Who are bigger crybabies, men or women?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Wow, what a very simple, but complex question. So I have a bad habit of not complaining too much, but holding it in. Until I get tried one day of listening to her complain about everything, then all of the sudden all my bitch, grips and complains flow out all at once.

Like I have sat here and listened to this sit for weeks, like do something about it or stop it. Like what do you want from me?

Or you sit and say nothing about all these little things, but its trivial things and so you say nothing out of respect for her. Then one day she turns you and starts talking about this little thing you have no idea that you are doing or about you in general. But like I am talking about insignificant things. Like merging on to an empty highway without a blinker on... and she wants to say I really do not like it when you do that...

I am like really, if you want to make a thing about it I got list of shit I could complain about, but I don't... so now you want to start talking about the things I do...

Then it all comes out... so, you tell me who is worse? Like none of us are good about it, no matter how much you want to say one is worse than the other.

I had one start complaining how about my house, because I had broken door latch, I didn't fix right away... like you don't even live here, it's my house... are you serious, I been to your house WTF are you trying to say? I say on your couch and act cool with pitching dog hair off myself... and you want to bitch about door you do not even use, in my house!

Yeah, I might be really bad, now that I think about it. I hold it in too much and too long.

glennos89 · Accepted Answer

Depends on which angle you take a look at it.

I'm a guy and I know lots of men will never grow up because we like to keep are inner child alive because childhood was fun and imagination was our best friend back then. You can call is grown babies if you want but we have fun for sure! Life is hard so fun is welcome at all times to relief the stress and pain

I'm not a woman so can't really say how they feel on the inside about it. But I do know a lot of woman can't let go of their emotions when they don't like another woman. Also will they come up with something that happened 10 years ago when they have a argument with their partner. A woman can't let go of negative experiences and/or emotions like men do.

So we all have our moments I guess... Both men and woman can sometimes be bigger crybabies 🤷‍♂️

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I don’t mind needy people because I think people would be boring if they never responded to anybody or anything in an emotional way. I believe that emotional interdependency is a bigger currency in maintaining society than material or physical or sexual interdependency.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Men. They are senstive little creatures

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

These days I’d say it’s a tie 🤷‍♀️

Avicenna · Answer

That's not something unique to either gender, so I can't tell

Drewtate · Answer

Women. They want equality but cry when they get it and then demand special treatment.

They will lie, cheat & steal from a guy then play the victim when the relationship is over claiming all shorts of abuses. The term emotional abuse or financial abuse is basically the go to claim if they can't falsely claim violence or rape. Like how was he emotionally abusive to you? "He was upset that I was cheating and wouldn't talk to me". How was he finacially abusive to you? " he wouldn't give me his credit card so I could buy whatever I wanted and refused to put his wages into a joint bank account". How was he verbally abusive to you? " he called me a filthy slut and a whole after he found out I was cheating on him for a year and give him an std".

Women's sport is a good example of how women say they want equality but really want special treatment. Like WNBA players demanding more money or to be paid the same as men in the NBA yet the WNBA makes little to no money by itself and only exists because the NBA funds it. Women's college basketball is much more lucrative probably because they've literally got a captive audience of anywhere between 5000-15000 college students with nothing better to do than watch their college games. If WNBA players want more money they should sell more tickets, more jerseys, more sneakers, more TV views etc and theh should be thanking the NBA for making the WNBA possible. Same story about women's soccer especially the US team who as it turned out despite harping on about discriminatory pay for years were actually getting paid more than the men's team.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

It would depend on what's making them cry. I think a lot of guys tend not to cry about every emotionally bad/troubling thing that happens to them, however, I know a lot of girls that sometimes vent their frustration/sadness by crying during those moments.

In addition, fewer guys cry if they get a decent scratch/cut on them whereas some girls get a bruise and it becomes a big deal.

That being said, guys come nowhere close to anything in life that is similar to child birth, so any crying previous to that day, is all but abolished in my books because having a small child come out your woohaw has to hurt more than anything we would endure, barring certain things like loosing a limb or something.

ManOnFire · Answer

Treat a woman how she treats you and it becomes an unfair ballgame. Most men don’t stay up late overthinking some text from a girl. And men are not trying to silence people on social media or news media because someone says something that gets them in their feelings.

Most definitely women.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I can say for myself. I cry because I'm angry, sad, happy, whatever. The level of emotions is too high to cope with by gritting my teeth or going for a walk.

