Can you love someone without seeing them at their lowest?

[hardboiledink]

Do you have to know someone completely yo love them? See then at their lowest and how they act?

[Starlove4]

people overthink love. U could love a pet goldfish. U could adopt a dog today and decide to love it the same day. U feed it and take care of it every day right? That’s love. Love is an action word. My boyfriend told me he loves me after 3 weeks. I believed him. Know why? Because his actions matched what he was saying. Love is just being there for someone. That’s all it is. You can love someone after 3 weeks. But u can’t be IN LOVE after 3 weeks. Saying I Love you isn’t that deep as people make it seem. With that being said u can absolutely love someone without seeing them at their lowest. BUT being IN love is what keeps you with them when u finally see their flaws. When you see them at their lowest and u still want to be with them then that’s called being in love. A person that loves u won’t stick around as long as a person that’s in love with u. It’s like when I was sick with covid. That was probably the lowest of my life and I was so helpless and a grumpy bitch . My ex came and took care of me because he has love for me still. But he’s not in love with me anymore so eventually he left. He couldn’t stay like old times. Though he took care of me at my lowest out of love , he had another girl on his mind. I think that’s when I learned about the different kinds of loves.

[Rei13]

No you don’t have to see someone at that point in order to love them fully but whenever that time does come it will put strain on the relationship as it is a difficult time for both parties. You just got to work through it and support the person you’re with and you’ll be stronger for it

[dynamicyandere]

Tough times are when your love is tested.


It’s when you see how strong your love truly is.


Like building a bridge and seeing how much weight it can bear.


If you can love someone at their lowest, it means your love for them is incredibly strong.


But a bridge is still a bridge, whether you put a lot of weight on it, or a little weight on it.


You can love someone without them being at their lowest.


But if they are at their lowest, it gives you an opportunity to demonstrate just how strong your love is.


It’s an opportunity to prove your love.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Yes you can. Just don’t be in a hurry to marry. Date as long as they treat you right. If the two of you become engaged, make it a long engagement. Live with them throughout the engagement. I know, l know, living in sin.


You never really know someone until you have lived with them. This is when your love for them and their love for you will be tested. This is when you figure out if you can truly commit to that person.


Better to live in sin before you put yourself through the hell of a bad marriage and raising a family at the same time.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I can only speak from my previous relationship, as that’s only time I was in love.

I fell for him deeper when I saw him at his lowest.

[provokeesmokee]

Yeah, but seeing them at their lowest is also something that can make you realize you can't support or love them long term.

That said, I've only left folks when their lowest becomes their normal. Or I guess I realize what I thought was their lowest is their normal.

[Ms_Facesitter]

You can but your love will be tested. You can love someone based on what you've seen from them. If you haven't seen their lowest yet, then you can still love them. But when he's at his lowest your love will get tested. And he'll know what you are truly worth.

[Billlewis]

I think you can definitely live them, but you may also fall out of love when you see them at their lowest.

[OddBeMe]

In theory not fully. But love is emotion tied to subconscious attraction. So I guess consciously beleiving you’re “in love” their worst moment, or what you hope is their worst, would be a good barometer.

[Twalli]

I don't think so. My girlfriend is living with me because she knows that I won't marry her until I see her on her bad days. Dates only happen on good days, marriages happen on all days.

[WhitneySnow]

You can, but if you can still love them at their lowest you know it’s real

[jahaims]

You sure can. If you abandon them at their lowest you weren't in love.

[exitseven]

Yes. The real question is can you still love them after seeing them at their lowest

[Anonymous]

I stood by that asshole D*** during her lowest back in 2018 only to get backstabbed and betrayed and cheated on by her numerous times

[aquamarine321]

Don’t we all have loved someone without seeing them at their lowest

[Kristierose]

It doesn't matter to me you take them at there lowest and when they are on top of the world

[overthinkergirl]

nope