Boyfriend says he doesn’t like taking photos but there are tons of him with his ex on Facebook that he’s tagged in by her and family but none with me?

[Anonymous]

Should I be concerned? I know it sounds silly but one he says he doesn’t like taking photos when I try to take some of us. I’m not one to broadcast my life in social media but it makes me sad that he had no problem cheesing for her and family but for me it’s a problem. Makes me feel like I’m being hidden or he’s ashamed of me.

[Changiis07]

Honestly yes I'd be a little concerned, because I would feel the same way as you. It's almost like maybe he still has her family or someone on her side on his social media that he doesn't want to see photos of you two. Could be different things

[Asker]

Exactly and they’ve been separated for more than two to three years now so I don’t get it

[Changiis07]

He should understand how you feel because I'd feel like he would be hiding me as well. If he rather take professional photos then you can work something out

[Anonymous]

Usually people delete them after a break-up, but then again, memories are memories. You shouldn't be so insecure.

[Asker]

I’m not concerned with or insecure with the fact that there are photos of him with his ex. You’re missing the point. I’m concerned with the fact that he was more than happy to take photos with her but refuses to take any with me

[Asker]

Every time I try to or ask him to take a photo with him he uses the excuse that he hates photos and that we shouldn’t take one, but he had no problem taking affectionate or staged photos with his ex that she and he also posted. I just want photos saved to my phone for memories, not for posting on the internet

[MikeTheBartender]

Maybe she forcdd him? Did he look better in those photos? Is he fat now? More context, but offhand not such a big deal.

[Asker]

Haha not fat, he’s very attractive and just not photogenic but doesn’t look terrible in these photos. I talked to him about it and he said we can totally take pictures together whenever I want and that he just doesn’t think he’s photogenic

[MikeTheBartender]

❤️ perfect

[Anonymous]

That means you're just the side chick and he's still dating her.

[Asker]

It’s his baby mama who he seems to despise. He has no photos of her on his actual profile but she still has photos of him tagged of her page.

[Anonymous]

Talk to him about it

[Asker]

Yeah I see him this weekend so I’ll discuss it with him

[Opinion Owner]

Good