KlinkyCoder · Answer

I suggest that women are more likely to be crybabies than men in part because there are more social support systems and government spending on things to improve the lot and welfare of women specifically and there is near zero the equivalent for boys and men. So this encourages them to get away with crying more about stuff.

I also guess if men are more likely to not talk about their social problems at all and even at the risk of being laughed at and shunned about it, they would be the "crybabies" in such society's eyes.

clampfan101 · Answer

In terms of which is a bigger crier, I’d say 50/50. However the term crybaby refers to those who show weakness in crying. Even though it’s untrue, crying is very often seen as a weakness when men do it but not so much for women. Almost as if crying is a feminine trait. (Which is also untrue.) The term has no logic and is used for nothing but bullying, so there is no real logical answer to this question. However because crying is seen as a weakness for men, I imagine they get called a crybaby more often than women.

Bigmell · Answer

The only reason why I said man is because I was going based off my own personal experiences but truth be told whoever is the one in that relationship at that time that falls in love first it's the bigger cry baby and the reason why I say that is you could be dating somebody but you not official and it's always the one who wants to rush it and make it official that's going to be the bigger cry baby because they're going to be wondering why does this other person doesn't love me how come he doesn't want to make your official that always in their feelings all the time so it's always whoever falls in love first.

LiamJHayden · Answer

If I limited my assessment to only this site, it would be the guys. So many complaining about girls rejecting them or how they are their own person and don't need some woman. If true, why broadcast it? I see a little, but far less, from the ladies.

In real life, probably roughly even. The women might literally cry more, but moaning and groaning and whinging are roughly even.

Flower7 · Answer

If you mean literally crying, women do that more often, but in general, men are more whiny.

JustMeQ2 · Answer

Women. They have a movement that embodies this.
Called feminism. They cry whenever their actions have consequences that they don’t like.
Men's movements say cry for now, then suckit up actions have consequences that's life.
You don't have the second part of the last sentence in feminism.

PS: I love how most men voted women, and most women voted men. 😄

Anonymous · Answer

If we're talking about the actual act of crying, women obviously win that one, hands down.

If we're talking about who is worse at handling pain and discomfort, science says it's women. https://abcnews.go.com/Technology/story?id=97662&page=1

If we're just talking about whining, the biggest whiners of all are feminists and their male counterparts, mgtows. They both take gold in the whining olympics.

So, considering all the above, women have the dge for sure.

Naruse · Answer

Physically? Men. Emotionally? Women. Men have a lower threshold for pain tolerance so we whine like babies over shit that wouldn't phase women. Meanwhile there are a lot of women who have similar issues with regards to controlling their emotions, due in part to being more emotionally honest but it's still an annoying trait. Of course these are generalisations, trends aren't indicative of everyone.

molonski2 · Answer

Well the answer should be equal , but often men are brought up not to release this emotion , but they certainly should , I always cry if I need to , But , based purely on the term " cry babies " ( which I do not like ) , the answer is women.

electromagnetic · Answer

considering people are having a hard time identifying whom they are, I wanna say everyone is a damn crybaby.

XingQi · Answer

Both.

Look at the crime rates and sexual offenders statistics. Which group tends to get into such more? Men.

Look at which fields get which workers. For example, it's not men's fault that Computer Science is male-dominated- women can go if they felt like it.

Compare the feminists and the red pill community. How about just keeping our legs crossed and being faithful in relationships? It's not like they're helping the rising age of marriage here.

strateguy632 · Answer

from my experience every month several times p. m. s. crying over stuff that had happened, when she had not cried for them when they happened so far more. blues have less of whatever hormone

genericname85 · Answer

i think women. cause when men bitch and moan, they typically look for a solution. women just like complaining. and they even get angry if you provide a solution, cause all they wanted was to dwell in their emotions.

DarkLegacy · Answer

I find it pathetic when one gender cannot admit the faults in their gender. it is women of course. they are the ones who cry over films, animals dying, their are the ones who run all these woke campaigns.

They also freak out over minor things like a guy looking at them or walking too close to them or paying the compliment.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Considering that most men actually have something worth crying over and don’t  and the female eye lids are designed so tears fall easily ( which is why they cry over nonsense ) Id say women

Anonymous · Answer

Meh, it's pretty even. Both whin about different things. Take this whiner for example.

DextroShade · Answer

Easily women, they will cry and bitch about anything. They complain about guys looking at them, until they get old and then they complain that guys aren't looking at them. They are still bitching about the pay gap even though it's been repeatedly proven to be a lie. Men know we have to suck it up and get back to work, and if we complain we are mocked for it, but when women complain it is expected.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I think both can be crybabies equally these days. There's no win here.

