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Which gender tends to have more commitment issues?
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Definitely women. Women will argue that it is Men but I think that is an absurdity.
The majority of men are simply not getting around like that. The majority of men are simply not that attractive to women.
The majority of men are 100% willing to commit if only they could find a woman who wants them.
But women want that top 10% or w/e of men. And so women will say men have the commitment issue.
No, it's the top % of men who have commitment issues. The men that you really want have commitment issues.
Why as a man commit, when so many women want you? You can fuck tons of people and have lots of fun. Why wouldn't he?
The same way girls do. I know women I know tons of women I have seen how they get around. How ALL the girls in a school or at a job will have fucked the same guy.
And they all know they fucked him too. This is insider information I learned as a beta male who girls thought was gay.
I learned all the truths about women that not even men want to know or hear.
Females are out there GETTING AROUND. make no fucking mistake.
They just hide it well. The only men who truly know, are those men who are fucking them all. And me, because they let me see their world cuz they thought I was gay because I was shy.
And when she does commit. It's to some guy she is settling for, because all the men she fucked, none of them wanted to settle.
Because the men all women want, are not going to settle.
So women say "all men just want sex!" They're extrapolating the top % of men to ALL men.
I think most men have zero problem with commitment.
I've seen too many times a man marries the first bitch who fucks him. And then they divorce because he was being fake in order to secure the commitment.
You would think it's women doing that shit but actually no I think more men are being fake in order to secure the pussy than in reverse for women to secure a husband.
Too many men are pathetic simps. Don't tell me men have commitment issues. Many dudes will do anything to secure long term pussy.
Many dudes even just want real love. But the need for pussy is deep. A lot of that is just a need for pussy.
Men don't get to mature in relationships like women do. Women get to date around and have many partners.
Men do not.
But the numbers are skewed for men in the data. The data is representing a small percentage of men who are racking up all these negative things.
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2.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Well nowadays it’s women that hold the title for commitment issues , Mainly because most divorces are initiated by women over guy’s these days Most females these days have become very selfish and only do what is best for them , I am not saying Guy’s can’t be selfish as well, but majority of females have a selfish mindset over guy’s when it comes to relationships , Most girls have the grass is greener on the other side syndrome in them that most men don’t have , Most men will not commit to a girl that has a selfish mindset that acts like her shit don’t stink , he might have sex with her , but he won’t commit to her.. Most men that cheat on their girlfriends or wives are cheating because his wife or girlfriend treats him like shit and with holds intimacy and affection from him , making him feel he has to earn it from her , He feels unappreciated and unwanted and unloved by her, he will have a harder time resisting temptation if he feels that way. Most men will not cheat on a girl that makes him feel valued and appreciated that doesn’t with hold intimacy and affection from him that treats him like a King and doesn’t nag and complain about every little thing he does , A girl will mainly cheat when she feels she has a better opportunity with a guy that has more status then her husband or boyfriend does that comes off as more dominate and put together then her husband or boyfriend i Most Girls are drawn to status because most girls are vulnerable to attention , where Guy’s are drawn to a girl that makes him feel appreciated and valued , So For any relationship to survive these days , both partners have to make each other their top priority over everyone else , over your friends over your family over your co workers etc. or that relationship will probably not survive what so ever. Understand it’s ok to be wrong , most girls have a hard time grasping that concept because she feels she is always right and is never wrong , and then she wonders why she Can’t last in a relationship. In her mind there is always something better than what she has right in front of her. She will easily spread her legs to a guy that she feels is better than her partner not realizing the guy she is screwing is just banging her for sex, he will not commit to her knowing she is cheating on her partner , it’s a very slim chance that he would , She is just vulnerable to stupidity because she is immature and only cares about herself
Anonymous(30-35)Men
Just look at the posts blaming women without any foundation whatsoever.
Women want the top "10%" - NO decent women don't, top 10% is based off of statistics from dating sites for god's sake where free prostitutes are predominantly found.
You gotta be either stupid or stupider than most stupid people to put merit to the 10%.
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Just look at the posts blaming women without any foundation whatsoever.
Women are predominantly initiating divorce. Yes. Statistically the leading causes for divorce are infidelity of MEN. I tried dating sites years ago & as someone who doesn't sleep around / not into cheap sex soon got off.
The huge number of separated men - not even divorced - looking for the next screw and showing they'd no respect for their ex-wife or even children was filthy & disgusting.
