Am I stupid for thinking she might still love me or that she ever really loved me at all?

[Anonymous]

I was in an affair for over a year. We got busted. I feel like shit. Like a homewrecker. We had exchanged a lot of private emotional stuff. Talked everyday. Am I stupid for holding out hope?

[Anonymous]

Depends but probably yes!

Women do this constantly with guys so your not to dumb!

You wanted love and caught feelings while she gave you what you thought was a relationship.

Probably was until she got caught.

For her it was not love but enjoying attention

May that continue sure but won't be nearly as it was. At best hope for sex

Usually she won't be getting any for a while.

[Asker]

Well there's a lot more to then what I posted. There's a lot

[Asker]

But even at that after getting busted is she even gonna talk to me? Or take any risk of being around me?

[Opinion Owner]

Depends did her man actually see or learn or did he just hear?

Does she care that he did? Can he cheat now?

Does she want a 3 some?

Call her

[Asker]

I can't call her. He was already snooping through her phone. Tracking her. He's stalked her before. The last message I sent her he saw and he responded

[Opinion Owner]

Lol what was it? Wanna hook up leave the dead weight?

Well give up for a while let her contact you

[Asker]

No. It was I love yous and I miss yous back and forth between us

[Asker]

Of she didn't tell him everything

[Opinion Owner]

She loves you and will work to be with tou

[Asker]

What makes you believe that?