How to be independent in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

We are temporarily distant. I’m so much attached to her so that I share everything with her frequently and I find time for her even If I’m super busy with my work. I prioritise her over anything.

But she mostly spend time with me only when she’s free. So this at many incidents make unhappy and intolerable.

What can I do to mind my own business and stop this shit.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Most of us find happiness by being kind to others, but it's also important to find some time to make yourself happy. It also set an example for others who might be going through the same issue. Being happy on your own or when you are not with your significant, other is very important for your mental health/happiness!
Another benefit to taking care of yourself, and doing things that you enjoy. It shows those who do care about you a different side of you that they may not know.
It helps them realize what they can do to make you happy :-)

[Asker]

Thank you man

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

That's what this platform should be all about, giving positive feedback!