How to be more independent?

I'm a single mom of 1 toddler and have recently been going through a bad time past 3 years. I was never financially responsible, in general either. I don't have friends, a job, or support system..
I would just like to know what are some steps I need to take to be more independent and hopefully be able to move out of my parents one day.
How to be more independent?
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