Madkeyra00 · Answer

I’m I would say women because women would cry about more things than men but there are something’s women handle way better than men and that’s break ups.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

A crybaby is someone who has emotional outbursts over things which don't matter, so it has to be women. Men may complain about a lot of things, but since we can repress emotions way better and often have a weaker emotional reaction in the first place we keep it to a minimum and besides, no one cares about men's issues other than men.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Spend an hour on here and you can tell it is obviously men. All they do is whine over the most trivial nonsense.

msc545 · Answer

Women - they take advcvantage of their privilege for being victioms all the time.

Anonymous · Answer

I find it ironic that women complain our of one side of their mouths that men are crybabies and then out of the other side they say men bottle up their emotions and don't feel free to express them. So, ladies, which is it? Can we believe anything you say on tis topic?

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

In my experience, I have to say men. Sorry guys, I’m gonna side with the ladies on this one.

Anonymous · Answer

Women for sure. Especially women in groups. Men seem to take most things well in general.

Meropatrick · Answer

Women. Women r petty as fuck. Men r shamed for crying. So when a man reaches the point where he cries then Something really significant happened

bolverk · Answer

Men are not allowed the luxury of being 'cry babies', they have to deal with what life throws at them and carry on.
Or at least that how it was til this last generation, now you have 'men' breaking down in tears for the slighted boo-boo.

whirled_up_girl · Answer

I don't know if I would use the word crybaby but in my opinion women seem to be less afraid at showing their emotions than men.

Shamalien · Answer

hard to say these days tbh…

Women are definitely pickier about everything. Anyone who’s worked in customer service knows that women are just more difficult to deal with so ima say women from my experience as a waiter

Nirmroth · Answer

Whenever I am on some online forum its full of men crying about not getting laid.

normalice · Answer

Men cry the loudest women cry the most often.

katiesmuff · Answer

I have a house full of them and it would be men! LOL

HelpfulWoman · Answer

depends. on the internet? men incels. on certain forums? women.

Exterminatore · Answer

Women. They cray about being oppressed in America when they are not. In fact it’s men who are oppressed and most don’t know it.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Women will say it's men and men will say it's women. But since I'm a man, I say it's women. Basically the most obvious reason unspoken.

dragoblack · Answer

Both. I hear petty reason complaining from women and butthurt rejection reactions from guys. Both are bad about it and keep pointing fingers instead of accepting.

HandymanJoe · Answer

I agree with Brainsbeforebeauty I say is equal. I've been in customer services and around all types of people that both have complains and bothered by the most stupid stuff we are all guilty of this at some point in our lives.

Anonymous · Answer

Men are more likely to bottle up their emotions, while women are more likely to express themselves openly and ask for help. So Women definitely. Men just try to hide it better.

Solo3k · Answer

Women. I mean just look. They did all that bitching in the mid 1900s so they could vote and some of them don't even go out to vote

They want to be treated like men while remaining women. It's absolutely nuts

titangarg44 · Answer

It really depends on the individual because there are women who are strong as stone and there are women who are weak as a leave. It applies same for men, however; men hide it a lot better. Therefore, you can't really generalize this one.

Pacquet · Answer

My guy, why even ask this question? It’s just going to be people insulting each other for no reason.

OddBeMe · Answer

Actual tears? Women  Actual repressed emotion that filters out in other sometimes destructive ways? Men.  I. e. toxic masculinity.

ShesRad80 · Answer

dead heat, both can be

Anonymous · Answer

It's not accurate or fair to label one gender as "bigger crybabies."

BigDog1989 · Answer

Women. I've had more answers removed by women, than men. Mainly republican women

Anonymous · Answer

i chose women because I've seen so many cry and i haven't cried since i was a lad. whats the point of crying as an adult? if there was point to it i could try faking it

abbyjgriffin98 · Answer

Nowadays, everyone's a damn crybaby.

sage2021 · Answer

But that's ok - we still love them 🙂

Anonymous · Answer

Women. But that's only because it's socially more acceptable for women to whine. Men and women feel pain all the same.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Women going to say. But both can be depends on persons everyone different

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Coach, you already know its women, not sure why you asked this question

justabuddy · Answer

Are we talking sick, or physical pain. Men are babys when sick but seem to handle physical pain better.

Dargil · Answer

Woke Democrats.

krin_m · Answer

Typically women, but I know men who are that way as well.

Chthou95 · Answer

What gender bitches about the dreaded patriarchy and oppression? There's your answer

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