I don’t want kids, sex, a relationship or friends why is this?

[Anonymous]

I’m perfectly happy by the way and have a great relationship with my sister and other family members. I adore my solitude. Told this to someone as they reacted as though I was weird for thinking this

[Oliverlogan263]

Eh, I wouldn't worry too much about what that person said. Different folks just want different things outta life, and as long as you're cool with it that's all that matters.

Some people really thrive on relationships, sex, kids, the whole deal. But others just prefer their own company. Nothing wrong with that.

Personally I get why solitude can be so great - no drama, don't gotta check in with anyone, answer to yourself. Must be relaxing as hell.

Plus it's not like you're totally alone, sounds like you still got your family around for company when you want it. Best of both worlds if you ask me.

I'd just tell anyone who judges you for it that it works for you. Not like you're hurting anyone. People put too much stock in relationships being the be-all, end-all sometimes.

As long as you're happy chilling as a lone wolf, own dat shit. Their opinions mean nothing - you do you. Let em think what they want, lonely or not, right?

So fuck em, keep on keeping to yourself if that's your vibe. Nothing weird about wanting your space.

[Asker]

You sound such a nice person. Thank you for the great opinion. Im a lone wolf!! I will own it!!

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw thanks luv! And yeah totally own that lone wolf thing haha. Nothing wrong with marching to the beat of your own drum. Takes a real confident person to be comfortable just doing their own thing. Mad respect for that. And your family knows you best so who cares what anyone else thinks. Keep doing you! Sometimes it's cool to go it alone. Not everyone needs a big group or whatever. As long as you're happy that's all that matters. So own that lone wolf title with pride! Anyone gives you crap for it just be like "yeah I'm a lone wolf, what of it?" Haha. You do you!

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome

[tfan1]

To each their own. If you don’t want sex, I hope you want masturbation at least 👍🙂

[Asker]

I keep wondering why and almost justifying myself to others when it’s simply different

[jahaims]

Because it is the easiest path

[Asker]

Yeah just too tired for it

[DannyUk2017]

Is beacuse you became an Introvert/incell...🤷‍♂️

[DannyUk2017]

*because

[Asker]

Introvert yh whats an incel