Where are the good, Christian women that have never had boyfriends?

[Anonymous]

I am hoping to find a woman that would make a good wife, is a Christian, and never had a boyfriend or romantic bond.

I know one

I know some

That is me

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Just to be clear, I am not seeking a virgin. I am seeking a woman that has never had a boyfriend or romantic bond.

[dynamicyandere]

You’ll find them at church services, Christian fellowships, and other church-related events.


I’ve dated the leader of the praise team before, who has never had a boyfriend before.


You just need to hang out where other Christians are gathering and get involved. And of course, be a Godly man.

[dynamicyandere]

I’ve left Christianity since, but I still believe in God. During the 10+ years that I was a Christian though, I was very devout. I served on the praise team for 4 years and lead bible studies for the college fellowship. Holy women will be drawn to holy men.

[Asker]

That is what I want so badly is for me and a woman to be each other's first real relationship.

[dynamicyandere]

If you’re looking for a Godly woman who’s saving herself for a Godly man, you’ll need to find her where Godly women go. Churches, fellowships, church events, volunteer work, mission trips, etc.

[Asker]

Keep in mind, I am not looking for a virgin in particular. I am seeking a woman that has never had a romantic connection with a guy.

[dynamicyandere]

Yeah, for sure! Still, the approach would be the same. Especially girls in their early 20’s. I haven’t heard of one using a Christian dating app. They meet all their boyfriends from doing activities, meeting them face-to-face, whether that be Christian girls on a college campus, or Christian girls attending a church somewhere. It all usually happens in person.

[dynamicyandere]

I’ve dated 3 girls from church. One lasted 1 year, one lasted 2.5 years, one lasted 3 months. I was the first boyfriend to 2 of them. I was in my early 20’s though.

[madhatters4]

try christian mingle. your church. or some place like that

[Siri137]

LOL :D

Are you serious? So, you want a woman who is not only a Christian (which denomination?), but also has never had a boyfriend or "romantic bond", but she doesn't have to be a virgin. Anything else? Does she have to be submissive too?

Where are these women? In your dreams! You're 29. Grow up!

[Asker]

The main thing is that she never had a boyfriend or romantic bond, especially from her youth.

[Siri137]

Why? Why is that so important?

[Asker]

It is reasons that I have evaluated over many years. It is extremely important to me for me and a woman to be each other's first real relationship.

[MzAsh]

Doesn’t exist. A woman’s world doesn’t revolve around you, buddy.

[Asker]

If I never had a real girlfriend myself, why is it not fair to desire a woman without a romantic past?

[MzAsh]

Weren’t you just talking about some girl you were talking to?

[MzAsh]

By the way, women were born to be magnetic and attractive, and to have experiences with multiple to many men. A woman with no past isn’t going to stick around. She’s going to get curious and move on, like just your snap girly did.

[Agagagagaga]

Women were born to be promiscuous and loose?

So the Puritans were right about them.

[Siri137]

@Agagagagaga The Puritans weren't right about anything at all!

[Apple1996]

They are already taken

[Asker]

I met a 25 year old woman online that has never had a boyfriend, is shy, and a Christian. She dropped me on snap sadly. I have other means of reaching out when the time comes.

[Apple1996]

Sucks to hear. She sounded like a good girl

[Asker]

I want her so badly. Is there any way to get her back?

[Apple1996]

Not sure that'd be up to you to contact her

[BoopBoopBeep]

At nearly 30 you want a woman that's never had a boyfriend? Wow I bet she'll be a real keeper.

[Asker]

She can be in her early to mid 20s. Hell, she can even be 18. But I assume the teens are not attracted to me anymore.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Fair assumption. Since most people start dating in junior high school how big of a pool do you think you're fishing from? I'm from the south. Not a lot of girls are making it out of HS without a boyfriend because in the rural areas everybody is playing matchmaker and in the urban areas the selection is incredibly dense of people walking around in barely anything during the humid summers and hormones are raging.

