Why do girls reject guys in nightclubs?

Question

Some girls that aren't even that pretty and think so high of themselves and they only dance with their girlfriends at nightclubs. What's up with that? Me and my friends went out yesterday and I got rejected like 5 times none of us even danced with a girl except one girl that came with our group. We aren't even bad looking yet only one guy in our group got to dance and makeout with a girl.

Wondorous · Accepted Answer

There are so many various reasons why a girl may not be interested in a guy at a club! Honestly, it's slightly self-absorbed to assume that the only reason a girl isn't interested in you is because of something you did. It's really easy for us to assume that if someone isn't into us and showing interest in us, then we must have done something wrong, but that's certainly not always the case.
1. Nightly goal is to have a good time with their friends.
They're not interested in male attention and making the night about guys. They went out to get dolled up and have a memorable time with their girls and that is a mission they stick to. So when guys approach them, they keep that mission in mind.
2. Unpleasant break-up
They just experienced an unpleasant, maybe even heart-wrenching break-up and they are fed up with the painful complexities men tend to cause. They're sincerely not interested in giving an ounce of their energy to a man because they had that attitude before and got hurt.
3. Their eyes are on someone else.
This relates to me. For a while, I was so stuck on the one who got away that I would be dismissive of any and every guy who gave me attention in the club. Not because they weren't attractive enough, but because I only had eyes for one special guy and every other guy genuinely felt like a small structure compared to a skyscraper. Therefore, I couldn't develop even the slightest interest of exploring that small structure when that unignorable, intriguing, exquisite skyscraper was the center of my sights.
4. They've noticed you being a pig.
If a girl has seen you bumping and grinding with various other girls or looking at girls with rapey eyes, then she's less likely to give you the time of day. Honestly, she's going to think that your nasty and be turned off when you direct your focus towards her.
5. She's a lesbian. Self-explanatory
6. She's sincerely a superficial, shallow b*tch.
Few guys are physically good enough for her...

Cj4TheWin · Accepted Answer

Okay... okay I'm gonna have so much fun answering this question...
Girls don't come to the club ONLY to dance with guys. Girls can come to the club because they have something to celebrate with their friends or because they wanna dance with their friends or they wanna have fun with their friends,
Girls DON'T go to the club strictly for your entertainement. They don't dress up because they wanna get humped by you , they don't put on make-up because maybe you will grace them with your attention for a second and they don't wear their clothing to seduce you.
So please, please, PLEASE, I beg of you, get the fuck off of your high horse, stop thinking that girls are strictly for your entertainement and to please you and SHUT THE FUCK UP.
Thank you.

ILoveChocolatey · Accepted Answer

LOL seriously? You're acting as if you only go to nightclubs to dance with JUST girls and ask girls out? Like no. Nightclubs are not always for that purpose. I went to a night club a couple of days ago and i was dancing with my girlfriends to have fun. If a hot guy comes to me with a nice personality i wouldn't reject him js...

Jessikins1989 · Accepted Answer

Either because they have boyfriends at home, or they are not interested in taking anyone home, so won't start dancing with you only to reject you at the end of the night, better they do that first than be a complete cock tease all night THEN reject you!

MadeInAmerica · Accepted Answer

Most of them are just out with girls and/or have boyfriends. I know my gf only dances with her friends at nightclubs because she says that most guys just wanna try to take you home or cop a feel on the dance floor and don't just wanna dance.

FourStar · Accepted Answer

LOOL thats funny you gotta step your club game up if not a single one of you got a dance yet alone a kiss. And you could always go dance with the fat ones if you are really desparate i dont see them turn anyone down.

lightbulb27 · Answer

be your best, most entertaining self, be confident and happy in your space and don't care what the results are. no matter what, you are having fun and feel good. all you can do then is make offers and see whom is interested.

you have to study up on girl behavior since you are lost. They are more like a group of Gazelles on the Prarie. Scare one (emotionally)... they are all scared and will shoot you down. Project your value and win one over, they all become interested. It's group think for security. Helps to win guys over first socially. It's energy.

