Boyfriend doesn't like my pictures on Instagram or Facebook?

[Anonymous]

Thus happens a lot, my boyfriend fails to like my pictures on Facebook but I see he has liked other people's pictures. I feel bad. If I ask him he says he didn't see them. I just uploaded another while he was online but he hasn't liked it and went offline 7 mins later. Do I let it go?

[TheFury]

This is not exactly something so important to be worried about, big deal he didn't like your pictures, if he's in a relationship with you then he must find you attractive anyway and he sees you consistently. One thing I will tell you is this, when a woman behaves insecure and lacks confidence especially over miner things that hold absolutely no significane what so ever, nothing is a bigger turn off than that. Men crave a confident woman it's just sexy to them, plus a cofident woman is less shy in the bedroom which really keeps them going. If your not getting the attention you need from him then try building up some self esteem, stop nagging and becoming insecure over little petty things and I almost gurentee you'll get what you want. Also if you do this please for the love of God himself don't! Don't sit looking into the mirror obsessing over every little flaw or slight blemish I'm a chick and I absolutely hate when women do that so I can only imagine what men must feel about it. If men did that and nagged or wined everytime the adverage woman didn't like a picture on Facebook or everytime she ignored them because their lack of confidence just made her shy away she would probably run because shr would either feel their far to femine and assume they are gay or we would try to force them into counseling. I'm not saying you are like this but it appears that you may lack some self confidence considering you are obsessing over your boyfriend not hitting a like button. As for @justin66 comment I think he would do that just so his woman would have to be confident enough to send him the pictures or show them to him.

[Asker]

Your comment is so enlightening and kind
I admit I am an insecure woman, I get especially jealous if I see he liked some other girl's picture and not mine
Thank you so much :)

[TheFury]

I figured that, just take my advice and you will see things turn around real quick.

[Asker]

I hope they do
I really do

[TheFury]

Just relax, be confident, and find your inner goddess.

[Asker]

Thank you
I'll definitely work towards my confidence

[Autumn_stone]

My SO does the same thing, and I've actually seen him like other girls pictures too, I will never understand why. I mean it's not like he can hide me people already know we're together and his profile picture is us together, they don't understand why that type of thing makes us feel special

[Asker]

Should I be worried? How do you deal with it?

[Autumn_stone]

I wouldn't be worried, I mean it really is no big deal. But if your concerned maybe just joke around one day and say "hey did you see the pic I posted? how do i look?" And tell him you didn't see that he liked it

[Asker]

I've done this twice before, he just says he forgot
It's so stupid

[Autumn_stone]

Yeahh that does sound stupid but I wouldn't get too riled up about it, it'll only cause problems and arguments, maybe Start not liking his pictures or even start liking other guys pictures and if he asks why just say that they liked yours so you returned the favor lol

[Asker]

I doubt he would notice but I'll try it
Ah so irritating

[openthedoors]

No that's a problem if he doesn't like your pictures... Why doesn't he do that? That's incredibly weird I just like everybody's pics. He's weird maybe even a nerd.

[Asker]

Should I be worried?

[openthedoors]

Yes of course you should. Why not to like pics that's like something you do to everyone.

[fueledbythc]

You're so insecure. Social media is very trivial in a relationship so why bother caring so much. What's more important is if he ignores you, seems distant, he's trying to hide some thing is when you should be worried. You didn't mention how your relationship is so I don't know but Ill assume things are fine. Don't bring this up to him because it will only cause trouble. Rememeber, social media is not important in a relationship.

[Asker]

Umm can I please send you a pruvate message?

[fueledbythc]

Sure.

[Asker]

I followed you just now
Can you text?
I am not able to

[fueledbythc]

Yeah I'll send you a message

[capturemyheartnow]

Some boyfriends don't go and like their girlfriends pictures only because they don't want other people to know that they are friendly. When he likes some girls pictures , it doesn't mean that he likes those girls. You might have liked so many boys pictures here on gags. But that doesn't mean that you like those boys in your private life. Same principle should be followed in this case to judge your boyfriend.

[Chico_brah]

These are the issues people are having in relationships today? lmao

[RJGraveyTrain]

This was going to be my answer. Lol. My boyfriend never likes my shit, I don't care.

[Asker]

@RJGraveyTrain

[Elarra]

This is such a small thing to worry about. It's 100% possible he doesn't see them and who cares if he did? It's Facebook. I feel like this really isn't important.

[Shy_Boy]

Maybe he is shy to show his love in social media.. Maybe..

[genericname85]

Why does he need to like your stupid social media, when he can straight up tell you that he likes you?

[Sweetie3423]

This is something you should let go. Him liking your pics is not really a big deal. I wouldn't worry about it. Now if was watching your every move then that would be a problem.

[madhatters4]

yes let it go. liking pictures on social media should have little bearing on your relationship

[baabyput]

Let it go ☹️️ dont worry about small things like that really

[CheyenneBae]

Why is that so important, I'd rather have my boyfriend like me in real life than on social media.

[NajemEddine]

that bastard kill him :p
my god u are very weak and insecure

[OfDeath]

Seriously, this isn't an important subject.

[SarahsSummer]

yes, let it go

[Anonymous]

Yes it's not really a big deal

[Unknown15]

I'd just let t go,

[justin66]

he is like me lol

[Asker]

You don't like your girlfriend's pictures either?

[justin66]

i do , but i want her to show me herself. then i will like it

[Asker]

Why?

[Celina25]

maybe he don't care

[lolita1616]

So what