Is it childish if you have a hard time speaking to people first and making the first move?

[graacceey]

If the reason is due to anxiety, fear of not being accepted etc?

[aceleon]

i had that when i was a teen it changed once i saw that there were people worst than me and there was no need to feel scared, these peoples doesn't know you, they don't know anything bad about you yet youmight as well act however you like it won't look strange with them.

[TalkWithoutSpeaking]

No, not childish. But the insecurity does originate in childhood trauma. It's all about acceptance and not judging it like saying it is childish

[TalkWithoutSpeaking]

Thanks for MHO

[Lisia]

I don't think so, I have it. 😊

[jahaims]

Not dealing with an issue is childish.

[Sunnybeach123]

It's totally understandable. Happened to me.

[dudeinohio]

Not at all childish.