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Besides men are the problem as to why women dress & act cheaply.
The average man nowadays in western - American - society pays more attention to a girl with her breasts hanging out than they do women who dresses and acts respectfully. So of course more and more women act like this.
It's not that women actually have a commitment issue. They behave so thinking men want a slut when reality is, it's losers / trash that do.
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Men.
My ex is taking his sweet time to commit to a woman that he's now 40 and single once again (he broke up with me). He thought so highly of himself that he's probably going to be at least in his upper 40's if he EVER commits.. but that's his life..
Women, from the time they were little girls, were CONDITIONED to always want to be married and have babies, be a wife and mother... why do you think they have dolls and strollers and barbie houses, etc.
total opposites lol.
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This depends more on the person than on their gender. However, there are a lot more men who have difficulties committing to a partner for the long term.
Overall, if only one of the partners wants a committed long-term relationship, it is the woman in 80% of the cases. Ironically, some women will even report that they are in such a relationship already when their partner still thinks he's not. This caused a massive distortion in a botched poll by Pew Research Center in which 63% of young men self-reported not to be in a committed long-term relationship which was then interpreted as "single".I’m not sure I think it’s the same, if you treat your partner right and your not too needy I think the commitment sticks. Assuming of course in their eyes your top tier, which isn’t that difficult because a lot of guys and girls out there are trash tier people. Just need some proper values and emotional restraint. I hate when women get angry over nothing it’s like we can just take for a second hear the whole story and then decide if you disagree. I say women because I don’t date men but men do it just as much.
- Anonymous(25-29)
It depends what you mean by commitment issues. Men are definitely more reluctant to commit because the risks and costs of commitment / marriage are much higher for men. Conversely, the risks and costs of having sex are higher for women. That's why women are the gatekeepers to sex and men are the gatekeepers to relationships / marriage.
However, once married it is women who are far more likely to have commitment issues. Half of marriages end in divorce and women file 80% of them. And despite the common misconception that infidelity and abuse are the most common reasons for divorce, it is actually lack of commitment that is the number one reason. And abuse is near the bottom of the list.
Today's women simply lack a sense of commitment, and that is why so many choose to end their marriages.
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Im a guy, and I grew in an extremely feminine country, a feminine family without a dad or a male role model. I've studied and decided to have strong principles and act in my own nature,
All society's issues comes down to weak MEN (SIMPS) who make life a living hell for Eveyrone.
Dating apps, and dating, and MGTOW and onlyfans and TikTok and social media endless attention comes down to weak men who can't stop k1ssing women's a22!! which makes all women think that they're 10's.
And they believe that they are real 10s and they wait for Superman to choose them. Which doesn't work and they get used by the 2% high-value rich good-looking men.
Which destroys the Western societies.
Throughout history men basically rcvd a pass to CHEAT and have multiple women.. nowadays I truly believe women cheat just as much. I honestly believe that monogamy is not natural, but a choice one makes everyday if they love and respect their union and partner.
- Anonymous(25-29)
That can very based one past relationships. I’ve been hurt in the past and I’m not going to lie but I’m scared to get back out there. Guys can be in the same boat. They might not know if you are single even if you both are flirting with each other. Shit I’m currently in that boat as well. Scared to ask him out but will he do it and will I get hurt? So many unanswered questions but it will all work out in the end.
It's absolutely hilarious to watch the comments here blaming the other gender. It's either trolling or some serious mommy/daddy-issues.
Having said that, commitment issues aren't necessarily a gender-related issue. I think it all depends on the person in question.- 1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Watch who runs away when you talk about marriage and kids lol. Men can't tell women that they lack commitment because leaving shitty relationships/marriages.
- Anonymous(18-24)
I think women because we are more picky to find a high value men and have to forget about perfect man because no one is, when you let go of that the commitment is real. That my experience with my only relationship im in
- 4.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
women, cause 70% of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men. Who would commit to what we have today? Diverse, overweight, entitled, stuck up, nooooooo thank you.
2.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. The divorce rates should tell you all you need to know.
839 opinions shared on Relationships topic. we men don't commit but are loyal, and women want too much commitment
It's actually women. But society wants you to think it's men
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Women, only women
- Anonymous(Under 18)
Men. Not an opinion, just statistics.
Depends on the situation
I seen both genders can have commitments isuse.
- Anonymous(30-35)
Men are more likely to stray.
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