People who have low self-esteem and feel inadequate and insecure have a hard time believing anyone might truly be drawn to them. He is seeking reassurance that you have real feelings and aren't just playing with him. Unfortunately, when we seek validation, whatever validation we get becomes meaningless. To reduce this behavior, regularly share your feelings with him when you are impressed by something he says or does or when you see something he says or does as special in any way. Giving before he asks will make whatever you give much more meaningful.
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Inquiring minds want to know, why me?
Don't you want to know?
Looking for validation. I dated someone who used to ask me what are the things you like about me? He was looking for validation and compliments.
Or he just likes to hear you say it... or he's dealing with insecurity and Needs to hear you say it to feel good about himself.
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People who are not used to love might find it unbelievable when someone does!
This may be shocking to you but the world is very cold and brutal towards me
try complimenting him more.
He might hold it against you one day if you wanna quit 👀
Probably because he wants to know why you love him so much
He maybe insecure about himself but it’s not a bad thing.
Then tell him why.
He must be unsure if he deserves you
You never wondered this with a guy?
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