[Asker]

I don't know. I found this 25 year old woman that has never had a boyfriend, but she dropped me on snap.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Right... that's my point... the ones that never did are going to be the bottom of the barrel, because you're not getting everyone else's left-overs you're getting everyone else's discard pile.

[Anonymous]

Stop beating this subject to death. Enough is enough.

[Asker]

This is extremely important to me

[Opinion Owner]

We know since you come here daily to tell us about it. You’re getting redundant and tiresome. Knock it off.

[RedInnocent68]

In old movies. Grow up. You’re okay with a girl who’s not a virgin, but want them to have slept with someone they didn’t care about?

[Asker]

Usually a woman who had never had a boyfriend is also a virgin too. That is a bonus but not required, since I lost my virginity 8 years ago during a weekend hookup. I cannot hold that same standard. Although, I have never had a romantic relationship and an actual girlfriend. I seek a woman with the same inexperience as me.

[Adaeva]

When the time comes, I will be a very good and faithful wife but I am not a regular church-going Christian.

[Asker]

But have you ever had a boyfriend?

[Adaeva]

I have had lots of boyfriends. I change my boyfriend every time I meet another guy I like.

[Asker]

Well shit... you are eliminated then

[Adaeva]

Well, okay.

[RedInnocent68]

Also, she’s only 14… (Sorry, @adaeva.) Although, freakishly smart.

[Nikki1989]

Stop spamming the site with your pathetic, unrealistic rants. You have been beating this to death for as long as I can remember, and you are still in fantasy land.

[Samantha36]

I don't get why anyone would want that but anyway.. .. there's probably a dating website that specialises in it

[Lady_Heart]

Never had a boyfriend or romantic bond but not a virgin, a slut? One night stand? 🤷‍♀️

[RedInnocent68]

I know! Right?

[Lady_Heart]

Yup. i thk he wants a virgin but doesn't wanna say out loud, otherwise 🤷‍♀️

[Billlewis]

Well said, Goddess;)

[Lady_Heart]

Thanks bill

[Billlewis]

I don't think there' are too many men who deserve you, so that's a real challenge for anyone.

[Anonymous]

Probably in a cult somewhere or maybe Amish country

[Asker]

Why something that extreme?

[Opinion Owner]

Only places that are pretty prohibitive towards relationships unless you get married etc

[Asker]

I would assume Amish girls have had romantic bonds with boys in their villiages. It doesn't have to be sexual at all. Even just a close best friendship where she grew up with him and had feelings for each other. That is enough to turn me off.

[Opinion Owner]

From what I've seen the separate the genders until marital age to train them in different skills

[love_conquers_lust]

I was disqualified in the 4th grade with my first girlfriend. Ahhhh, Jennifer. She was so pretty.

[DarkWinterNights]

What do you offer a woman that meets these standards?

[kaxeka56577]

I know many virgin women my age but very few women who have not had a boyfriend, the majority of women who have not had a boyfriend are ugly or nerdy women.

[Asker]

Why do you come to that conclusion? An average girl would work for me.

[kaxeka56577]

I was explicit and said that my conclusion is based on experience.

[msc545]

There are very few, and the ones that are actually as you desire don't want you.

[Asker]

Why wouldn't they want me?

[Anonymous]

Get off the high horse please... or write this post again in 10 years lol

[MissBoogus]

Find the quiet ones and need to get them straight outta school

[Masterodd]

I'm in the same boat brother, we should collaborate and find them. :)

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Surely, you'll find 'em in the convents.

[Lliam]

In convents. LOL

[electromagnetic]

Probably in church avoiding y’all.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Out there somewhere, hopefully

[Asker]

I hope and I pray

[mobiusforniner]

Outside of moms basement.

[sheikalana]

Nowhere to be found LOL.

[BigDog1989]

in the monasteries?

[Anonymous]

In your dreams.

[Asker]

Why do you say that?

[exitseven]

Give it up.

[Massageman]

At our church

[Unit1]

You again...