A woman's value drops when she believes her value has dropped. It has nothing to do with chronological age. Actually, I don't see value in women who aren't seniors, as multi-generational relationships tend to add significant complications. For every type of person, there are people who are drawn to that type of person. Make the most of what already exists rather than attempt to be something you're not. Always choose someone who appreciates and desires you as you are, not for the potential you can become.
Only people still attempting to hold onto their youth see value in a relationship with someone who still looks like a teenager. I'm more concerned about compatibility than specific looks, as long as she continues to take care of herself and not legitimize lack of self-care by declaring any sense of entitlement or claim of normalcy.
You ask if it is a woman's fault if her value drops. Obviously it is, for the only way her value could drop is if she chooses to view herself as having less value. No one can take a person's value away from them. If you choose to play the victim, no one but you can be responsible for that choice.
She doesn't drop in values as she gets older/mature... Actually she can get Better seen, more Wanted.. but that is from her POV as how high she raised the Wall/Standards, with the passing years and experience. But like any human being... even if we fall we can get back up, dust ourself off an move on/keep going, as the "good feeling we had before", i'm sure they are still more to come along alway. I had found Awesome/Amazing mature women that, they thought "life/love/self upcoming" was lost, and they will never find that "mindly/heartly guilty pleasure" that they crave... well i proove them wrong to some of them...🤷♂️
Little doubt value drops , and you move from the functional period of reproduction , looking head on into a menopausal period , so naturally value drops as these fertility changes take place , there are still functions of course , if say over time fortunate to be a grand parent , have great employment , raise children , care for others..
So , its certainly not anyone's fault , its just how it is , the " moment in the sun " for females is brief , so its best to make the most of it.
no, it's not.
31 is young, I've seen so many women find relationships, make kids, get married after that age I lost count. don't submit to excuses.
for some people, their value goes up. time for spiritual revival...
No! Jesus Christ these questions and comments are so annoying. No. Stop centering men and what they think and how they determine our “value.” Live life for you. Anyone saying this stuff about value declining is full of shit and knows it. These are the same men who will say their pregnant wife is losing value because she is no longer a virgin. They will also correlate age with so many variables like “body count” when it’s hysterical because there are so many 18 year olds who have had several partners and many 30 year olds who haven’t had sex with anyone in their whole life.
On the basis of beauty I haven’t seen much evidence to support women getting less attractive with age. In fact I’m 28 and only started getting hot at 25 years old. I was a complete woof when I was 18-24.
also, yes, we all “age” but it’s the antithesis to dying so…
No lol. Your value is your looks of your ugly and fat at 21. You’re value is gone.
if you look 18 at 31. You have value.
LOOKS 🟰 VALUE.
Men specially, tend to say that your value drops as you age. Because they think you’re screwing more and more guys as you age. They think your body count get a higher as you age. And therefore they can’t train you. 🤣🤣🤣 LMAO.
And it’s the ugliest males saying this
By value if u mean our looks then yea people start to treat a little different but i dont think value is the right word honey... i just turned 29 n people still love me as they used to except sum who tease me by calling me a milf
Very untrue. We never lose value. If anything our value keeps going up as we get older since we are constantly working on bettering ourselves
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Value is subjective, so it depends on whose standards you’re going by.
I believe that the best standard is the standard you set for yourself. How YOU view yourself. How YOU view your value.
If you have been building your own self-respect and self-esteem and you value yourself, that’s the only value that really matters at the end of the day.
Nobody knows you like you know you. So only YOU truly know your true value anyway.
We look and function our best when we are young. As we lose that to age or other reasons of course we aren't as valueable. A younger woman is more beautiful and fertile and thats how nature works. So her value is higher in dating market than an older woman. Sorry to say that. But you would feel the same dating an older wrinkly guy right? he isn't as good as a young healthy man in your eyes? You would value the healthier good looking guy as a mate for yourself right? Why get upset at people for something you yourself will do or feel?
