Have you ever seen someone in your family cheating? If yes then what did you do?

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Jared91 · Accepted Answer

My sisters and I found my father on dating sites (he didn't clear history on the computer sometimes) when I was a teenager (15 ish years ago) and managed to get into his accounts and see his messages.

We printed them all off and gave them to mum. This happened for a few years until mum finally got jack of it and divorced him. I think she was waiting for all of us kids to finish school and move out before she did so. I think she also finally did it then because she was being deployed for 8 months on a peace keeping mission so she knew she wouldn't have to deal with him for 8 months post seperation.

I caught one of my sister's cheating on her husband a few years ago (she is a female version of my father in every way). I discretely let him know and he promised not to implicate me in it. He kept his word and caught her red handed since he was now aware.

If there is one thing I won't put up with, from anyone, it is betrayal and disloyalty. There is never an excuse and I will always call it out.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I was aware of my father's chronic infidelity for years before my parents got divorced, but my mother was already aware of it, also, and she wanted to play the suffering martyr role for awhile, so there was nothing for me to do.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

Yes my dad used to cheat often.. he literally tried to do it while I was home and I was like no this isn't happening while I am awake and left his door and my door open and turned on the lights until him and my moms friend passed out..
Then what broke my parents up was when I was 17 I stayed out late and came home at like 2am my mom was gone and I caught him in bed with his friends slut of the week.. I was like wtf? He didn't even notice me and I ran out the room and told my sister because she dropped me off then she busted in the room and started yelling and saying get this fucking slut out of my moms bed now!! LOL funny night.. we did lots of stuff after that my sister broke my dads truck windshield and we went back later and I kicked the door in I took my stuff from my room..

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No, thankfully, but I think I would seriously weigh whether it was my business to tell them, but knowing me, I'd tell the person affected by the cheating. No one should be in a relationship with someone doing that to them unless they have all the facts, and they make the decision to stay or go.

CaliAttorneyGuy · Answer

No, unless they’re dating a friend of mine, in which case they’re off limits. If they’re not married and hitting me up to hang out and go out, I’ll do that if I’m interested. Of course, if I find out later they’re with someone with no intention of leaving that person, I move on.

Anonymous · Answer

Before confronting them, make sure you have sufficient evidence to support your suspicions. This can help avoid misunderstandings and false accusations. Have an open and honest conversation with the family member involved. Express your concerns and emotions calmly. Listen to their side of the story as well.

Anonymous · Answer

No, no one in my family ever has. No one in my family has married anyone from the U. S., and my parents are both immigrants from opposite sides of the Mediterranean. My brother married a girl from South Korea at his first AD station (the DMZ) after graduating West Point. Has 3 grown daughters now. I'm moving to Mexico... I'll meet my future wife there, I'm sure of it. Already spent significant time there. Just gotta avoid marriage in the USA, and you're good.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Luckily i'm the only one, no siblings...🤷‍♂️, but if would see it, i wouldn't really get involved, as they are OLD/MATURE, enough, guess is at their appreciation to know when wrong/right.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I haven't but my second cousin's wife cheated on him. And then she went abroad with his cousin who lived in the same house and then divorced him. It was the worst thing that happened. They have a child together and that trash cousin of his is actually very religious. Makes me want to punch these long beardos

sage2021 · Answer

Yes, my husband was in my family, he cheated then abandoned my son and myself.

raylasoul · Answer

Yup, I kept my mouth shut. I was really young at that time.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Nope I come from a family that s thriving in loyalty

Sasha0426 · Answer

No, but my dad got cheated on by an ex. They broke up after that. Thankfully, because she was a total bitch.

Luopio27 · Answer

Family, never. Former friends, yes.  There is a reason why those cheaters are former friends.

rienna888 · Answer

Yeah I saw a women texting my dad “😘” or something

Luckycharms12 · Answer

There nothing you can do or say that will change anything so stay quiet they made there choice. Live by sword die by the sword

ThebestIndian · Answer

I have seen my friend’s family cheating. I didn’t try to interfere

Anonymous · Answer

My older sister, none of my business so I stayed out of it. I did watch though.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah my mother, just let the things take their course

exitseven · Answer

yes, I kept it to myself.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'd quite playing cards with them.

TiffanyLee · Answer

No. Thank god.

balyai · Answer

I haven't but if I did I'll tell the entire family

maroon_eyez · Answer

Nope never seen anyone

kareka · Answer

No but i were with a girl who were cheating

Anonymous · Answer

yes my mum was a voracious cockslut

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

Yes i have

jahaims · Answer

Nope

cocoblah · Answer

Thankfully, no

LostA__Aryen18 · Answer

noooooo

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