If you just walk up to girls and ask them to dance, and that is where you are at socially, you're going to suffer rejection for a while and better off going to a church dance.

steveguitar · Answer

Because some people that go to clubs are just there to get sex. And a lot of people are just creepy. Girls want to meet a guy they can trust, not someone they just meet in a one night thing. Some girls just want to have fun and clubs are aplace for them to get their crazy out

washize · Answer

Must have been girls night out. It happens. Some people just go to the club to hang out with their friends. Some women don't like getting humped by random dudes who try to have sex/make out with them. Everyone goes to the club for different reasons. Some people go for sex, some go for drugs, some go for fun, some get draggedd there. All depends on the people and how you approach them.

Don't he the randm guy that just goes up and starts humping people from behind.

dx021 · Answer

um WTF so every girl you approach is supposed to just drop to her knees and blow you?

think about it from her perspective; she's at a club. do you think some random dude who jams his boner into her backside is a huge turn on? he's just some random douche.

I'm all for pick up (i throw myself into night and day game religiously), but rejection is a natural part of the process, and its generally how you present yourself that causes it

Adaeva · Answer

Like the reasons given by others there are lots of reasons a girl will reject a guy. However, since you got rejected by all the girls you were asking, obviously you are asking girls way out of your league. Since you can't do better, you should ask big girls and 40 year old women.

SandPlanet · Answer

Maybe because they're simply not interested in you?

And why did you sign up as under 18 when you're supposedly 19? I mean, I get why a lot of undergaged users sign up as older, but the other way around? What's the benefit of that? Haha.

Anonymous · Answer

Some girls are just there to have fun, not to hook up. They just want to dance.

Some have boyfriends.

Some ARE there to have fun and are single but just don't find you attractive.

That's basically it.

VikingWarLord · Answer

This is only a problem in the WEST where simping is on another level.

Go over to Southeast Asia like Philippines / Thailand, etc.. or even Eastern Europe.

And of course Mexico or S. America.

Chics will be following you around in these places. They love white guys from America the most.

Armada · Answer

Well, unless you're a super good looking dude or girls or the girl is trying to hook up with someone that night, you're SOL. Most girls are there to kick it with their girlfriends I think.

JesseP1nk · Answer

So they did not wanna dance - who cares? You are 19 ... that is really young. You have lot of chances to find someone. Nightclub is not definitely a place where you find meaningful relationship though... You have time, work on yourself - go to gym for example, learn martial art etc.

milafox · Answer

Because sometimes people just want to hang out with their friends. Because sometimes they just aren't interested. Because people generally don't go with the first person that asks them.

kangy · Answer

Because they were there to have fun with their gfs and we feel that bar is not a good place to meet guys

xxDanDangg · Answer

maybe coz we have experienced too much creeps at night clubs?  I want to talk to the guy I'm interested, but not so physical with him when I just know him.. So clubs are not the right place?

aamy811 · Answer

We'll sometimes girls just wan to go out have fun and get waisted with they're friends, not get hit on and have a one night stand. Sometimes it's just lady's night

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Why are you wasting your time and money in night clubs? These clubs are designed to suck cash from simps who buy drinks for women.

Just a word of advice, don't EVER buy a drink for a woman unless you are sleeping with her.

Cute_potato01 · Answer

Not all girls r down for sex.. we jus wanna have fun n enjoy ourselves

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

If they "aren't even that pretty" to you, then why so affected? 🤭😂

Nikki1989 · Answer

What makes you think we go to nightclubs to meet guys? 🤦‍♀️

inhua · Answer

they don't reject hot guys. they only reject average and below average guys

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Why would anyone not reject advances from a complete stranger? Go hit on a woman you actually know if you want results.

Unit1 · Answer

I'll give you a hint. UGLY There ya go. No hard feelings mate! It happens to all of us.

rUinSAYAN · Answer

got the same thing. just laugh it of, they are ugly anyways. tho the ugly ones seem harder than thd pretty ones.

mommymommymommy · Answer

Girls think guys are just after one thing in night clubs. Cause there's alcohol and bad decisions being made

zagor · Answer

Some girls just go to dance and drink and hang out with friends. I know girls who had serious boyfriends or were married who did that.

Anonymous · Answer

you weren't attractive enough for the women. You are probably decent looking, but girls have high standards

Anonymous · Answer

Girls don't go to clubs for guys. They go to hang out with friends and get free drinks from guys and that's it

pr3ttybr0wn · Answer

ur a douche and u come off like a creep

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

Search YouTube for Coach Corey Wayne.

Anonymous · Answer

Man I Don't know what to tell you.

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