Dont believe that incel bullshit. Incels came up with this to cope that they are not getting puss by hoping that women will have it as bad as them when they get older.
Forgetting the fact that they are responsible for their own luck themselves.
I’m beginning to feel this a lot and I think it’s because we’re being measured on our fertility. It’s so sad how on top of everything else, now I feel like I have to quickly find a good guy to settle down long term with or else it may be too late for me
It is no more a woman's fault that her value drops as she ages than it is a man's fault that his value is low until he reaches a certain age, maturity level and status in life. But both have some control over their destiny.
A woman would be wise to secure a good mate and life partner when she is in her prime rather than squandering those years on building a career only to find herself in the dougnut hole.
And a man would be wise to work on his career, maturity, character and assets as early in his adulthood as possible to be in a position to land one of the wise women I described above before some other guy does.
I think people need to distinguish between someone’s value as a person and their sexual market value, nobody’s value as a person goes down if they’re a good person that brings value to society. Sexual market value is different though, Girls is unfairly high from the time they hit puberty til about their 30’s and guys don’t really get our value til we’re at least in our mid 20’s and older but we actually have to work on ourselves to get value. Even below average looking girls gets tons of attention and sex for just existing
It’s not a woman’s fault that her smv value drops as she gets older but it’s also not guys fault that ours is zero to begin with then it gets higher as we get older. life isn’t fair 🤷♂️
Who says her value drops?
I think if anything is rises.
She knows stuff, is more settled, knows who she is, what she wants and isn't afraid to ask for it, has more freetime/freedom.
Usually has raised her family and has a wealth of knowledge to share with others.
Value?
Well, her sexual appeal and ability to land a good husband goes down the older she gets. If she is 31 and has slept around a lot through life and has lots of trauma and baggage to deal with, she is less of an appealing wife option then a 23 year old in most cases.
Value on the sexual market that is.
No, it's not her fault, it's nature's fault.
older=less likely to reproduce
less likely to reproduce=less value *
* According to nature's valuation system. Ability to reproduce is nature's most important measure of human value since the species cannot survive without it.
Listen to a cynic: you have no merit in being attractive, nor any guilt in losing that attractiveness. The problem is that a large part of women have value only in the aspect that was given to them by nature and when they lose that there is nothing left.
It's not a woman's fault her value drops as she ages any more than it is a short man's fault he is short, that is just life not being fair as it tends to be. That being said, it is her fault if she doesn't lock down a good man before she loses too much of her value.
If you believe that lie then maybe there is nothing you can do. But if you are a woman who is confident in yourself and your actions then your value has only the limits you set on yourself. Those ass holes who put out that lie wishes that all women would believe it so that they might have a chance with some young girl. They are abusers of any female both verbally and mentally. They build themselves up by putting others down.
Says who? I feek like it's an extremely egocentric perspective to think than any humans have objective value at all.
The fact is, the only value system that even exists is the value system we personally create internally. Nothing in our lives matters or means anything to the massive and ever expanding infinite ends of the universe. Time and space are just measurement tools we humans created to try to understand the value of both but it's all relative
I don't get it. Why do we add value to people?
The older people, the more experience and knowledge they possess. Somehow, I'm much more attracted to people older than me because I can learn from them.
Your value doesn't drop.. You're still valuable as a person.. What they mean is that your dating prospects will drops that dating will a bit harder as you get older for a plethora of reasons unfortunately..
There no fucking value on someone’s life and worth sorry but age is a number and people need to start seeing what someone is truly doesn’t come from looks it’s who they are that matters
No I would say a woman value drops only by what she does and choice of lifestyle. Her getting older is no factor to me since every one is getting older.
That is just BS made popular by internet trolls. Anyone with half a brain knows it is not true.
God is Good- no Jesus died for all and your value is the price he paid which was his whole self. So no, your value doesn't wane as you age
A woman’s value only decreases after 30 when her value is being measured by her fertility. I have seen plenty of beautiful women in their 40s, 50, 60s and beyond. There's plenty of men who don't want kids and will pursue those women.
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