Have you ever cheated on someone?

[YoHoeRose]

Everyone makes mistakes, or maybe it was for the better, have you ever, even in your young age cheated? Whether it be emotional, sexual, or just kissing.

Yes

No

[DaveJord]

So this is a trick question right? So I want to say no, I never went behind someone's back and cheated on them when I we were in a full out relationship.

But what if we were on a break? And what constitutes cheating? I mean what if you go out with someone but don't have sex or even kiss is that cheating?

So when me and my now ex-wife were dating... we had this whole on again off again phase like Rachel and Ross thing. So she wanted to take a break and I was like WTF, seriously what to you mean? Then it was this whole thing... and I was like "I am so over this BS with this women. So there was this whole phase were we were not actively dating, but still on the fence if we would ever get back together or not, and its possible that it was not an official break up... but we were definitely not dating... so yeah I went out on a date with another chick and got laid.

A week or two later my ex-wife and I got back together... but we were on a break!!! So you tell me, did I cheat or not?

[YoHoeRose]

I think that would be between you too. I did the same thing, kissed someone else while on a "break" but I've always considered it cheating cause he did

[DaveJord]

Yeah I never told her, because I would assume she would of considered it cheating to... but I will not assume it as cheating. Because what I think matters to on some level... but best to let lying dogs lie.

[TonyV]

No, I've never cheated.

Cheating isn't a mistake or accident, you don't just accidently...

*Meet and talk to someone
*decide to meet them irl or outside of work
*develope a close bond
*go from a public place back to their place
*somehow find yourself in their bed
* have their clothes fall off
*have your clothes fall off
* accidently both get aroused
* and finally, somehow unbeknownst you find your genitals in each others

That's like 9 steps, it's not a mistake or an accident.

That's like saying I accidently in a moment of weakness, saved money for 6 months, booked a plane to somewhere prostitute is legal, accidently found a brothel, then accidently paid a prostitute 500 bucks to have sex...

Or it was an accident babe "I just went to a party without you that my ex was at, and I just couldn't not fuck them in the broom closet, it would have been rude to say no, we use to be a couple"

If the relationship isn't working for you break it off like an adult and find someone else.

Cheating is what manipulative cowards do, they want someone new but are chicken shits, so they sneak around like a snake in the grass so they can keep their partner around as a last resort safety net incase they can't find someone better or just to muche resources of them in the mean time cause they aren't self sufficient.
Cheaters are basiclly the worst of the worst.

[MmmDaddy]

I agree I learned my lesson that it's not attractive... and it was definitely not a mistake you're right

[Missgingles]

For the people who voted yes pleace consider suicide. Take a moment with yourself and ask what you bring to this world. I would say the same for serial killers and child rapists. All these are equally bad in my eyes. Cheating is emotional torture that can last till death. I hope y"ll changed now and are here to bring something good but if you keep cheating/raping etc pleace question what you are doing on earth:)

[Missgingles]

Thanks for MHO!:)

[BlueScorpio]

Cheating isn't a mistake or accident and people need to stop lying to themselves about just so they don't feel guilty for what they did. Anyway no I never cheated and hopefully never been cheated on.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have been cheated on twice of which I am aware, but I have never cheated on a partner.

[glennos89]

Never cheated before and never will.

Cheating is mentally damaging other people's thrust value's for a very long time if not forever.

You can make this mistake maybe once in your lifetime but if it happens multiple times you are just being a sad invidual in my opinion.

The way I see it is that you are intentionally mislead your partner because you ain't giving a shit about the damage you are causing to other people. Cheating creates massive thrust issue's within peoples hearts. It makes you a sad invidual if you can't be honest with your partner about it.

Being selfish like that defines you as being a sad / insecure and down right weak person

[JamesDiaz11]

Yep, I cheated a lot- and I actually cheated the most on someone I loved the most. I literally didn't care at all about these other girls...

[Light909090]

Repent of your sins or face the Wrath of Jesus Christ
I’m just messing with ya

[JamesDiaz11]

@Light909090 I already know I'm going to hell, bruh.

[242plusInfinity]

You can change man. Start going after a goal that is huge and I bet you're cheating will go away. You're wasting your sexual energy on women right now. That's the issue. You have an above average urge. So if you don't express it on goals then it will pretty much go to women. But that's a whole other topic. Deep. Gl man. Could always get a girl who wants an open relationship.

[Light909090]

LOL Death by sexual energy

[Light909090]

You’re headed down a dark path man some chick is gonna kill you with a Disease

[Light909090]

And they’re gonna engrave your name on the stone and how are you died Death by sex disease he wanted to be a man and he got death instead

[Oigit]

No and cheating isn't a mistake. Calling it a mistake and trying to play it down is what people do when the reality of what they did hits home.

[Andres77]

First time I was a revenge fuck. Wrong, yes. What’s worse is that it made it easier to cheat again later when I had no justification for it.😔😔😔

[AviatorTom]

Sexually? No! I have occasionally cheated on board games...

[spartan55]

No, never have. And cheating is not a 'mistake'. Forgetting your car keys is a mistake.

[douride2]

No I never have. I have been cheated on though & I would never put someone through that pain.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Nope, cheating is for losers and sleazy bastards

[Harbringer26]

Never. It has always been disgusting and inexcusable to me. I may have made many mistakes but cheating will never be one of them.

[Andrea1988]

No I was cheated on. My ex got another woman pregnant. I divorced my ex.

[maximumpower]

FInally made the crime fit the punishment I'd been getting for years.

[Anonymous]

Cheating is mainly a guy thing. Look at the result of the poll here.

[242plusInfinity]

Just stop it. Stop with the gender wars for one post omg. Every post.

[BlueScorpio]

@242plusInfinity sorry but it's true, men have a tendency to cheat just little bit more than women. Not saying don't ever cheat though.

[Anonymous]

"makes mistakes" give me a break no mercy for unfaithful swine once a cheater always a cheater

[Darling0019]

Nope, but got cheated on many times 🤷🏻‍♀️

[bubblegunnn]

Nope never
But my ex cheated on me

[MCheetah]

Nah. Been cheated on, though.

[mobiusforniner]

Yes, emotionally. It still hurts

[HighValue]

Nope. I'm not that kind of person.

[Jennz6]

No, but I was cheated on by my ex husband

[Andrea1988]

Same here.

[BlueScorpio]

@Andrea1988 how does your feel about the whole thing? Do they regret?

[Andrea1988]

I dated someone who was in relationship. I found out the hard way. I felted cheated.