyone is bad , but a majority of the people that go are. If you are single then go have a blast but if you are in a relationship you are best not to go to nightclubs without your partner, out of respect for each other , Someone that’s in a committed relationship shouldn’t need that shit in their life period , it’s disrespectful if you are going to nightclubs without your partner , people will sugarcoat it as much as they can , but they are clearly talking out their asses. I have a shit ton of experiences and witnessed a shit ton of things from going to night clubs , to the point it’s not a place for committed partners to go to without their partner with them , so much dumb shit happens when people are drinking and getting silly , yes you can trust your partner but you can’t trust the people that they are going to run into. Me personally wouldn’t get into a relationship with a girl that constantly went to nightclubs with her friends , I would date her but I wouldn’t take her seriously, she would just be a piece of ass to be honest

[TipsyFr]

I remember on a ski trip a friend of ours crying the whole week because we went to a nightclub one night and his girlfriend at the time hooked up with some random guy. The guys threw a fit the next day and the girls had no choice but to agree with us. We threw her stuff outside and let her be on her merry way. Poor guy even as a couple it can be risky 😅

[Finchie40]

Yea that’s crazy , and she deserves being treated like complete shit, I use to work as a bouncer at a club and the shit I witnessed was pretty messed up , basically people cheating left and right on each other , fights breaking out , I had husbands come up to me looking for their wives Wives looking for their husbands , to find out they were in a back room having sex with some random person they met in the club , of course we would kick them out the second we busted them but that’s the shit people do to each other sadly to say , Selfish fucking people that only care about themselves

[blueonblack22]

I worked as doorman at college Irish pub in college. Ironically I sometimes got hit on by girls who had bfs. One girl who was a be beautiful solid 10 hit on me when her boyfriend was not 10 feet away. I remember looking over him saying “hey is this your girlfriend?” and he was like “yeah” with this miserable look in his face. I dunno wtf it was about. Maybe a cuck fantasy before there was a name for it.

I didn’t take her up on it. Felt like a trap. Still though women do bizarre shit in clubs. They have “ladies nights out” where they dress all provocative yet they mock and cock block any guy who approaches them. Then others do stupid shit tests.

[Finchie40]

I experienced the same shit with girls as well , why I no longer jump into a commitment with a girl until I feel she is really on it for the long haul , Most girls’ say they want love and commitment and then the second they receive it they change their minds and feel they deserve something better , I am not saying all girls are like this but a majority of them are

[blueonblack22]

I wish I never wasted my time at bars and clubs when I was younger. I felt like it was the “cool kid thing to do” back then or some nonsense. But so much wasted time, money, effort and unnecessary inebriation.

[MaxUsefull]

@blueonblack22 agree…too much money for nothing

[blueonblack22]

I used to be dragged along with my other friends to hit these up when I was much younger. Truth is I absolutely hated night clubs. Maybe 10-15% of the time I had a good time. But usually after 30 mins I always wanted to leave. Always in a worse mood when I left then when I came. But I felt like it was either that or I would stay home alone.

Some people really do live for clubbing though. The loud music, over priced drinks, crowded spaces, waiting in long lines, attitudes, etc. seems to be “the thing” for them.

[Avicenna]

Tinder is probably even worse

[blueonblack22]

It is now. But actually wasn’t too bad when it first launched.

[ChiTown33]

Not necessarily. Without a doubt there are some missle twisters at a club that a guy should avoid. But women in general like music, like dancing, like a night out with thier friends. And a club is a good way to observe men in thier element have fun, alcohol is flowing for both genders so both are sufficiently uninhibited and relaxed.

So no, I wouldn't say a club is the worst place to "get a woman". But a guy SHOULD take his time vetting her. Life continues after you leave the club. And there's more to life and a relationship then just the ability to cut loose and have fun.

[MikeTheBartender]

As a guy that has worked in nightclubs and slept with many girls from nightclubs, I absolutely agree. That's not to say that great chicks don't show up once in awhile, but they are not there to meet you, they are just there to hang with their girls.

[love_conquers_lust]

Can’t hear shit. People are disinhibited so there is a lot of walks of shame in the morning. People forget who they are.

“Oh it’s all unifying.”. All it is for some clubs is an opportunity for different races to prey on others with drugs and alcohol. It’s like legalized date raping.

[loveslongnails]

I think they are now. In my parent's and grandparent's day, dance halls and clubs were very different, and everybody went there. They weren't necessarily meat markets, and you could meet real, decent hard working and worthwhile people, just like yourself! :)

[Meropatrick]

Nightclubs are places to have fun and spend a night dancing freely and socialising. Its only for that. The problem that people use any place to date. Which is not right. I have seen people using a workplace to hookup. And compete over a mate while at work. Thats why most marriges end in bitter divorce. People meet their partners in all the wrong places then cry later

[Fireguy17]

Oh ya, you know nothing about her, it's usually noisy, and she drove her friends there.
Hard to get to know someone enough to figure out if you want to see them again.

[Lionman95]

Yes because at night clubs there is nothing good to be found unless you look for fun in the moment but it´s not a place to date or make friends.

[Curmudgeon]

Overpriced drinks and cover charges? Inability to actually converse with someone as opposed to shouting over the din? What could go wrong? Everything, it turns out.

[Anonymous]

Dude--literally no man in the history of ever has gone to a nightclub with the goal of getting a "good" woman for a relationship. You go there to see if you can score a hottie for some fun.

[Curmudgeon]

And the odds of that happening are even more abysmal!

[Opinion Owner]

@Curmudgeon Definitely not true. I've hooked up and had fun at clubs multiple times. I've never once found a girlfriend there. Figure out your goal and then put together the best plan to achieve THAT goal.

[Phoenix98]

I honestly hate nightclubs the people there aren't people I would consider dating material much less anything more then that.

[jshm2]

Who the fuck is going into clubs to find a wife anyway?

It's like going into a BBQ joint for a vegan sandwich.

[slatyb]

No, I don't. It's no different from any other activity, but it's a bit harder to talk over there music.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't look for women at nightclubs anymore for that reason.

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely and the worst way for a woman to get a good man.

[shades777]

hey everyone's experience is different, maybe just go to have fun and leave? womwn can buy their own drinks and you can buy your own, go dance or lounge, who cares

[TheSpaceGnome]

The worst way is probably a bar, but yes nightclubs are a close second.

[DextroShade]

Girls aho gp to nightclubs are recreational use only; if you go there looking for a wife it will fuck up your life.

[boobliker]

nightclubs are for having fun and getting lots of sex. you find a the good lady in the supper market

[MaxUsefull]

Or in the church

[zagor]

Nightclubs are for good-looking guys (or guys with coke) to find the fk-of-the-night.

[AngryCarl2]

haha yeah, nobody but sluts and hos in nightclubs.

[Tiger288]

I agree. They are so cocky and think too good for men it turn me off

[scooogy]

Well, nothing is more flirtatious than "WHISPER LOUDER PLEASE!!" 🤣

[Deuce-Li84]

For those looking for something long term yes. For men and women who have given up dating entirely no.

[Billlewis]

Ain't no 'perhaps'.

[Lokiion]

Nah dating apps gotta be the worse

[Anonymous]

Agree. Try fishing in uncontaminated water.

[dolemite58]

about as good as an std clinic

[Iron_Man]

Yes….

[robocop666]

Nope I met many there