Why does my girlfriend give me feminine nicknames?

[Mikemyth561]

She keeps calling me feminine nicknames and talking to me as if I were the woman in the couple. Is it because I've lost my job?

[Chevy1_kb]

Awk it's just called a laugh Nd cute to it's not a bad thing either I use to call my ex sugar pie or honey bunny or sweet cakes or pumpin and loads of other he done it to me to it's a laugh Nd fun it's also about fun isn't it you know I miss using those lovley cute names on boyfriends I had but am a little scared to go down that road incase I get cheated on for. The third time and the feeling I have for Uma Thurman she makes me smile big ones a don't want that to go away either it feels to good better than my ex did iam happy single just now and am 34 i guess awl make my mind up one day won't i

[Mikemyth561]

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I asked her if it was because I didn't have a job. She said yes and no. In fact, she told me that since I no longer had a job and she was the one bringing the money home, it was an opportunity to explore new facets of my personality, which is why she wanted me to wear makeup and heels etc..

[Chevy1_kb]

Wow ok a think she's going a little to far a would call ma boyfriend cute cuddly feminine sort of nick names but never tell him to dress up In women's clothes sounds like she's trying to control you a bit a think she's going to far

[Mikemyth561]

Yeah , I think she wants to feminize me, And dominate me. She takes advantage of my dependence on her

[Chevy1_kb]

Yeah she's going overboard defos

[Mikemyth561]

For tomorrow she wants me to wear a skirt, with a white top and heels.

[Chevy1_kb]

She sounds nuts

[WhitneySnow]

No, but I’ve seen you before. You talk a lot about feeling like a girl and wanting to wear women’s clothes. There is nothing wrong with this, but I think you may be projecting what you want onto her.

[Flatmanlewis]

I think there is a lot more to understand about this scenario to provide any real substantive opinion but I will say that as a man, I would not accept any woman I was with being disrespectful to me. Therefore, if she’s being playful and teasing maybe you’re reading into it, and if it’s coming off as condescending and rude then maybe you should address it. Either way, talk to her directly and show your manliness by addressing issues head on and with confidence.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Maybe she's trying to find out what kind of man you are. Are you going to take it and let her lead you into a submissive role in the relationship or are you going to take matters into your own hands and surprise her with a good outcome.

When women start doing stuff like that, it's rarely out if nowhere.

[McLlovin]

Women do lose respect for you if they are working and you are not. They will say “ no it’s ok”, don’t listen to that. My advice is find anything you can do and do it very well. Don’t give her a chance to look down on you. Women can say one thing and feel the other.

[Kinkyhubby]

Is she dressing you that way? What names has she called you? Why would she just run out n buy you make up? You could get a job in the near future. I figure she would first dress you in panties n girly clothes around the house , before she bought makeup. Doesn't she own makeup already?

[TalkWithoutSpeaking]

I think all nicknames that partners give each other can be seen as feminine (because of society's paradigm where femininity is seen as "small") cause most nicknames are making the other partner seem gentle, cute, sweet and "yin" if that makes sense

[pianogirlmeow]

ask her? lol. Just say why do you keep calling me feminine names and buying me makeup. Does it bother you that she does this?

[Mikemyth561]

I asked her if it was because I didn't have a job. She said yes and no. In fact, she told me that since I no longer had a job and she was the one bringing the money home, it was an opportunity to explore new facets of my personality, which is why she wanted me to wear makeup and heels etc..

[Chayce]

@Mikemyth561 holy shit that’s insane

[stark04]

That's call coddling, she enjoys being in relationship with you. Your unemployment has nothing to do with it, Don't overthink and ruin your beautiful relationship over nothing.

[Siri137]

No idea. Give us an example of a "feminine" nickname. :)

[Honest-Matt]

I love the nicknames Matty is the most common, it's like teasing endearment.

[Anonymous]

If it’s nicknames like “Dear”, “Honey”, “Sweetheart”, or “Babe” then it’s just terms of endearment. But if you feel like she’s being disrespectful, you need to communicate that to her.

[MJtheCoach]

Simple easy answer is because she thinks your p0000ssy!


If you don’t challenge your assertiveness, she’s gonna leave you or cheat on you..




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[Sasha0426]

There’s so many details missing in this question. Can you give us a little bit more of a backstory?

[Mikemyth561]

Well, everything was fine until I lost my job, then she started talking to me like I was a housewife.

[Sasha0426]

Like, what would she say?

[Mikemyth561]

She bought me makeup

[DextroShade]

Yes and she doesn't respect you. If you don't get a job soon she will leave.

[Anonymous]

She might be leading up to a Female Led Relationship, where you are the submissive partner. She is starting to feminize you.

[Kristierose]

Or maybe because you lost your job and you should be doing house work

[Starlove4]

Lmao she doesn’t respect u AT ALL

[Mikemyth561]

I asked her if it was because I didn't have a job. She said yes and no. In fact, she told me that since I no longer had a job and she was the one bringing the money home, it was an opportunity to explore new facets of my personality, which is why she wanted me to wear makeup and heels etc..

[BoopBoopBeep]

Sounds like a great time for you to upgrade.

[Minahh]

Isn't she into femdom?

[Mikemyth561]

Maybe She bought me makeup 😬

[DaySpring]

@mikemyth561 You might wanna run unless you are okay with her turning you out.

[Unit1]

Maybe she does it for fun. Ask her.

[ShesRad80]

ask her

[Mikemyth561]

I asked her if it was because I didn't have a job. She said yes and no. In fact, she told me that since I no longer had a job and she was the one bringing the money home, it was an opportunity to explore new facets of my personality, which is why she wanted me to wear makeup and heels etc..

[ShesRad80]

and how do you feel about that? sounds ridiculous people lose jobs all the time and find another one

[Mikemyth561]

Yeah , I think she wants to feminize me, dominate me

[MaxUsefull]

Probably… I would break up with her